{"id":9705,"date":"2022-04-05T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-05T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=9705"},"modified":"2024-04-19T10:05:09","modified_gmt":"2024-04-19T08:05:09","slug":"ja-tiez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/ja-tiez\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201eJa tie\u017e!\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pred \u010dasom sme sa venovali t\u00e9me po\u010d\u00favania v s\u00e9rii: Po\u010d\u00favam…<\/a> Dnes by sme sa k nej e\u0161te chceli na chv\u00ed\u013eu vr\u00e1ti\u0165. Ver\u00edme, \u017ee aj tento \u010dl\u00e1nok od Wendi m\u00f4\u017ee vytvori\u0165 priestor na prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eanie nad t\u00fdm, ako reagujeme na t\u00fdch, s ktor\u00fdmi sa rozpr\u00e1vame. Pripravme teraz svoje srdcia a po\u010d\u00favajme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eJa tie\u017e!\u201d posluch\u00e1\u010d <\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Ak si \u010d\u00edtal moje predch\u00e1dzaj\u00face \u010dl\u00e1nky, mo\u017eno si pam\u00e4t\u00e1\u0161, ako som hovorila o oblastiach svojho \u017eivota, v ktor\u00fdch som bola usved\u010den\u00e1, \u017ee rob\u00edm veci z vlastnej sily, z \u201etela\u201d, a bolo to tak pre m\u0148a pohodln\u00e9. V tomto \u010dl\u00e1nku hovor\u00edm o \u010fal\u0161ej podobnej oblasti. Oblasti, pri ktorej som si a\u017e doned\u00e1vna v\u00f4bec neuvedomila, \u017ee to tak rob\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stalo sa ti u\u017e, \u017ee si pri\nrozhovore s niek\u00fdm povedal nie\u010do o sebe a ten druh\u00fd reagoval: \u201eJa tie\u017e!\u201d a hne\u010f\nna to ti rozpovedal svoj pr\u00edbeh? Na jednej strane, ke\u010f sa obe strany striedaj\u00fa\npri zdie\u013ean\u00ed svojich sk\u00fasenost\u00ed, je to nie\u010do, \u010do konverz\u00e1ciu pos\u00fava vpred. Na\nstrane druhej, mo\u017eno sa ti pri takomto rozhovore u\u017e stalo, \u017ee posluch\u00e1\u010d \u0165a a\u017e\ntak \u00faplne nepo\u010d\u00faval, a rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eal sk\u00f4r o tom, \u010do \u010fal\u0161ie by chcel poveda\u0165 o sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aj ja som vinn\u00e1 ako \u201eJa tie\u017e!\u201d posluch\u00e1\u010d. Uvedomila som si, \u017ee \u010dasto pri po\u010d\u00favan\u00ed druh\u00e9ho \u010dloveka rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam nad t\u00fdm, \u010do hovor\u00ed a ako sa to vz\u0165ahuje na m\u0148a. Pre\u010do? Pre\u010do sa to st\u00e1le mus\u00ed oto\u010di\u0165 na m\u0148a? Myslela som si, \u017ee tak \u013eu\u010fom uk\u00e1\u017eem, \u017ee rozumiem tomu, \u010do hovoria; \u017ee som tam bola tie\u017e. Teraz v\u0161ak rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam, \u010di som namiesto toho nechcela len vnies\u0165 do konverz\u00e1cie seba, urobi\u0165 to cel\u00e9 o\u00a0mne, vybudova\u0165 miesto pre seba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vol\u00e1 n\u00e1s k tomu Biblia<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

V na\u0161ej slu\u017ebe n\u00e1s\nP\u00e1n Boh \u010dasto vol\u00e1 k tomu, aby sme na\u010d\u00favali druh\u00fdm. Ako m\u00f4\u017eem vola\u0165 \u201eNa\ntoto potrebujem Je\u017ei\u0161a!\u201c popri tom, ako po\u010d\u00favam? Ako sa m\u00f4\u017eem spo\u013eahn\u00fa\u0165 na Jeho\nsilu a spravi\u0165 to cel\u00e9 o \u0147om namiesto toho, aby som to cel\u00e9 spravila\no sebe? Biblia o t\u00e9me na\u010d\u00favania a z\u00e1ujmu o druh\u00fdch hovor\u00ed\nna dvoch r\u00f4znych miestach toto:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jakub 1:19 \u201eVedzte, bratia moji milovan\u00ed: Nech je ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek\nr\u00fdchly, ke\u010f treba po\u010d\u00fava\u0165, pomal\u00fd, ke\u010f m\u00e1 hovori\u0165, pomal\u00fd do hnevu<\/em>.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Filipanom 2: 3 \u2013 4 \u201eNi\u010d nerobte z cti\u017eiadostivosti ani pre m\u00e1rnu sl\u00e1vu, ale rad\u0161ej v pokore pokladajte in\u00fdch za vy\u0161\u0161\u00edch od seba\u00a0a nevyh\u013ead\u00e1vajte iba svoje z\u00e1ujmy, ale aj z\u00e1ujmy druh\u00fdch.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pasca, do ktorej m\u00f4\u017eeme padn\u00fa\u0165<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee by bolo dobr\u00e9\npozrie\u0165 sa na na\u0161e rozhovory. Ke\u010f sa stret\u00e1vam s \u013eu\u010fmi, mo\u017eno na skupinke,\nalebo jeden na jedn\u00e9ho, ko\u013eko rozpr\u00e1vania rob\u00edm ja? A ke\u010f rozpr\u00e1vam, to\u010d\u00ed sa\nt\u00e9ma rozhovoru okolo m\u0148a? St\u00e1va sa, \u017ee do konverz\u00e1cie prispievam tak, aby sa to\noto\u010dilo k mojim pr\u00edbehom, alebo mojim \u00faspechom? Vs\u00favam nen\u00e1padn\u00e9 pozn\u00e1mky, aby\nsom sa uk\u00e1zala? Sna\u017e\u00edm sa zabezpe\u010di\u0165, aby som ja dobre vyzerala? Sna\u017e\u00edm sa\nv\u0161etk\u00fdm uk\u00e1za\u0165 svoje dobr\u00e9 vlastnosti, aby si o mne mysleli len to najlep\u0161ie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dijeme vo ve\u013emi sebastrednej spolo\u010dnosti, kde takmer ka\u017ed\u00fd rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea naj\u010dastej\u0161ie o vlastn\u00fdch potreb\u00e1ch a t\u00fa\u017ebach. Zaklad\u00e1me si na svojom imid\u017ei, pohodl\u00ed, statuse, svojej reput\u00e1cii. Je to pasca, do ktorej je \u013eahk\u00e9 padn\u00fa\u0165. V liste Filipanom v druhej kapitole n\u00e1m ver\u0161e 5 \u2013 11 \u010falej hovoria o tom, ako n\u00e1\u0161 Spasite\u013e, Je\u017ei\u0161 Kristus, nepod\u013eahol poku\u0161eniu da\u0165 na prv\u00e9 miesto seba. Stal sa ni\u010d\u00edm (ver\u0161 7). A vo ver\u0161i 5 n\u00e1m Pavol hovor\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 postoj m\u00e1 by\u0165 rovnak\u00fd, ako postoj Je\u017ei\u0161a Krista. Uf. Ve\u013emi n\u00e1s to usved\u010duje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00fastre\u010fme sa celou mys\u013eou<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Ako to tak m\u00f4\u017eeme robi\u0165 vo\nsvetle na\u0161ich vz\u0165ahov s druh\u00fdmi? Navrhujem, aby sme skuto\u010dne po\u010d\u00favali. Aby sme\nsa, ak niekto rozpr\u00e1va, s\u00fastredili celou mys\u013eou naozaj na to, \u010do hovor\u00ed. Ke\u010f\nskon\u010d\u00ed, op\u00fdtaj sa dobr\u00fa ot\u00e1zku o jeho pr\u00edbehu, alebo ho vyzvi, aby sa vr\u00e1til k\nniektorej \u010dasti pr\u00edbehu a porozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eal o nej. Neprid\u00e1vaj hne\u010f svoje \u201eja tie\u017e\u201d.\nRozpr\u00e1vaj sa s \u010dlovekom v striedavom dial\u00f3gu o tom, \u010do ti pr\u00e1ve povedal. Ukazuje\u0161\ntak, \u017ee si mu naozaj na\u010d\u00faval, \u017ee si ho po\u010dul, a \u017ee m\u00e1\u0161 z\u00e1ujem o jeho \u017eivot a o\nto, \u010do je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 pre neho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u017edy tu bude aj \u010das hovori\u0165. Rozhovory maj\u00fa by\u0165 dial\u00f3gmi so striedan\u00edm oboch z\u00fa\u010dastnen\u00fdch pri rozpr\u00e1van\u00ed aj po\u010d\u00favan\u00ed. Tak sa navz\u00e1jom spozn\u00e1vame. A skupinky funguj\u00fa najlep\u0161ie, ke\u010f je ka\u017ed\u00fd zo z\u00fa\u010dastnen\u00fdch ochotn\u00fd zapoji\u0165 sa do konverz\u00e1cie. Ur\u010dite sa teda nesna\u017e\u00edm poveda\u0165, \u017ee by sme mali presta\u0165 rozpr\u00e1va\u0165. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale aby sme sa vr\u00e1tili k tomu, \u010do n\u00e1m Biblia hovor\u00ed v Jakubovi 1:19, potrebujeme si d\u00e1va\u0165 pozor na svoje zvyky a vyhodnoti\u0165, \u010di sme r\u00fdchli, ke\u010f treba po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 a pomal\u00ed, ke\u010f treba hovori\u0165, alebo je to u n\u00e1s presne naopak. Potrebujeme tie\u017e na\u010d\u00fava\u0165 Duchu Sv\u00e4t\u00e9mu, a ak n\u00e1s usved\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee nie sme r\u00fdchli, ke\u010f treba po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 a pomal\u00ed, ke\u010f treba hovori\u0165, potrebujeme \u010dini\u0165 pok\u00e1nie, posl\u00fachnu\u0165 a nasledova\u0165 Jeho pr\u00edkaz, aby sme vyh\u013ead\u00e1vali z\u00e1ujmy druh\u00fdch pred svojimi. \u013dudia si v\u00e1\u017eia, ke\u010f s\u00fa vypo\u010dut\u00ed. Na\u010d\u00favajme. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pred \u010dasom sme sa venovali t\u00e9me po\u010d\u00favania v s\u00e9rii: Po\u010d\u00favam… Dnes by sme sa k nej e\u0161te chceli na chv\u00ed\u013eu vr\u00e1ti\u0165. Ver\u00edme, \u017ee aj tento \u010dl\u00e1nok od Wendi m\u00f4\u017ee vytvori\u0165 priestor na prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eanie nad t\u00fdm, ako reagujeme na t\u00fdch, s ktor\u00fdmi sa rozpr\u00e1vame. Pripravme teraz svoje srdcia a po\u010d\u00favajme. \u201eJa tie\u017e!\u201d posluch\u00e1\u010d Ak si \u010d\u00edtal…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":9706,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[3,12],"tags":[190],"class_list":["post-9705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirovat","category-zamyslenia","tag-pocuvanie"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":3,"label":"In\u0161pirova\u0165"},{"value":12,"label":"Zamyslenia"}],"post_tag":[{"value":190,"label":"po\u010d\u00favanie"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/R3_09133-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Wendi Rumbold","author_link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/author\/wendi-rumbold\/"},"comment_info":"","category_info":[{"term_id":3,"name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","slug":"inspirovat","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":3,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":383,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":3,"category_count":383,"category_description":"","cat_name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","category_nicename":"inspirovat","category_parent":0},{"term_id":12,"name":"Zamyslenia","slug":"zamyslenia","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":12,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":3,"count":87,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":12,"category_count":87,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Zamyslenia","category_nicename":"zamyslenia","category_parent":3}],"tag_info":[{"term_id":190,"name":"po\u010d\u00favanie","slug":"pocuvanie","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":190,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":7,"filter":"raw"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9705"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9705\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9706"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}