{"id":7392,"date":"2021-07-26T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-07-26T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=7392"},"modified":"2024-04-18T23:32:01","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T21:32:01","slug":"jazyky-lasky-v-ucenictve-fyzicky-dotyk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/jazyky-lasky-v-ucenictve-fyzicky-dotyk\/","title":{"rendered":"Jazyky l\u00e1sky v u\u010den\u00edctve | Fyzick\u00fd dotyk"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Povedzme si\n\u00faprimne, tento jazyk l\u00e1sky u\u017e aj pred pand\u00e9miou znel ako \u0165a\u017ek\u00fd orie\u0161ok. Rada by\nsom n\u00e1s ale pred ka\u017ed\u00fdm jazykom l\u00e1sky nastavila na vlnu h\u013eadania cesty ako sa\nto d\u00e1, nie pr\u00e1zdneho hodnotenia, pre\u010do sa to ned\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c1no, dotyky s\u00fa\nu&nbsp;n\u00e1s v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou sp\u00e1jan\u00e9 so za\u013e\u00fabenos\u0165ou a&nbsp;akosi sa vytr\u00e1ca ich v\u00fdznam\nv&nbsp;be\u017enom \u017eivote. \u013dudia, u&nbsp;ktor\u00fdch je to dominantn\u00fd jazyk l\u00e1sky, \u010dasto\nnemaj\u00fa probl\u00e9m prejavova\u0165 in\u00fdm, \u017ee ich maj\u00fa radi fyzick\u00fdm kontaktom. In\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017ee\nby\u0165 tento jazyk \u00faplne cudz\u00ed, alebo sa ho m\u00f4\u017eu dokonca str\u00e1ni\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00f4j man\u017eel m\u00e1 dva dominantn\u00e9 jazyky l\u00e1sky a\u00a0jedn\u00fdm z\u00a0nich je fyzick\u00fd dotyk. Rodina, z\u00a0ktorej poch\u00e1dzam, pr\u00e1ve naopak nikdy na fyzick\u00fd kontakt nebola v\u00f4bec. Bolo to pre m\u0148a \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9, a\u00a0\u010dasto to pre m\u0148a st\u00e1le \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 je, myslie\u0165 na to, \u017ee m\u00f4j Robo potrebuje pohladenie, objatie. Keby to mal \u00faprimne poveda\u0165, mo\u017eno by st\u00e1le tvrdil, \u017ee t\u00fdch dotykov je m\u00e1lo, ver\u00edm ale, \u017ee by jedn\u00fdm dychom dodal, ak\u00fa cestu som od za\u010diatku pre\u0161la, a\u00a0\u017ee je to lep\u0161ie ako kedysi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A \u010do tvoji u\u010den\u00edci?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Takto to m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 aj v\u00a0tvojom vz\u0165ahu vo\u010di tvojim u\u010den\u00edkom. Ty v\u00f4bec nepotrebuje\u0161, aby sa \u0165a niekto dotkol a\u00a0niekedy ti to pr\u00edde mo\u017eno aj otravn\u00e9. Ale poprem\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj nad \u013eu\u010fmi, o\u00a0ktor\u00fdch sa star\u00e1\u0161. Nie je medzi nimi jeden chalan, ktor\u00fd st\u00e1le do niekoho \u0161tuch\u00e1 alebo diev\u010da, ktor\u00e9 pri pr\u00edchode a\u00a0odchode vyobj\u00edma cel\u00fa miestnos\u0165, aj ke\u010f je v\u00e1s tam sto? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c1no, treba zalovi\u0165 v\u00a0spomienkach spred viac ako roka, ale ver\u00edme, \u017ee \u010doskoro budeme \u017ei\u0165 v\u00a0norm\u00e1lnom svete a\u00a0mysl\u00edm, \u017ee pr\u00e1ve \u013eudia, ktor\u00fdch prim\u00e1rnym jazykom je fyzick\u00fd dotyk, maj\u00fa za sebou ve\u013emi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd rok, tak stoj\u00ed za to pripravi\u0165 sa na prv\u00e9 stretnutia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ako to robi\u0165 prakticky?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pon\u00fakam ti aj nieko\u013eko n\u00e1padov:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Zave\u010fte si nejak\u00e9 uv\u00edtanie. Ak sa ti obj\u00edmanie zd\u00e1 pr\u00edli\u0161, t\u013eapnite si rukami alebo vymyslite nejak\u00fd \u201ehandshake\u201c, nech je to pokojne personalizovan\u00e9 a&nbsp;\u0161pecifick\u00e9 pr\u00e1ve pre dan\u00e9ho \u010dloveka.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ak sme st\u00e1le pri tom, \u017ee obja\u0165 ho sa ti nezd\u00e1 vhodn\u00e9, \u010do takto skupinov\u00e9 objatie napr\u00edklad na narodeniny?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ke\u010f odvedie dobr\u00fa pr\u00e1cu alebo sa mu nie\u010do podar\u00ed, okrem slovnej pochvaly ho pri tom m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 pot\u013eapka\u0165 po ramene.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Pri modlitb\u00e1ch za tohto \u010dloveka sa m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 postavi\u0165 za neho a&nbsp;zlo\u017ei\u0165 na\u0148ho ruky.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Poprem\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj nad aktivitami na skupinku\/t\u00edm\/ml\u00e1de\u017e, ktor\u00fdch s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou je aj fyzicky kontakt.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ak si ty a&nbsp;tvoja ove\u010dka chalan, pokojne si dajte niekedy kamar\u00e1tsku na\u0165ahova\u010dku\/bitku.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ak si ty a&nbsp;tvoja ove\u010dka diev\u010da, urobte si nejak\u00fd beauty \u010das. M\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 jej zaplies\u0165 vlasy, nalakova\u0165 nechty alebo ju nama\u013eova\u0165.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fyzick\u00fd dotyk m\u00f4\u017ee vyzera\u0165 ako jednoduch\u00fd jazyk l\u00e1sky, ale ke\u010f nie je tvoj\u00edm dominantn\u00fdm jazykom, \u010dasto n\u00edm prirodzene nehovor\u00ed\u0161, a&nbsp;preto sk\u00fas vn\u00edma\u0165 v&nbsp;najbli\u017e\u0161om obdob\u00ed, \u010di \u013eudia, o&nbsp;ktor\u00fdch sa star\u00e1\u0161, maj\u00fa tento jazyk l\u00e1sky, a&nbsp;\u010di od teba vn\u00edmaj\u00fa, \u017ee n\u00edm hovor\u00ed\u0161: Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed mi na tebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> Fotografia: Duy Pham\/Unsplash <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Povedzme si \u00faprimne, tento jazyk l\u00e1sky u\u017e aj pred pand\u00e9miou znel ako \u0165a\u017ek\u00fd orie\u0161ok. 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