\u010clovek je bytos\u0165 vz\u0165ahov\u00e1. Po tom, ako Boh stvoril \u010dloveka \u2013 mu\u017ea, povedal: \u201dNie je dobr\u00e9 \u010dlovekovi by\u0165 sam\u00e9mu. Urob\u00edm mu pomoc, ktor\u00e1 mu bude rovnocenn\u00e1\u201d (Gen 2:18). \u201cUdivuje n\u00e1s to. Ve\u010f si to predstavte: svet je nov\u00fd, \u00faplne bez po\u0161kvrny. Adam je st\u00e1le nevinne \u010dist\u00fd, pln\u00fd sl\u00e1vy. Chod\u00ed s Bohom. Nie je medzi nimi nijak\u00e1 prek\u00e1\u017eka. Maj\u00fa nie\u010do, \u010do nik z n\u00e1s nepozn\u00e1, po \u010dom v\u0161ak ka\u017ed\u00fd t\u00fa\u017ei: dokonal\u00e9 priate\u013estvo, nepo\u0161kvrnen\u00e9 hriechom. A v tejto dokonalosti nie je nie\u010do v poriadku?! Nie\u010do ch\u00fdba?! \u010co by to mohlo by\u0165? Eva. \u017dena. \u017denskos\u0165!\u201d (Eldredge, 2006)<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
P\u00ed\u0161e sa, \u017ee Boh stvoril \u017eenu mu\u017eovi, aby mu bola rovnocennou pomocou. P\u00f4vodn\u00fd hebrejsk\u00fd v\u00fdraz pou\u017eit\u00fd pre Evu je \u201eezer kenegdo\u201c (Eldredge, 2006). Slovo \u201eezer\u201c (pomoc, z\u00e1chranca) je v Starej Zmluve pou\u017eit\u00e9 21-kr\u00e1t, 16-kr\u00e1t ozna\u010duje Boha, dvakr\u00e1t kr\u00e1\u013eovsk\u00e9ho radcu a trikr\u00e1t ozna\u010duje pr\u00edpady, kedy \u010dlovek t\u00fato pomoc nedostal a zomrel. Slovo \u201ekenegdo\u201c znamen\u00e1 oproti, \u00faplne vhodn\u00e1, presne pasuj\u00faca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V man\u017eelstve dostali od Boha mu\u017e a \u017eena r\u00f4zne \u00falohy. \u00dalohou mu\u017ea je vies\u0165 a milova\u0165 svoju \u017eenu. \u00dalohou \u017eeny je re\u0161pektova\u0165 svojho man\u017eela a podria\u010fova\u0165 sa mu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pavol v liste do Efezu p\u00ed\u0161e: \u201eBu\u010fte si vospolok poddan\u00ed v b\u00e1zni Kristovej: \u017eeny svojim mu\u017eom ako P\u00e1novi, lebo mu\u017e je hlavou \u017eeny, ako aj Kristus je hlavou cirkvi. On je Spasite\u013eom tela. Ako je teda cirkev poddan\u00e1 Kristovi, tak aj \u017eeny mu\u017eom vo v\u0161etkom. Mu\u017eovia, milujte si \u017eeny, ako aj Kristus miloval cirkev a seba sam\u00e9ho vydal za \u0148u, aby ju posv\u00e4til, o\u010distiac ju k\u00fape\u013eom vody skrze slovo, a postavil si cirkev sl\u00e1vnu, bez po\u0161kvrny, bez vr\u00e1sky a bez \u010dohoko\u013evek podobn\u00e9ho, ale aby bola sv\u00e4t\u00e1 a bez \u00fahony. Takto s\u00fa povinn\u00ed aj mu\u017eovia milova\u0165 si \u017eeny ako vlastn\u00e9 tel\u00e1. Kto si miluje \u017eenu, seba sam\u00e9ho miluje. Ve\u010f nikto nikdy nemal v nen\u00e1visti svoje telo, ale ho \u017eiv\u00ed a opatruje, ako aj Kristus cirkev; lebo sme \u00fadmi Jeho tela. Preto opust\u00ed \u010dlovek otca a matku a pripoj\u00ed sa k svojej \u017eene; i bud\u00fa dvaja jedno telo. Toto tajomstvo je ve\u013ek\u00e9. Ja ho v\u0161ak vz\u0165ahujem na Krista a na cirkev. Takto teda aj vy ka\u017ed\u00fd jeden milujte si \u017eenu ako seba, a \u017eena nech sa boj\u00ed mu\u017ea\u201c (Ef 5:21 \u2013 33).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je jednozna\u010dn\u00e9, \u017ee ot\u00e1zka podriadenosti \u017eeny mu\u017eovi znie ve\u013emi nemoderne. Tento princ\u00edp je v\u0161ak Bohom vytvoren\u00fd a Bohom po\u017eehnan\u00fd. A \u017eia\u013e, zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161a nepochopen\u00fd. Podriadi\u0165 sa mu\u017eovi neznamen\u00e1 slabos\u0165 a \u00fabohos\u0165. John Piper (2016) vo svojom \u010dl\u00e1nku \u201eSix Things Submission Is Not\u201c popisuje \u0161es\u0165 vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 neznamenaj\u00fa podriadenos\u0165. Podriadi\u0165 sa neznamen\u00e1 s\u00fahlasi\u0165 so v\u0161etk\u00fdm, ani \u017ee \u017eena prest\u00e1va rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165. Neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee \u017eena sa nem\u00f4\u017ee sna\u017ei\u0165 svojho mu\u017ea nijako ovplyvni\u0165. V\u00f4bec to neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee v\u00f4\u013ea jej mu\u017ea je pov\u00fd\u0161en\u00e1 nad Kristovu v\u00f4\u013eu. Podriadenos\u0165 neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee \u017eena dost\u00e1va v\u0161etku svoju duchovn\u00fa silu len cez svojho man\u017eela. A napokon, podriadenos\u0165 neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee m\u00e1 \u017eena \u017ei\u0165 v strachu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Podriadi\u0165 sa mu\u017eovi je pre neho kr\u00e1sne a atrakt\u00edvne. D\u00e1va to mu\u017eovi priestor by\u0165 mu\u017eom. Pre mu\u017ea je ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby mal re\u0161pekt, ale pre \u017eenu je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 ho bezpodmiene\u010dne prejavi\u0165. \u010co re\u0161pekt nie je? Ke\u010f si \u017eena rob\u00ed srandu z toho, \u017ee jej mu\u017e potrebuje re\u0161pekt, ke\u010f kritizuje jeho chyby na verejnosti (alebo vo v\u0161eobecnosti), ke\u010f ho poni\u017euje, ke\u010f sa od neho v jeho zlyhaniach di\u0161tancuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Naopak, re\u0161pekt je bezpodmiene\u010dn\u00fd, prejavuje sa tak, \u017ee \u017eena hovor\u00ed mu\u017eovi veci priamo, hovor\u00ed mu o jeho vplyvoch na \u0148u; je ve\u013emi dobr\u00e9 ho verbalizova\u0165, \u010do sa d\u00e1 tromi sp\u00f4sobmi: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neexistuje situ\u00e1cia, kedy m\u00e1 \u017eena povolen\u00e9 nere\u0161pektova\u0165 svojho man\u017eela. Takisto ako neexistuje situ\u00e1cia, kedy m\u00e1 mu\u017e povolen\u00e9 nemilova\u0165 svoju \u017eenu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Spomenut\u00e1 literat\u00fara: Eldredge E, J., Eldredge, S. O\u010daruj\u00faca<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Fotografia: Michal Pon\u010d\u00e1k<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u010clovek je bytos\u0165 vz\u0165ahov\u00e1. Po tom, ako Boh stvoril \u010dloveka \u2013 mu\u017ea, povedal: \u201dNie je dobr\u00e9 \u010dlovekovi by\u0165 sam\u00e9mu. Urob\u00edm mu pomoc, ktor\u00e1 mu bude rovnocenn\u00e1\u201d (Gen 2:18). \u201cUdivuje n\u00e1s to. Ve\u010f si to predstavte: svet je nov\u00fd, \u00faplne bez po\u0161kvrny. Adam je st\u00e1le nevinne \u010dist\u00fd, pln\u00fd sl\u00e1vy. Chod\u00ed s Bohom. 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