\u201ePredstav si, v\u00a0nede\u013eu i\u0161iel r\u00e1no o\u00a0deviatej do kostola a\u00a0vr\u00e1til sa a\u017e o\u00a0polnoci,\u201c s\u0165a\u017eoval sa m\u00f4j zn\u00e1my na syna, ktor\u00fd sl\u00fa\u017ei v\u00a0chv\u00e1lospevovej kapele. Bol smutn\u00fd a\u00a0nahnevan\u00fd. V\u00a0nejednej miluj\u00facej kres\u0165anskej dom\u00e1cnosti doch\u00e1dza \u010dasto k podobn\u00fdm konfliktom kv\u00f4li slu\u017ebe mlad\u00fdch. Svoje deti rodi\u010dia miluj\u00fa a\u00a0s\u00fa ve\u013emi hrd\u00ed a\u00a0\u0161\u0165astn\u00ed, \u017ee deti sl\u00fa\u017eia v\u00a0cirkvi, v\u0161emo\u017ene ich v\u00a0tom podporuj\u00fa, ale v\u0161etko m\u00e1 svoje hranice. Ak b\u00fdvaj\u00fa spolo\u010dne s\u00a0rodi\u010dmi v\u00a0jednom byte, ale pr\u00eddu sa domov iba vyspa\u0165, s\u00a0ni\u010d\u00edm nepom\u00f4\u017eu a\/alebo zanedb\u00e1vaj\u00fa \u0161kolu, nestret\u00e1va sa to s\u00a0pochopen\u00edm. Ako tomu predch\u00e1dza\u0165? Ako si zadeli\u0165 priority?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ka\u017ed\u00e1 rodina si mus\u00ed n\u00e1js\u0165 svoju jedine\u010dn\u00fa cestu vo vz\u00e1jomnom dial\u00f3gu, predsa v\u0161ak m\u00f4\u017eeme identifikova\u0165 ur\u010dit\u00e9 spolo\u010dn\u00e9 princ\u00edpy, ktor\u00fdmi m\u00f4\u017eu ml\u00e1de\u017en\u00edcki ved\u00faci vies\u0165 svoje ove\u010dky k\u00a0spr\u00e1vnemu a\u00a0zdrav\u00e9mu \u017eivotn\u00e9mu rytmu.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Niekedy zvykneme naz\u00fdva\u0165 slu\u017ebou Bohu iba tu v\u00a0cirkvi, v zbore \u2013 ako ved\u00faci ml\u00e1de\u017ee, dorastu, na chv\u00e1lach, na skupink\u00e1ch. To je v\u0161ak ve\u013ek\u00fd omyl.\u00a0
V\u00a01Kor 10:31 sa hovor\u00ed: \u201e\u010ci teda jete alebo pijete, alebo \u010doko\u013evek rob\u00edte, v\u0161etko robte na Bo\u017eiu sl\u00e1vu.\u201c <\/p>\n\n\n\n
V slu\u017ebe Bohu sa m\u00e1me dok\u00e1za\u0165 najsk\u00f4r vo vlastnej rodine a\u00a0a\u017e potom v\u00a0cirkvi. Ml\u00e1de\u017en\u00edkov vedieme, aby z\u00edskali spr\u00e1vne n\u00e1vyky nielen pre tento \u010das, ale po zvy\u0161ok \u017eivota. Ak sa nau\u010dia, \u017ee v\u0161etok \u010das tr\u00e1via iba mimo domova a\u00a0vlastn\u00e1 rodina zost\u00e1va na chvoste, je ve\u013emi pravdepodobn\u00e9, \u017ee tak bud\u00fa raz fungova\u0165 ako otcovia, mamy \u010di partneri, \u010do nie je dobr\u00e9 ani zdrav\u00e9.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pomoc v\u00a0dom\u00e1cnosti nie je \u201emenej duchovn\u00e1\u201c. Pokia\u013e \u017eije\u0161 v\u00a0spolo\u010dnej dom\u00e1cnosti s\u00a0rodi\u010dmi \u010di dokonca \u0165a \u017eivia, je \u00faplne samozrejm\u00e9, \u017ee sa zap\u00e1ja\u0161 do dom\u00e1cich pr\u00e1c.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee pr\u00e1ve teraz, do\u010dasne, m\u00e1\u0161 mimoriadnu situ\u00e1ciu v\u00a0zbore a\u00a0potrebuje\u0161 da\u0165 svojej slu\u017ebe v\u0161etko. Napr\u00edklad organizuje\u0161 konferenciu ml\u00e1de\u017ee alebo t\u00e1bor. V\u00a0takom pr\u00edpade je dobr\u00e9 sa s\u00a0rodi\u010dmi dohodn\u00fa\u0165, vysvetli\u0165 im situ\u00e1ciu, stanovi\u0165 nejak\u00fd term\u00edn, po ktorom bud\u00fa va\u0161e rodinn\u00e9 rytmy zasa fungova\u0165 a\u00a0ty im bude\u0161 znova pom\u00e1ha\u0165. Ak svoj s\u013eub dodr\u017e\u00ed\u0161 a\u00a0oni sa na teba m\u00f4\u017eu spo\u013eahn\u00fa\u0165, ur\u010dite \u0165a radi podporia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Inokedy zasa bude mimoriadna situ\u00e1cia v\u00a0rodine (choroba rodi\u010dov apod.) a\u00a0ty obmedz\u00ed\u0161 slu\u017ebu, aby si viacej pom\u00e1hal doma. Treba v tom h\u013eada\u0165 Bo\u017eiu m\u00fadros\u0165.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ak si obdarovan\u00fd nato\u013eko, \u017ee m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 \u0161tudova\u0165, mal by si to zobra\u0165 v\u00e1\u017ene a\u00a0robi\u0165 to zodpovedne. \u0160t\u00fadium trv\u00e1 iba kr\u00e1tky \u010das, jeho ovocie m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 vyu\u017e\u00edva\u0165 cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Ak bude\u0161 raz IT\u010dk\u00e1r, pr\u00e1vnik \u010di u\u010dite\u013eka, svojimi znalos\u0165ami m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 by\u0165 spolo\u010denstvu a\u00a0Bohu ve\u013emi u\u017eito\u010dn\u00fd. \u00daprimne povedan\u00e9, u\u017e nikdy nebude\u0161 ma\u0165 to\u013eko vo\u013en\u00e9ho \u010dasu, ako po\u010das \u0161t\u00fadia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A op\u00e4\u0165: s\u00fa obdobia, kedy ide \u0161kola trocha bokom a\u00a0slu\u017eba m\u00e1 prioritu. Ale tak\u00e9 veci si treba naozaj dobre uv\u00e1\u017ei\u0165 a\u00a0premodli\u0165. Zborov\u00ed ved\u00faci by mali by\u0165 na tak\u00e9to situ\u00e1cie rozhodne opatrn\u00ed a\u00a0konzultova\u0165 ich s\u00a0rodi\u010dmi. Slu\u017eba by nemala prikr\u00fdva\u0165 z\u00e1\u0161kol\u00e1ctvo \u010di lenivos\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ka\u017ed\u00fd si mus\u00ed vst\u00fapi\u0165 do svedomia, \u010di niekedy nepou\u017eil slu\u017ebu v\u00a0zbore ako v\u00fdhovorku. Tr\u00e1vi\u0161 cel\u00fd de\u0148 v\u00a0zbore nie preto lebo je to potrebn\u00e9, ale preto lebo je to pr\u00edjemn\u00e9. Nie preto lebo sl\u00fa\u017ei\u0161, ale preto lebo si s\u00a0priate\u013emi. Doma sa potom odvol\u00e1va\u0161 na n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 duchovn\u00e9 poslanie.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n
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