{"id":9829,"date":"2022-04-28T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-28T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=9829"},"modified":"2024-04-19T10:05:09","modified_gmt":"2024-04-19T08:05:09","slug":"uz-nie-sme-pristebotani-pohlad-do-nasich-manzelstiev","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/uz-nie-sme-pristebotani-pohlad-do-nasich-manzelstiev\/","title":{"rendered":"U\u017e nie sme \u201epri\u0161tebotan\u00ed\u201d \u2013 poh\u013ead do na\u0161ich man\u017eelstiev"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak si nikdy nevidel Disneyho rozpr\u00e1vku Bambi, bude\u0161 musie\u0165 \u010d\u00edta\u0165 \u010falej, aby si pochopil, o \u010dom hovor\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"rCxPeaB0U4Vk3c08dnG8JiCt1IqRZQapi3VwL7syH6MOT4FehOmvdWjKEbnNGDMxy21JXzbmf2KolUcLSS\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"twitterpated\" width=\"720\" height=\"540\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9Qq-dGMVOzc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=9Qq-dGMVOzc&amp;ab_channel=pinkcakerocks\">tomto kr\u00e1tkom klipe<\/a> z rozpr\u00e1vky sa nau\u010d\u00ed\u0161, \u010do slovo \u201epri\u0161tebotan\u00fd\u201d (ang. twitterpated) znamen\u00e1. Ak sa ti zap\u00e1\u010di a chcel by si vidie\u0165 e\u0161te jeden, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=N12dH1lIE74&amp;ab_channel=GokarnaPoudel\">tu je<\/a> sc\u00e9na, ktor\u00e1 toto slovo ilustruje ob\u0161\u00edrnej\u0161ie. Zvierat\u00e1 v pr\u00edbehu si u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa jar, nov\u00fd \u017eivot naokolo a nov\u00fa l\u00e1sku, ktor\u00e1 s n\u00edm prich\u00e1dza. Po\u010fme sa, popri tom ako si moment\u00e1lne tie\u017e u\u017e\u00edvame jar, pozrie\u0165 na l\u00e1sku a na to, \u010do s \u0148ou robi\u0165, ak t\u00e1 na\u0161a nie je a\u017e tak\u00e1 nov\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Budem rozli\u0161ova\u0165 medzi t\u00fdm, ke\u010f je niekto \u201epri\u0161tebotan\u00fd\u201d a ke\u010f je za\u013e\u00faben\u00fd. Vymyslen\u00e9 slovo hovor\u00ed o tom, ke\u010f je niekto pobl\u00e1znen\u00fd druhou osobou, najm\u00e4 na za\u010diatku nov\u00e9ho rozv\u00edjaj\u00faceho sa vz\u0165ahu. T\u00ed z n\u00e1s, ktor\u00ed sme v man\u017eelstve, sa vieme v duchu prenies\u0165 sp\u00e4\u0165 k d\u0148u, kedy sme prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t stretli n\u00e1\u0161ho bud\u00faceho partnera\/partnerku a vieme si vybavi\u0165 tie nov\u00e9 vzru\u0161uj\u00face pocity z toho, \u017ee sme za\u013e\u00faben\u00ed do \u010dloveka, ktor\u00e9ho si raz vezmeme. Ako to sova v klipe popisuje, bolo to ako vzn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 sa v priestore. V\u0161etky na\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00e1 odvtedy dospeli a d\u00fafam, \u017ee sme v nich ka\u017ed\u00fd r\u00e1stli do h\u013abky. Viac sme sa navz\u00e1jom spoznali, pre\u017eili spolu viac \u017eivota, za\u017eili v\u00fdslnia aj p\u00e1dy, kr\u00e1sne i \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie \u010dasy. Zrejme by sme sa v\u0161ak v\u0161etci zhodli, \u017ee pocit pobl\u00e1znenia, ktor\u00fd sme za\u017e\u00edvali na za\u010diatku, sa zmenil. A zrejme sa n\u00e1m u\u017e v bl\u00edzkosti n\u00e1\u0161ho partnera nest\u00e1va, \u017ee by sa n\u00e1m \u201epodlamovali kolen\u00e1, kr\u00fatila hlava\u201d, ani sa \u201enevzn\u00e1\u0161ame ako pierko.\u201d V \u017eiadnom pr\u00edpade to v\u0161ak neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee by sme sa u\u017e ne\u013e\u00fabili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chcela by som\nv\u0161etk\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed sme v man\u017eelstve a nie sme u\u017e \u201epri\u0161tebotan\u00ed\u201d povzbudi\u0165, aby\nsme: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>rozpoznali a ocenili h\u013abku l\u00e1sky a priate\u013estva, v ktor\u00fdch\nna\u0161e man\u017eelstvo nar\u00e1stlo;<\/li><li>objavovali kreat\u00edvne sp\u00f4soby, ako op\u00e4\u0165 prinies\u0165 rados\u0165 a\nnovotu t\u00fdch skor\u00fdch \u201ejarn\u00fdch\u201d dn\u00ed na\u0161ej za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00facej l\u00e1sky.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavol hovor\u00ed\no l\u00e1ske v 1. liste Korin\u0165anom 13. Dobre t\u00fato kapitolu pozn\u00e1me, chcela by som\npreto len pripomen\u00fa\u0165 ver\u0161e 7 a 8: \u201e<em>v\u0161etko zn\u00e1\u0161a, v\u0161etko ver\u00ed,\nv\u0161etko d\u00fafa a v\u0161etko vydr\u017e\u00ed.&nbsp;L\u00e1ska nikdy nezanikne.<\/em><em>\u201d<\/em> L\u00e1ska, ktor\u00e1 \u010dasom rastie v\nKristovi, z\u00edskava vyspelos\u0165 a h\u013abku. Viac sa o sebe navz\u00e1jom u\u010d\u00edme, u\u010d\u00edme sa\nspolu \u017ei\u0165, komunikova\u0165, vysporiada\u0165 sa s rozdielmi, u\u010d\u00edme sa, ako by\u0165 viac\npodobn\u00ed Kristovi, ako sa pre druh\u00e9ho obetova\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">V\u00fdzva 1<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sadnite si\ntento t\u00fd\u017ede\u0148 s partnerom spolu (#rande!) a pomenujte sp\u00f4soby, ktor\u00fdmi ste\nvideli va\u0161e man\u017eelstvo r\u00e1s\u0165. Povedzte tomu druh\u00e9mu, \u010do z&nbsp;toho, \u010do urobili,\nprinieslo do v\u00e1\u0161ho man\u017eelstva kr\u00e1su a l\u00e1sku. Uve\u010fte niektor\u00e9 situ\u00e1cie, ako v\u00e1m\npartner\/partnerka preuk\u00e1zali Kristovu l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V pr\u00edpade Eda\na m\u0148a by som po 22 rokoch v man\u017eelstve povedala, \u017ee na\u0161a l\u00e1ska vyr\u00e1stla v\notvorenosti a d\u00f4vere. Obr\u00fasili sme sa navz\u00e1jom, nau\u010dili sa spolu pracova\u0165, a\npodr\u00e1stli sme v \u00faprimnosti. Aj on aj ja by sme povedali, \u017ee \u201epri\u0161tebotan\u00ed\u201d u\u017e\nnie sme. Edovi sa u\u017e nepodlamuj\u00fa kolen\u00e1, ke\u010f ma dr\u017e\u00ed za ruku. Povedala by som,\n\u017ee ani ja sa nevzn\u00e1\u0161am vo vzduchu, ke\u010f pr\u00edde z pr\u00e1ce domov. Ale to, \u010do sme sa o\nsebe navz\u00e1jom nau\u010dili a \u010d\u00edm sme spolu pre\u0161li, rozv\u00edjalo h\u013abku n\u00e1\u0161ho vz\u0165ahu. A\nv\u010faka n\u00e1\u0161mu Spasite\u013eovi sa n\u00e1\u0161 spolo\u010dn\u00fd duchovn\u00fd rast stal z\u00e1kladom na\u0161ej\nprehlbuj\u00facej sa l\u00e1sky a oddanosti vo\u010di tomu druh\u00e9mu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ke\u010f sme v\nman\u017eelstve dospeli k tomu, \u017ee pocity pobl\u00e1znenia z \u010dasu, kedy sme sa do seba\nza\u013e\u00fabili, dozreli po rokoch do vytrvalej l\u00e1sky, ver\u00edm, \u017ee je dobr\u00e9 z\u00e1merne\nprinies\u0165 nie\u010do zo za\u0161lej romantiky sp\u00f4sobmi, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa pre n\u00e1s ako p\u00e1r v\u00fdznamn\u00e9\na d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">V\u00fdzva 2<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Op\u00fdtajte sa\nsvojho partnera\/partnerky, \u010do z va\u0161ich ran\u00fdch dn\u00ed randenia \u010di man\u017eelstva im\nch\u00fdba. \u010co ich k v\u00e1m pri\u0165ahovalo a mo\u017eno ste od toho v \u201epohodl\u00ed\u201d man\u017eelstva\nupustili. Na jednej strane, c\u00edti\u0165 sa v man\u017eelstve v pohodl\u00ed je skvel\u00e1 vec. Ste\nnajlep\u0161\u00ed priatelia. Ste v l\u00e1ske toho druh\u00e9ho v bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Na druhej strane to m\u00f4\u017ee\nsp\u00f4sobi\u0165, \u017ee ste spokojn\u00ed a neuvedomujete si potrebu usilova\u0165 sa spr\u00e1va\u0165 k tomu\ndruh\u00e9mu s l\u00e1skou, re\u0161pektom a v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00fdm obdivom, ktor\u00fd patr\u00ed len tomu, koho\nv\u00e1m Boh dal v man\u017eelstve. Ke\u010f zist\u00ed, \u010do tomu druh\u00e9mu ch\u00fdba z dn\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161ho \u201epri\u0161tebotania\u201d,\ndaj si cie\u013e prinies\u0165 nie\u010do z toho sp\u00e4\u0165, hoci len v malom mno\u017estve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Op\u00fdtala som\nsa Eda t\u00fato ot\u00e1zku nie tak d\u00e1vno. Bez poch\u00fdb viem, \u017ee Ed ma ako Wendi v roku\n2022 \u013e\u00fabi, no chcela som vedie\u0165, \u010do mu ch\u00fdba z Wendi v roku 2000. Toto: ch\u00fdba\nmu spont\u00e1nnos\u0165, ktorou som sa vyzna\u010dovala; to, \u017ee som bola ochotn\u00e1 spravi\u0165 veci\nbez toho, aby mi to bolo vopred ozn\u00e1men\u00e9, \u017ee som sa vedela zabavi\u0165 bez toho,\naby som to pl\u00e1novala. Hej. M\u00e1 pravdu. Tak\u017ee to je moja v\u00fdzva samej sebe. Pre\nEda. Preto\u017ee ho \u013e\u00fabim hlb\u0161ie ako kedyko\u013evek predt\u00fdm. Niekedy je v&nbsp;na\u0161ich\ndlhodob\u00fdch man\u017eelstv\u00e1ch d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 pripomen\u00fa\u0165 si to, ke\u010f sme zanepr\u00e1zdnen\u00ed\n\u017eivotom mnoho dn\u00ed, mesiacov, rokov. Niekedy sa len potrebujeme vr\u00e1ti\u0165 k \u201estar\u00fdm\ndobr\u00fdm \u010dasom\u201c,&nbsp;spomen\u00fa\u0165 si, ak\u00ed sme boli a&nbsp;prinies\u0165 si to\nk&nbsp;n\u00e1\u0161mu dne\u0161n\u00e9mu ja. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pri\u0161tebotan\u00ed? Mo\u017eno \u00e1no, mo\u017eno nie.  <br>Hlboko za\u013e\u00faben\u00ed? Rozhodne \u00e1no! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fotografia: <a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/sk\/users\/dewdrop157-1559210\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=1324088\">dewdrop157<\/a>\/<a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/sk\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=1324088\">Pixabay<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ak si nikdy nevidel Disneyho rozpr\u00e1vku Bambi, bude\u0161 musie\u0165 \u010d\u00edta\u0165 \u010falej, aby si pochopil, o \u010dom hovor\u00edm. V tomto kr\u00e1tkom klipe z rozpr\u00e1vky sa nau\u010d\u00ed\u0161, \u010do slovo \u201epri\u0161tebotan\u00fd\u201d (ang. twitterpated) znamen\u00e1. Ak sa ti zap\u00e1\u010di a chcel by si vidie\u0165 e\u0161te jeden, tu je sc\u00e9na, ktor\u00e1 toto slovo ilustruje ob\u0161\u00edrnej\u0161ie. 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