{"id":7412,"date":"2021-08-02T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-02T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=7412"},"modified":"2024-04-18T23:32:01","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T21:32:01","slug":"jazyky-lasky-v-ucenictve-slova-uistenia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/jazyky-lasky-v-ucenictve-slova-uistenia\/","title":{"rendered":"Jazyky l\u00e1sky v u\u010den\u00edctve | Slov\u00e1 uistenia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pre \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed nehovoria prim\u00e1rne t\u00fdmto jazykom, m\u00f4\u017eu \u013eudia potrebuj\u00faci <strong>slov\u00e1 uistenia<\/strong> vyznieva\u0165 ako vystrihnut\u00ed z&nbsp;romantick\u00e9ho filmu, alebo kreslenej rozpr\u00e1vky, alebo prinajlep\u0161om z&nbsp;ide\u00e1lneho sveta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pri <strong>fyzickom dotyku<\/strong> som spom\u00ednala, \u017ee m\u00f4j man\u017eel m\u00e1 dva dominantn\u00e9 jazyky. No, tak tento je ten druh\u00fd. Odkedy spolu chod\u00edme, mal vo svojej mysli v\u017edy ve\u013ek\u00e9 vety. A&nbsp;t\u00fdm ve\u013ek\u00e9 mysl\u00edm naozaj ve\u013ek\u00e9. Aj teraz sed\u00edme oproti sebe pri stole a&nbsp;Robo mi vrav\u00ed: \u201eTo je \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9, ako na posedenie nap\u00ed\u0161e\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nok. Si ve\u013emi \u0161ikovn\u00e1.\u201c A&nbsp;viete, \u010do mu \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd t\u00fdmto jazykom l\u00e1sky ani po \u0161iestich rokoch man\u017eelstva st\u00e1le super nehovor\u00ed, povie? Nemus\u00ed\u0161 h\u00e1da\u0165, prezrad\u00edm ti to: \u201eA \u010do by som ho mala p\u00edsa\u0165 postoja\u010dky?\u201c On vie, \u017ee m\u00e1m st\u00e1le ve\u013ek\u00e9 rezervy v&nbsp;pochopen\u00ed tohto jazyka l\u00e1sky, ja u\u017e ale za tie roky viem, kedy m\u00f4\u017eem zasrandova\u0165 a&nbsp;obaja sa zasmejeme, a&nbsp;kedy by ho moje neuv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 slov\u00e1 mohli hlboko zrani\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Preto si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee v&nbsp;dne\u0161nom \u010dl\u00e1nku ani nie je a\u017e tak d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 vymenov\u00e1va\u0165, kedy a&nbsp;ako m\u00f4\u017eete \u010dloveku, ktor\u00fd potrebuje po\u010du\u0165 <strong>slov\u00e1 uistenia<\/strong>, poveda\u0165, \u017ee je super. Chcela by som, aby sme sa hlb\u0161ie zamysleli nad t\u00fdm, ako pou\u017e\u00edvame slov\u00e1, a&nbsp;\u010do m\u00f4\u017eu v&nbsp;\u010dloveku, ktor\u00fd t\u00fdmto jazykom hovor\u00ed, vytvori\u0165. Nie je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 iba ho pochv\u00e1li\u0165 za to, ako zvl\u00e1dol \u00favod na ml\u00e1de\u017ei, alebo \u017ee sa perfektne pripravil na skupinku. Je aj k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00e9 nepoveda\u0165, \u017ee je ve\u013emi nezodpovedn\u00fd, ke\u010f nepri\u0161iel na\u010das na ml\u00e1de\u017e, alebo \u017ee mu nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na in\u00fdch, lebo zjedol polovicu ob\u010derstvenia s\u00e1m. Tie\u017e by som si d\u00e1vala ve\u013ek\u00fd pozor na vtipy a&nbsp;ir\u00f3niu o&nbsp;\u0148om, v\u00fdnimkou je, ak sa pozn\u00e1te naozaj dobre a&nbsp;m\u00e1\u0161 istotu, \u017ee idete na tej istej vlne humoru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak ako \u017eehnaj\u00face\na&nbsp;povzbudzuj\u00face slov\u00e1 prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa \u017eivot a&nbsp;rados\u0165, tak mu napomenutie\nnevhodn\u00fdm tvrd\u00fdm slovn\u00edkom m\u00f4\u017ee sp\u00f4sobi\u0165 jazvy na dlh\u00e9 obdobie, niekedy aj na\ncel\u00fd \u017eivot. Tak\u017ee najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie u&nbsp;\u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed potrebuj\u00fa po\u010du\u0165 slov\u00e1\nuistenia, je uvedomi\u0165 si, \u017ee zl\u00e9 slov\u00e1 prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa hlbok\u00e9 zranenia, ktor\u00e9 sa\n\u0165a\u017eko uzdravuj\u00fa, aj ke\u010f n\u00e1sledne povieme prep\u00e1\u010d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je to n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9\nfungova\u0165 v&nbsp;okol\u00ed tak\u00e9hoto u\u010den\u00edka a&nbsp;vy\u017eaduje si to ve\u013ea tr\u00e9ningu\njazyka, ale mysl\u00edm, \u017ee na opl\u00e1tku n\u00e1m tento \u010dlovek d\u00e1va e\u0161te v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00ed dar ako my\njemu, u\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1s kroti\u0165 svoj vlastn\u00fd jazyk, uvedomova\u0165 si, \u017ee slov\u00e1 maj\u00fa naozaj\nv\u00e1hu, a&nbsp;\u017ee je tu niekto, kto n\u00e1s st\u00e1le po\u010duje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A&nbsp;na z\u00e1ver predsa nieko\u013eko tipov<\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Pri pochvale a ocenen\u00ed sk\u00fas by\u0165 konkr\u00e9tny\/a.<\/span> Nehovor len, \u017ee t\u00e1 hra na ml\u00e1de\u017ei bola super, vyjadri konkr\u00e9tnu vec, ktor\u00e1 sa ti na nej p\u00e1\u010dila, vyzdvihni atmosf\u00e9ru, ktor\u00fa vytvoril jej uveden\u00edm.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Ak ti to so slovami nejde ide\u00e1lne, prv\u00fdm krokom m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165, \u017ee svojmu u\u010den\u00edkovi nap\u00ed\u0161e\u0161 list.<\/span> Povzbudzujem \u0165a ale, aby si pracoval\/a aj na slov\u00e1ch uistenia z&nbsp;o\u010d\u00ed do o\u010d\u00ed.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Mysli na tohto \u010dloveka po\u010das jeho sviatkov,<\/span> urob o&nbsp;\u0148om storky na Instagram alebo postni va\u0161u spolo\u010dn\u00fa fotku a&nbsp;nap\u00ed\u0161 nieko\u013eko vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 si na svojom u\u010den\u00edkovi v\u00e1\u017ei\u0161.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">S&nbsp;rados\u0165ou ho chv\u00e1\u013e na verejnosti pred ostatn\u00fdmi.<\/span> Kritiku si v\u017edy nechaj na \u010das medzi \u0161tyrmi o\u010dami.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Priprav na stretnutie aktivitku, pri ktorej si navz\u00e1jom budete hovori\u0165, \u010do si na sebe navz\u00e1jom v\u00e1\u017eite a&nbsp;m\u00e1te radi,<\/span> takto zapoj\u00ed\u0161 do prejavovania tohto jazyka aj ostatn\u00fdch zo skupinky\/t\u00edmu.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Po\u010das t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a mu nap\u00ed\u0161 povzbudzuj\u00facu sms pred \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdm testom.<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fotografia:  \u00c1lvaro Serrano&nbsp;\/&nbsp;Unsplash <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pre \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed nehovoria prim\u00e1rne t\u00fdmto jazykom, m\u00f4\u017eu \u013eudia potrebuj\u00faci slov\u00e1 uistenia vyznieva\u0165 ako vystrihnut\u00ed z&nbsp;romantick\u00e9ho filmu, alebo kreslenej rozpr\u00e1vky, alebo prinajlep\u0161om z&nbsp;ide\u00e1lneho sveta. Pri fyzickom dotyku som spom\u00ednala, \u017ee m\u00f4j man\u017eel m\u00e1 dva dominantn\u00e9 jazyky. No, tak tento je ten druh\u00fd. Odkedy spolu chod\u00edme, mal vo svojej mysli v\u017edy ve\u013ek\u00e9 vety. 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