{"id":8783,"date":"2022-01-07T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-07T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=8783"},"modified":"2024-04-19T10:05:09","modified_gmt":"2024-04-19T08:05:09","slug":"preco-su-zavazky-dobre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/preco-su-zavazky-dobre\/","title":{"rendered":"Pre\u010do s\u00fa z\u00e1v\u00e4zky dobr\u00e9?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Neviem ako ty, ale ja patr\u00edm medzi t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed \u010dasto zlyh\u00e1vaj\u00fa v plnen\u00ed z\u00e1v\u00e4zkov. Minul\u00fd rok som si dal dva. Prv\u00fd bol, \u017ee zabehnem za rok 1000 km. Aj ke\u010f som sa sna\u017eil, tento cie\u013e som nesplnil. Druh\u00fd, \u017ee za rok pre\u010d\u00edtam cel\u00fa Bibliu. Ani tento z\u00e1v\u00e4zok som nesplnil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako sa c\u00edtim? V\u00f4bec nie zle. A vie\u0161 pre\u010do? Lebo som sa sna\u017eil. Neprestal som sa sna\u017ei\u0165 a aj ke\u010f som cie\u013e nesplnil, nevzdal som to. M\u00e1m asi 60 vyme\u0161kan\u00fdch dn\u00ed v pl\u00e1ne \u010d\u00edtania a nie som ani v polovi\u010dke be\u017eeck\u00e9ho pl\u00e1nu, ale nevzdal som to, preto\u017ee viem, \u017ee obidve veci s\u00fa pre m\u0148a dobr\u00e9. A \u017ee ke\u010f ich rob\u00edm, pom\u00e1ha mi to v tom, udr\u017eiava\u0165 sa fyzicky aj duchovne fit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pozor, nechcem t\u00fdm v\u00f4bec poveda\u0165, \u017ee mus\u00ed\u0161 za\u010da\u0165 beha\u0165, alebo \u017ee mus\u00ed\u0161 pre\u010d\u00edta\u0165 Bibliu za rok. Len t\u00fdm chcem poveda\u0165, \u017ee pokia\u013e vie\u0161, \u017ee niektor\u00e9 veci s\u00fa pre teba dobr\u00e9, nevzd\u00e1vaj sa z\u00e1v\u00e4zku. Mo\u017eno sa ti nepodar\u00ed dosiahnu\u0165 svoj cie\u013e, ale aspo\u0148 vie\u0161, \u017ee ide\u0161 dobr\u00fdm smerom a \u017ee si sa niekam posunul. A tie\u017e mo\u017eno zist\u00ed\u0161, ak\u00e1 ve\u013ek\u00e1 v\u00fdzva je pre teba realizovate\u013en\u00e1 a kedy si u\u017e prestrelil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u0161etko alebo ni\u010d<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

V minulosti som sa ve\u013eakr\u00e1t vzd\u00e1val z\u00e1v\u00e4zku pr\u00edli\u0161 r\u00fdchlo. Asi nie som jedin\u00fd, kto ke\u010f sa nedr\u017e\u00ed pl\u00e1nu na 100%, tak sa r\u00fdchlo vzd\u00e1. Hovor\u00ed sa tomu „ALL IN“ strat\u00e9gia. Bu\u010f berie\u0161 v\u0161etko, alebo ni\u010d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako zmeni\u0165 tento pr\u00edstup? Jedna z vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e1 mi pomohla, bolo k\u00e1zanie Timothyho Kellera o z\u00e1v\u00e4zku. Vypo\u010du\u0165 si ju m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 tu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00e1ze\u0148 od Timothyho Kellera<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Absol\u00fatny z\u00e1v\u00e4zok<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Keller hovor\u00ed, \u017ee je treba rozli\u0161ova\u0165 medzi absol\u00fatnou poslu\u0161nos\u0165ou a absol\u00fatnym z\u00e1v\u00e4zkom. Riadi\u0165 sa na sto percent v\u017edy t\u00fdm, \u010domu ver\u00edm a \u010do pova\u017eujem za spr\u00e1vne, sa ned\u00e1. Sme \u013eudia. Rob\u00edme chyby a niekedy podv\u00e1dzame vlastn\u00e9 ide\u00e1ly, sam\u00fdch seba, ale i druh\u00fdch. To ale neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee sa m\u00e1me vzda\u0165 ide\u00e1lov, ktor\u00fdm ver\u00edme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ver\u00edm, \u017ee telesn\u00e9 aj duchovn\u00e9 cvi\u010denia prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa pre moje telo, du\u0161u a ducha ve\u013ea dobr\u00e9ho a \u017ee t\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017eem lep\u0161ie pom\u00e1ha\u0165 druh\u00fdm. Potrebujem na\u010derpa\u0165, aby som mohol d\u00e1va\u0165. Keby som sa t\u00fdchto ide\u00e1lov vzdal, nemal by som odkia\u013e \u010derpa\u0165 a bol by som pr\u00e1zdny. A to je pr\u00e1ve ten absol\u00fatny z\u00e1v\u00e4zok, ktor\u00e9ho sa sna\u017e\u00edm dr\u017ea\u0165, aj ke\u010f nie v\u017edy sa mi dar\u00ed by\u0165 mu vern\u00fd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako hovor\u00ed Keller, by\u0165 absol\u00fatne zaviazan\u00fd znamen\u00e1 ochotu absol\u00fatne posl\u00facha\u0165. Pr\u00e1ve t\u00e1to ochota dr\u017ea\u0165 sa absol\u00fatneho z\u00e1v\u00e4zku je k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00e1. Kr\u00e1sne je to vidno na pr\u00edklade materskej l\u00e1sky. Matka sa vo\u010di svojmu die\u0165a\u0165u spr\u00e1va tak, \u017ee sa absol\u00fatne dr\u017e\u00ed z\u00e1v\u00e4zku, vie, \u017ee jej rolou a povinnos\u0165ou je stara\u0165 sa o die\u0165a a t\u00e1to potreba je pre \u0148u d\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ia ako jej osobn\u00e9 potreby. Podobne aj man\u017eelsk\u00fd s\u013eub je absol\u00fatny z\u00e1v\u00e4zok milova\u0165 druh\u00e9ho za v\u0161etk\u00fdch okolnost\u00ed. Aj napriek zlyhaniam a nedodr\u017eiavaniu toho s\u013eubu v\u017edy a za ka\u017ed\u00fdch okolnost\u00ed je tento absol\u00fatny z\u00e1v\u00e4zok st\u00e1le platn\u00fd. A to rob\u00ed man\u017eelsk\u00fd s\u013eub kr\u00e1sny.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Predstav si, \u017ee by napr\u00edklad man\u017eelsk\u00fd s\u013eub bol podmienen\u00fd strat\u00e9giou „ALL IN“. V\u0161etko alebo ni\u010d. Jedno zlyhanie, oso\u010denie partnera, \u0161kared\u00e9 slovo, nespravodliv\u00e1 v\u00fd\u010ditka, jedno klamstvo, at\u010f. by malo znamena\u0165, \u017ee man\u017eelsk\u00fd s\u013eub u\u017e nem\u00e1 zmysel, preto\u017ee bol poru\u0161en\u00fd. Absurdn\u00e1 predstava, v\u0161ak?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u010do tvoje z\u00e1v\u00e4zky?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u010co t\u00fdm chcem poveda\u0165? \u017de z\u00e1v\u00e4zky s\u00fa spr\u00e1vne. Samozrejme, plat\u00ed, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm m\u00e1 pre n\u00e1s dan\u00e1 hodnota v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iu cenu, tak t\u00fdm je z\u00e1v\u00e4zok d\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161\u00ed. T\u00fdm viac z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, \u017ee sa ho treba dr\u017ea\u0165 absol\u00fatne. Ako kres\u0165an ver\u00edm, \u017ee medzi tieto hodnoty patr\u00ed l\u00e1ska k Bohu a \u013eu\u010fom, potreba kontemplat\u00edvnej modlitby, h\u013eadanie Bo\u017eej v\u00f4le, \u0161tedros\u0165 a pomoc n\u00fadznym. To s\u00fa moje priority. Ale do ur\u010ditej miery ver\u00edm, \u017ee P\u00e1nu Bohu rob\u00ed rados\u0165, ke\u010f sa star\u00e1m o svoje zdravie, ke\u010f to nepreh\u00e1\u0148am s konzum\u00e1ciou m\u00e9di\u00ed, ke\u010f \u0161tudujem P\u00edsmo aj in\u00fa literat\u00faru, at\u010f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa tvoje hodnoty, ktor\u00fdm ver\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee m\u00e1 cenu sa im podria\u010fova\u0165 absol\u00fatne, \u017ee m\u00e1 zmysel pre ne vytv\u00e1ra\u0165 a obnovova\u0165 z\u00e1v\u00e4zky?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jedna praktick\u00e1 rada na z\u00e1ver, pokia\u013e nevie\u0161, ako za\u010da\u0165 prioritizova\u0165 si hodnoty a z\u00e1v\u00e4zky. M\u00e1m r\u00e1d chalanov, \u010do vytvorili di\u00e1r \u017durn\u00e1l a v \u0148om n\u00e1jde\u0161 jedno praktick\u00e9 cvi\u010denie, ako si prioritizova\u0165 hodnoty, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa pre teba d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 a ktor\u00e9 ti m\u00f4\u017eu pom\u00f4c\u0165 definova\u0165 si osobnostn\u00e9 ciele pre nov\u00fd rok. \u010cl\u00e1nok n\u00e1jde\u0161 tu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010cl\u00e1nok o priorit\u00e1ch<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Neviem ako ty, ale ja patr\u00edm medzi t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed \u010dasto zlyh\u00e1vaj\u00fa v plnen\u00ed z\u00e1v\u00e4zkov. Minul\u00fd rok som si dal dva. Prv\u00fd bol, \u017ee zabehnem za rok 1000 km. Aj ke\u010f som sa sna\u017eil, tento cie\u013e som nesplnil. Druh\u00fd, \u017ee za rok pre\u010d\u00edtam cel\u00fa Bibliu. Ani tento z\u00e1v\u00e4zok som nesplnil. Ako sa c\u00edtim? V\u00f4bec nie zle….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":8787,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[3,12],"tags":[184,185],"class_list":["post-8783","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirovat","category-zamyslenia","tag-hodnoty","tag-zavazok"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":3,"label":"In\u0161pirova\u0165"},{"value":12,"label":"Zamyslenia"}],"post_tag":[{"value":184,"label":"hodnoty"},{"value":185,"label":"z\u00e1v\u00e4zok"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/IMG_0449-2-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"David Kostl\u00e1n","author_link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/author\/davidkostlan\/"},"comment_info":"","category_info":[{"term_id":3,"name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","slug":"inspirovat","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":3,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":383,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":3,"category_count":383,"category_description":"","cat_name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","category_nicename":"inspirovat","category_parent":0},{"term_id":12,"name":"Zamyslenia","slug":"zamyslenia","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":12,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":3,"count":87,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":12,"category_count":87,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Zamyslenia","category_nicename":"zamyslenia","category_parent":3}],"tag_info":[{"term_id":184,"name":"hodnoty","slug":"hodnoty","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":184,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":4,"filter":"raw"},{"term_id":185,"name":"z\u00e1v\u00e4zok","slug":"zavazok","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":185,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":1,"filter":"raw"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8783","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8783"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8783\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8787"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8783"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8783"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8783"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}