Mala som to v\u0161etko napl\u00e1novan\u00e9: v 17 za\u010dnem randi\u0165, v 21 sa vyd\u00e1m, do 25 budem ma\u0165 prv\u00e9 die\u0165a. Pozn\u00e1\u0161 to? Potom sa pl\u00e1ny za\u010dali meni\u0165. Teraz m\u00e1m 26, som single a bez det\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A tak v poslednej dobe prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eam nad t\u00fdm, \u017ee 20s je ve\u013emi zvl\u00e1\u0161tne obdobie \u017eivota: niektor\u00ed moji rovesn\u00edci \u0161tuduj\u00fa a b\u00fdvaj\u00fa s rodi\u010dmi; \u010fal\u0161\u00ed si k\u00fapili prv\u00e9 b\u00fdvanie; in\u00ed sa \u017eenia a vyd\u00e1vaj\u00fa; niektor\u00ed u\u017e maj\u00fa deti. Sme rovnako star\u00ed a na\u0161e \u017eivoty vyzeraj\u00fa \u00faplne inak (m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee \u010dasom sa to upokoj\u00ed a rozdiely sa zmen\u0161ia) a je ve\u013emi \u013eahk\u00e9 ma\u0165 pocit, \u017ee nest\u00edha\u0161 (a nepom\u00e1haj\u00fa tomu ani ot\u00e1zky: A kedy u\u017e bude\u0161…?). Je \u013eahk\u00e9 sa porovn\u00e1va\u0165 a ma\u0165 pocit, \u017ee nie\u010do nie je v poriadku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Radi citujeme ver\u0161e z Kazate\u013ea: \u201eV\u0161etko m\u00e1 svoj \u010das<\/em> <\/em>a ka\u017ed\u00e9 po\u010d\u00ednanie pod nebom m\u00e1 svoju chv\u00ed\u013eu: Je \u010das narodi\u0165 sa i \u010das umiera\u0165, \u010das sadi\u0165 i \u010das vyt\u0155ha\u0165 zasaden\u00e9; \u010das…<\/em>\u201c, ve\u010f to pozn\u00e1\u0161. Ale ko\u013eko z n\u00e1s st\u00e1le \u017eije v neust\u00e1lom tlaku z toho, \u017ee akosi nezapad\u00e1me to predstavy, ktor\u00fa sme si vytvorili my, alebo n\u00e1m bola v\u0161tepen\u00e1?<\/p>\n\n\n\n V poslednej dobe som mala nieko\u013eko rozhovorov, v ktor\u00fdch mali \u013eudia pocit, \u017ee nesp\u013a\u0148aj\u00fa obraz \u201etypick\u00e9ho kres\u0165ana\u201c. Niektor\u00ed nezapadali do \u010dasovej l\u00ednie vz\u0165ahov, in\u00ed viedli \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed toho vedeli o Biblii viac, preto\u017ee na rozdiel od nich vyrastali na besiedke, \u010fal\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1pasili so svoj\u00edm ment\u00e1lnym zdrav\u00edm a mali pocit, \u017ee v\u0161etci ostatn\u00ed sa jednoducho maj\u00fa lep\u0161ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mus\u00edm sa prizna\u0165, \u017ee aj ja som upadla do predstavy toho, ako by mal tak\u00fd kres\u0165an vyzera\u0165, ako by mal \u017ei\u0165 a ako by mali vyzera\u0165 jednotliv\u00e9 f\u00e1zy jeho \u017eivota. A v\u0161etky vybo\u010denia som sa bu\u010f sna\u017eila nen\u00e1padne ukry\u0165 alebo prija\u0165 realitu, \u017ee v\u0161etk\u00fdm ostatn\u00fdm to funguje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ke\u010f sa ale pozrie\u0161 do Biblie na pr\u00edbehy stoviek \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00fdch si Hospodin pou\u017e\u00edval, tak si mo\u017eno v\u0161imne\u0161, \u017ee ich \u017eivoty s\u00fa ve\u013emi \u010faleko od pekn\u00fdch \u010di uk\u00e1\u017ekov\u00fdch. Popravde n\u00e1jde\u0161 len ve\u013emi m\u00e1lo tak\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed by sa tomu aspo\u0148 pribl\u00ed\u017eili. P\u00e1n Boh si vyberal nedokonal\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed. Tak\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed by v na\u0161om kontexte tie\u017e nespadali to na\u0161ej predstavy uk\u00e1\u017ekov\u00e9ho nasledovn\u00edka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00e1n Boh im d\u00e1val zas\u013e\u00fabenia a \u010dasto ich plnil v in\u00fdch \u010dasoch, ne\u017e by sme o\u010dak\u00e1vali. Povol\u00e1val ich do vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 v tej chv\u00edli ned\u00e1vali zmysel, ale nakoniec boli \u00faplne s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou Jeho pl\u00e1nu. Bral ich \u0161kared\u00e9 \u010dasti a premie\u0148al ich. Bo\u017eie na\u010dasovanie bolo \u00faplne in\u00e9 ne\u017e to ich.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A tak som si uvedomila, \u017ee to mo\u017eno nie je o tom, \u017ee nie\u010do nie je v poriadku. Hoc ako kli\u0161\u00e9 to znie, je v poriadku \u017ei\u0165 pod\u013ea svojho na\u010dasovania. Je v poriadku u\u017e\u00edva\u0165 si singleness a chodi\u0165 sama do gal\u00e9ri\u00ed, na stretnutia pri \u010daji a ma\u0165 slobodu \u00eds\u0165 hocikedy hocikde. A je tie\u017e ok vyda\u0165 sa skoro a budova\u0165 rodinu, ale tie\u017e napr. nema\u0165 deti. Je tie\u017e ok b\u00fdva\u0165 doma (z rozli\u010dn\u00fdch d\u00f4vodov). Nie si divn\u00fd. Nemus\u00ed\u0161 nah\u00e1\u0148a\u0165 \u010das. Spoma\u013e. Je dobre by\u0165 tam, kde si. Mala som to v\u0161etko napl\u00e1novan\u00e9: v 17 za\u010dnem randi\u0165, v 21 sa vyd\u00e1m, do 25 budem ma\u0165 prv\u00e9 die\u0165a. Pozn\u00e1\u0161 to? Potom sa pl\u00e1ny za\u010dali meni\u0165. Teraz m\u00e1m 26, som single a bez det\u00ed. A tak v poslednej dobe prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eam nad t\u00fdm, \u017ee 20s je ve\u013emi zvl\u00e1\u0161tne obdobie \u017eivota: niektor\u00ed moji rovesn\u00edci \u0161tuduj\u00fa a b\u00fdvaj\u00fa…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":43,"featured_media":7173,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[3,12],"tags":[49,128,54],"class_list":["post-7170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirovat","category-zamyslenia","tag-dovera","tag-trpezlivost","tag-ucenictvo"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":3,"label":"In\u0161pirova\u0165"},{"value":12,"label":"Zamyslenia"}],"post_tag":[{"value":49,"label":"d\u00f4vera"},{"value":128,"label":"trpezlivos\u0165"},{"value":54,"label":"u\u010den\u00edctvo"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/color3-1024x777.jpg",1024,777,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Barbora Bene\u0161ov\u00e1","author_link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/author\/baskabenes\/"},"comment_info":"","category_info":[{"term_id":3,"name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","slug":"inspirovat","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":3,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":383,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":3,"category_count":383,"category_description":"","cat_name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","category_nicename":"inspirovat","category_parent":0},{"term_id":12,"name":"Zamyslenia","slug":"zamyslenia","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":12,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":3,"count":87,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":12,"category_count":87,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Zamyslenia","category_nicename":"zamyslenia","category_parent":3}],"tag_info":[{"term_id":49,"name":"d\u00f4vera","slug":"dovera","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":49,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":7,"filter":"raw"},{"term_id":128,"name":"trpezlivos\u0165","slug":"trpezlivost","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":128,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":3,"filter":"raw"},{"term_id":54,"name":"u\u010den\u00edctvo","slug":"ucenictvo","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":54,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":86,"filter":"raw"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7170","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/43"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7170"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7170\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7173"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\u010co ma (podvedome) u\u010dili<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
\u010co som si uvedomila<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
A \u010do ty?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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