Ak si ved\u00faci t\u00edmu, ve\u013emi dobre to pozn\u00e1\u0161. \u010clenovia tvojho t\u00edmu prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa a odch\u00e1dzaj\u00fa, zlo\u017eenie sa men\u00ed z r\u00f4znych d\u00f4vodov. Naj\u010dastej\u0161ie kv\u00f4li \u0161t\u00fadiu, zamestnaniu \u010di materskej. To je \u017eivot. Ako m\u00e1 ved\u00faci ml\u00e1de\u017en\u00edckej slu\u017eby uva\u017eova\u0165, ak h\u013ead\u00e1 posily do t\u00edmu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nehovor\u00edme o v\u00e1he. Hovor\u00edme o charakteristik\u00e1ch, ktor\u00e9 robia \u010dloveka vhodn\u00fdm kandid\u00e1tom. T\u00edto \u013eudia maj\u00fa potenci\u00e1l r\u00e1s\u0165 a invest\u00edcia do nich sa \u010dasom vr\u00e1ti. Tieto charakteristiky sa daj\u00fa pou\u017ei\u0165 v akejko\u013evek pracovnej sf\u00e9re, av\u0161ak my si to aplikujeme na n\u00e1\u0161 kontext pr\u00e1ce s ml\u00e1de\u017eou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u013eadaj \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd je vern\u00fd predov\u0161etk\u00fdm Kristovi. Potrebuje\u0161 ma\u0165 v t\u00edme partnera, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 v hlave aj v srdci jasno, rob\u00ed zbo\u017en\u00e9 rozhodnutia a nemus\u00ed\u0161 ma\u0165 obavy, ak\u00fdm smerom povedie s\u00e1m seba alebo va\u0161ich mlad\u00fdch. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 bude jeho vn\u00fatorn\u00fd kompas nenahradite\u013enou \u010das\u0165ou, ke\u010f nastan\u00fa v t\u00edme \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 situ\u00e1cie, nap\u00e4tia alebo konflikty. Nezab\u00fadaj, \u017ee e\u0161te predt\u00fdm, ako ved\u00faci ml\u00e1de\u017ee, ste Bo\u017eia rodina, Bo\u017eie deti. T\u00e1to identita je nadraden\u00e1 a k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00e1. Preto je srdce zachr\u00e1nen\u00e9 evanjeliom viac ako slu\u017eba v ml\u00e1de\u017ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tu pri mlad\u00fdch \u013eu\u010foch nar\u00e1\u017eame \u010dasto na kame\u0148 \u00farazu. Najm\u00e4 men\u0161ie mest\u00e1, ktor\u00e9 nemaj\u00fa univerzitu a mo\u017eno aj m\u00e1lo pracovn\u00fdch miest, s t\u00fdm bojuj\u00fa na dennej b\u00e1ze. Mo\u017eno si m\u00e1\u0161 vybra\u0165 medzi \u0161tudentom biomedic\u00edny, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 neskuto\u010dn\u00e9 obdarovania a mlad\u00ed ho \u017eer\u00fa, av\u0161ak pr\u00edde domov raz za 2 mesiace, preto\u017ee \u0161tuduje v Prahe. Na druhej strane tu je nen\u00e1padn\u00fd chalan, ktor\u00fd \u0161iel po maturite hne\u010f pracova\u0165 do z\u00e1vodu a podarilo sa mu k\u00fapi\u0165 si v meste gars\u00f3nku. Je tich\u0161\u00ed, nesmel\u00fd, ale m\u00e1 dobr\u00fd charakter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ktor\u00e9ho zavol\u00e1\u0161 do t\u00edmu? Pod\u013ea pravidla \u201cFAT\u201d by si si mal vybra\u0165 pracuj\u00faceho mu\u017ea. Preto\u017ee je v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia \u0161anca, \u017ee zostane v danej lokalite a bude m\u00f4c\u0165 dlhodobo rozv\u00edja\u0165 ml\u00e1de\u017e a s\u00e1m sa pos\u00fava\u0165 vpred. Preto treba do v\u00fdberu t\u00edmov\u00fdch \u010dlenov niekedy zapoji\u0165 oby\u010dajn\u00fd sedliacky rozum \u2013 kde \u0161tuduj\u00fa a \u010di sa potom vr\u00e1tia, kde bud\u00fa pracova\u0165, \u010di si k\u00fapili nehnute\u013enos\u0165, \u010di sa o\u017eenili \u010di vydali na danom mieste, \u010di maj\u00fa v meste rodi\u010dov, o ktor\u00fdch sa v bud\u00facnosti bud\u00fa stara\u0165\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lep\u0161\u00ed je nedokonal\u00fd partner, s ktor\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 po\u010d\u00edta\u0165, ako excelentn\u00fd \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd nikdy nie je pr\u00edtomn\u00fd. Koniec koncov, investova\u0165 prim\u00e1rne do \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed zostan\u00fa v danej lokalite, je dobr\u00e9 nie len pre tvoju ml\u00e1de\u017e, ale aj pre tvoj zbor, a mo\u017eno aj mesto. Nikdy nevie\u0161, kam a\u017e m\u00f4\u017ee por\u00e1s\u0165 \u010dlovek, ktor\u00e9mu d\u00e1\u0161 \u0161ancu a \u010das. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Posledn\u00e1 k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00e1 charakteristika ve\u013emi \u00fazko nadv\u00e4zuje na predo\u0161l\u00fa. Ur\u010dite h\u013eadaj \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa u\u010denliv\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa p\u00fdtaj\u00fa ot\u00e1zky, alebo sa minim\u00e1lne neboja kritiky \u010di v\u00fdziev. Ako to odhali\u0165? Ak zbad\u00e1\u0161 na \u010dloveku ur\u00e1\u017elivos\u0165 \u010di vz\u0165ahova\u010dnos\u0165, je to \u010derven\u00e1 kontrolka. Av\u0161ak, d\u00e1 sa s t\u00fdm pracova\u0165, len bude\u0161 ma\u0165 viac pr\u00e1ce ty a bude\u0161 potrebova\u0165 tonu milosti a trpezlivosti. Treba zbystri\u0165 pri \u013eu\u010foch, ktor\u00ed nedok\u00e1\u017eu spolupracova\u0165, ktor\u00ed sa nikdy neospravedlnia alebo si nepriznaj\u00fa chybu. Ak uva\u017euje\u0161 nad \u010dlovekom, ktor\u00fd zvykne ma\u0165 siln\u00fd n\u00e1zor, pozoruj ho a sk\u00famaj. M\u00f4\u017ee to by\u0165 pokorn\u00fd a zbo\u017en\u00fd l\u00edder (tak\u00e9ho ur\u010dite v t\u00edme chce\u0161), alebo za t\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 p\u00fdcha. Ak vid\u00ed\u0161 vo svojom okol\u00ed niekoho, kto sa r\u00e1d chop\u00ed nov\u00fdch \u00faloh \u010di v\u00fdziev, kto sa neboj\u00ed zlyhan\u00ed, tak\u00e9ho \u010dloveka do t\u00edmu vezmi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Niektor\u00e9 z t\u00fdchto vlastnost\u00ed vidno na prv\u00fd poh\u013ead, ale mnoh\u00e9 s\u00fa skryt\u00e9. Treba \u010dloveka hlb\u0161ie pozna\u0165, ma\u0165 s n\u00edm sk\u00fasenos\u0165. Preto pozvi svojich \u201ckandid\u00e1tov\u201d ako pomocn\u00edkov na v\u00fdlet alebo na ml\u00e1de\u017e. Daj priestor sebe aj im, aby ste sa mohli navz\u00e1jom spozn\u00e1va\u0165 a vidie\u0165, \u010di by boli dobrou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou v\u00e1\u0161ho t\u00edmu. Toto s\u00fa len tri charakteristiky, ktor\u00e9 sa v\u0161eobecne odpor\u00fa\u010daj\u00fa pri h\u013eadan\u00ed nov\u00e9ho \u010dlena do pracovn\u00e9ho t\u00edmu. Existuje e\u0161te mnoho in\u00fdch parametrov. Napr\u00edklad ch\u00e9mia s aktu\u00e1lnymi \u010dlenmi, \u0161pecifick\u00e9 obdarovania toho \u010dloveka a \u0161pecifick\u00e9 potreby, ktor\u00e9 teraz ako ml\u00e1de\u017e m\u00e1te, at\u010f. Koniec koncov, P\u00e1n Boh ti dal konkr\u00e9tnu zborov\u00fa rodinu, kde nie je nikto dokonal\u00fd a \u010dasto si nem\u00f4\u017eeme vybera\u0165 a sme v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed za ka\u017ed\u00fa du\u0161u ochotn\u00fa pom\u00f4c\u0165. Aj napriek tejto realite, a mo\u017eno pr\u00e1ve preto, h\u013eadaj \u013eud\u00ed FAT, alebo im pom\u00e1haj v\u00fdzvami a veden\u00edm, aby tak\u00fdmi stali. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ak si ved\u00faci t\u00edmu, ve\u013emi dobre to pozn\u00e1\u0161. \u010clenovia tvojho t\u00edmu prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa a odch\u00e1dzaj\u00fa, zlo\u017eenie sa men\u00ed z r\u00f4znych d\u00f4vodov. Naj\u010dastej\u0161ie kv\u00f4li \u0161t\u00fadiu, zamestnaniu \u010di materskej. To je \u017eivot. Ako m\u00e1 ved\u00faci ml\u00e1de\u017en\u00edckej slu\u017eby uva\u017eova\u0165, ak h\u013ead\u00e1 posily do t\u00edmu? Chce\u0161 iba FAT \u013eud\u00ed Nehovor\u00edme o v\u00e1he. Hovor\u00edme o charakteristik\u00e1ch, ktor\u00e9 robia \u010dloveka vhodn\u00fdm kandid\u00e1tom….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":46,"featured_media":4190,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[336,334],"tags":[82,92],"class_list":["post-9003241321129371","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-budovanie-timu","category-trenovat","tag-tim","tag-veduci"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":336,"label":"Budovanie t\u00edmu"},{"value":334,"label":"Tr\u00e9nova\u0165"}],"post_tag":[{"value":82,"label":"t\u00edm"},{"value":92,"label":"ved\u00faci"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/tim-1-scaled-1-1024x542.jpg",1024,542,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Eva Such\u00e1\u010dov\u00e1","author_link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/author\/evasuchacova\/"},"comment_info":"","category_info":[{"term_id":336,"name":"Budovanie t\u00edmu","slug":"budovanie-timu","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":336,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":334,"count":35,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":336,"category_count":35,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Budovanie t\u00edmu","category_nicename":"budovanie-timu","category_parent":334},{"term_id":334,"name":"Tr\u00e9nova\u0165","slug":"trenovat","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":334,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":140,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":334,"category_count":140,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Tr\u00e9nova\u0165","category_nicename":"trenovat","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":[{"term_id":82,"name":"t\u00edm","slug":"tim","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":82,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":34,"filter":"raw"},{"term_id":92,"name":"ved\u00faci","slug":"veduci","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":92,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":10,"filter":"raw"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9003241321129371","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/46"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9003241321129371"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9003241321129371\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4190"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9003241321129371"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9003241321129371"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9003241321129371"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}