{"id":7429,"date":"2021-08-09T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-09T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=7429"},"modified":"2024-04-18T23:32:01","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T21:32:01","slug":"jazyky-lasky-v-ucenictve-pozornost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/jazyky-lasky-v-ucenictve-pozornost\/","title":{"rendered":"Jazyky l\u00e1sky v u\u010den\u00edctve | Pozornos\u0165"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pozn\u00e1\u0161 to, \u017ee m\u00e1\u0161\nv&nbsp;skupinke p\u00e4\u0165 \u00faplne nov\u00fdch cudz\u00edch diev\u010dat a&nbsp;idete spolu na prv\u00fa\nskupinku. V\u0161etky sa medzi sebou bavia, ale jedna z&nbsp;nich pr\u00edde za tebou\na&nbsp;za\u010dne sa vypytova\u0165. \u00daplne hoci\u010do. Vhodn\u00e9 aj nevhodn\u00e9, ale milo a&nbsp;so\nz\u00e1ujmom. Mne sa to stalo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po svadbe sme sa pres\u0165ahovali do Ko\u0161\u00edc a\u00a0za\u010dali sl\u00fa\u017ei\u0165 v\u00a0zbore. Viedla som skupinku piatich stredo\u0161kol\u00e1\u010dok a\u00a0jedna z\u00a0nich, Janka, bolo diev\u010da nekone\u010dn\u00fdch ot\u00e1zok. Ve\u013emi rada sa stret\u00e1vala aj mimo skupinku. Bu\u010f len tak sa porozpr\u00e1va\u0165, alebo rozobera\u0165 nejak\u00e9 zlo\u017eit\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00e9 t\u00e9my. Od prvej skupinky bola tak\u00e1 a\u00a0ja som v\u00a0tom \u010dase nech\u00e1pala pre\u010do. Postupne som pochopila, \u017ee jej jazykom l\u00e1sky je <strong>pozornos\u0165<\/strong>. Kraj\u0161ie povedan\u00e9 kvalitne str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das spolu. Rozkvitala, ke\u010f sa s\u00a0niek\u00fdm mohla rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sama. Nepotrebovala vyrie\u0161i\u0165 v\u0161etky probl\u00e9my alebo zodpoveda\u0165 si v\u0161etky ot\u00e1zky. Potrebovala len, aby jej druh\u00fd \u010dlovek daroval \u010das a\u00a0svoju pln\u00fa s\u00fastredenos\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak m\u00e1\u0161 u\u010den\u00edka,\nktor\u00e9ho jazykom l\u00e1sky je pozornos\u0165, tu m\u00e1\u0161 in\u0161pir\u00e1ciu, \u010do robi\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Jednoducho ho zapoj.<\/span> Ide\u0161 vyven\u010di\u0165 psa, porozn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 let\u00e1ky, zavolaj svojho u\u010den\u00edka so sebou a\u00a0dobre sa pri tom porozpr\u00e1vajte.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">P\u00fdtaj sa konkr\u00e9tne ot\u00e1zky<\/span>. Namiesto: Ako sa m\u00e1\u0161? sk\u00fas: \u201eAko dopadol ten rozhovor s mamkou?\u201c<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Pri rozhovore sa s\u00fastre\u010f.<\/span> Nekontroluj si mobil, nekresli si na papier. Pozeraj sa do o\u010d\u00ed svojmu u\u010den\u00edkovi. Venuj mu svoju s\u00fastreden\u00fa pozornos\u0165.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Tr\u00e1v s\u00a0n\u00edm \u010das<\/span>, zober ho na paintball. Vytv\u00e1rajte spomienky, na ktor\u00fdch sa s\u00a0chu\u0165ou zasmejete.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Po\u010d\u00favaj ho<\/span> a\u00a0zober ho na ob\u013e\u00faben\u00fd kol\u00e1\u010d alebo do ob\u013e\u00faben\u00e9ho parku.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ak je to \u010dlovek z\u00a0t\u00edmu, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">zober si s\u00a0n\u00edm na starosti \u010das\u0165 programu na ml\u00e1de\u017ei a\u00a0pripravte ho spolu.<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu\u010f ale opatrn\u00fd\na&nbsp;v\u0161\u00edmav\u00fd. \u013dudia, pre ktor\u00fdch je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd kvalitn\u00fd spolo\u010dn\u00fd \u010das, maj\u00fa \u010dasto\nve\u013ea ot\u00e1zok a&nbsp;radi oto\u010dia v\u0161etku pozornos\u0165 na toho druh\u00e9ho, len aby ste\nboli spolu a&nbsp;rozpr\u00e1vali sa. Po\u010d\u00favaj, \u010di v\u00e1\u0161 spolo\u010dne str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das nie je\nlen o&nbsp;tvojich pr\u00edbehoch a&nbsp;tvojich n\u00e1zoroch. Vyv\u00e1\u017e konverz\u00e1ciu t\u00fdm, \u017ee\nsi dopredu priprav\u00ed\u0161 ot\u00e1zky aj na svojho u\u010den\u00edka, a&nbsp;potom si len\nvychutn\u00e1vajte spolo\u010dn\u00fd \u010das.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pozn\u00e1\u0161 to, \u017ee m\u00e1\u0161 v&nbsp;skupinke p\u00e4\u0165 \u00faplne nov\u00fdch cudz\u00edch diev\u010dat a&nbsp;idete spolu na prv\u00fa skupinku. V\u0161etky sa medzi sebou bavia, ale jedna z&nbsp;nich pr\u00edde za tebou a&nbsp;za\u010dne sa vypytova\u0165. \u00daplne hoci\u010do. Vhodn\u00e9 aj nevhodn\u00e9, ale milo a&nbsp;so z\u00e1ujmom. Mne sa to stalo. Po svadbe sme sa pres\u0165ahovali do Ko\u0161\u00edc a\u00a0za\u010dali sl\u00fa\u017ei\u0165 v\u00a0zbore. 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