{"id":6378,"date":"2021-03-22T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-03-22T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=6378"},"modified":"2024-04-19T10:05:10","modified_gmt":"2024-04-19T08:05:10","slug":"ziadny-sex-pred-manzelstvom-2-cast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/ziadny-sex-pred-manzelstvom-2-cast\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017diadny sex pred man\u017eelstvom??? \u2013 2. \u010das\u0165"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vedie\u0165, \u017ee je to zl\u00e9, nesta\u010d\u00ed! To bol hlavn\u00fd bod prvej \u010dasti tejto t\u00e9my. Ak ste si to e\u0161te nepre\u010d\u00edtali \u2013 n\u00e1jdete ho <a href=\"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/2021\/02\/ziadny-sex-pred-manzelstvom-ako-je-to-mozne-1-cast\/\">tu<\/a>. Ale z inej perspekt\u00edvy, pochopenie Bo\u017eej m\u00fadrosti o tej n\u00e1dhernej veci, ktor\u00fa navrhol, nazvanej sex, je najlep\u0161\u00edm v\u00fdchodiskov\u00fdm miestom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jeden spisovate\u013e v Biblii hovor\u00ed: \u201e<em>Ako si mlad\u00fd \u010dlovek zachov\u00e1 \u010distotu? Ke\u010f sa bude dr\u017ea\u0165 tvojho slova<\/em>.\u201c (\u017dalm 119:9) Bez nemennej pravdy n\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017eu zaplavi\u0165 kult\u00farne n\u00e1zory a trendy o sexe. Tak\u017ee, v tomto \u010dl\u00e1nku by som chcel predstavi\u0165 preh\u013ead biblickej m\u00fadrosti o sexe pred man\u017eelstvom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prv\u00e1 n\u00e1mietka: A \u010do kult\u00farny kontext?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale predt\u00fdm, ako za\u010dneme, by som r\u00e1d predv\u00eddal dve n\u00e1mietky. Prvou je, \u017ee u\u010ditelia Biblie a\nkres\u0165ansk\u00ed ved\u00faci veria, \u017ee ke\u010f\u017ee biblick\u00e9 z\u00e1kazy sexu pred man\u017eelstvom\nboli nap\u00edsan\u00e9 v konkr\u00e9tnom kult\u00farnom kontexte, tak sa\nnevz\u0165ahuj\u00fa na n\u00e1\u0161 s\u00fa\u010dasn\u00fd kontext, preto\u017ee n\u00e1\u0161\nkult\u00farny kontext je in\u00fd. Konkr\u00e9tne by mohli nazna\u010dova\u0165, \u017ee \u017eiadny sex pred\nman\u017eelstvom bol p\u00f4vodne ur\u010den\u00fd na ochranu\nn\u00e1roku \u017eeny na man\u017eelstvo v jej kult\u00farnom prostred\u00ed.\nTo bolo preto, \u017ee m\u00e1lo mu\u017eov by chcelo \u017eenu, ktor\u00e1 nie je panna. Ale dnes normy\nnie s\u00fa rovnak\u00e9. \u017deny nie s\u00fa odmietnut\u00e9, preto\u017ee nie\ns\u00fa panny. Z\u00e1kaz preto teraz neplat\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hoci medzi s\u00fa\u010dasnos\u0165ou a biblick\u00fdmi \u010dasmi ur\u010dite existuj\u00fa kult\u00farne rozdiely a v niektor\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch sa m\u00f4\u017ee uplat\u0148ova\u0165 tento druh logiky, pokyny o sexe nie s\u00fa jedn\u00fdm z t\u00fdchto pr\u00edpadov. Tieto pokyny s\u00fa jasne stanoven\u00e9 po\u010das viacer\u00fdch \u010dasov\u00fdch obdob\u00ed a r\u00f4znych kult\u00farnych prostred\u00ed, ako si spolo\u010dne uk\u00e1\u017eeme. Ak by v\u0161etky biblick\u00e9 princ\u00edpy podliehali tomuto kult\u00farnemu filtru, nie ve\u013ea, ak v\u00f4bec nejak\u00e9 pravdy, by obst\u00e1li. Preto\u017ee kult\u00fara je o\u010dividne v neust\u00e1lom pr\u00fade a transform\u00e1cii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Druh\u00e1 n\u00e1mietka: Pre\u010do to nie je jasnej\u0161ie?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Druh\u00e1 n\u00e1mietka sa t\u00fdka jasnosti. Pre\u010do nie je len jeden biblick\u00fd ver\u0161, ktor\u00fd hovor\u00ed \u201e\u017eiadny sex pred man\u017eelstvom\u201c. Potom by to bolo v\u0161etko vyrie\u0161en\u00e9. Je to f\u00e9rov\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka, o ktorej si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1 dobr\u00fa odpove\u010f. Kr\u00e1tka odpove\u010f je, \u017ee existuj\u00fa ver\u0161e, ktor\u00e9 to hovoria jasne, ale je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 by\u0165 dogmatick\u00fd o tom, ktor\u00e9 z nich. Tu je to, \u010do m\u00e1m na mysli. Biblia \u010dasto pou\u017e\u00edva term\u00edn \u201esexu\u00e1lna nemor\u00e1lnos\u0165\u201c, \u010do je \u03c0\u03bf\u03c1\u03bd\u03b5\u03af\u03b1 (porne\u00eda) v gr\u00e9ckom jazyku (jazyk, v ktorom bola nap\u00edsan\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina Nov\u00e9ho z\u00e1kona.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V celej Biblii je asi 50 v\u00fdskytov tohto slova. Probl\u00e9mom je, \u017ee je to \u0161irok\u00fd term\u00edn, ktor\u00fd zah\u0155\u0148a mnoho sexu\u00e1lnych hriechov, vr\u00e1tane sexu pred man\u017eelstvom. V dan\u00fdch konverza\u010dn\u00fdch a kult\u00farnych s\u00favislostiach by \u010dlovek s najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ou pravdepodobnos\u0165ou vedel, o akom sexu\u00e1lnom hriechu sa hovorilo, ke\u010f sa toto slovo pou\u017eilo. Ale bez toho, aby sme tam v tomto p\u00f4vodnom kontexte boli, tieto ver\u0161e neprin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa tak\u00fa jasnos\u0165, ak\u00fa potrebujeme pre konkr\u00e9tny sexu\u00e1lny probl\u00e9m, ako je sex pred man\u017eelstvom. Tak\u017ee kv\u00f4li \u0161\u00edrke v\u00fdznamu tohto slova je potrebn\u00e9 odkazova\u0165 na \u010dasti Biblie, ktor\u00e9 odkazuj\u00fa na probl\u00e9m bez toho, aby sme pou\u017eili len tento pojem, ale mus\u00edme prida\u0165 aj \u010fal\u0161ie objas\u0148uj\u00face detaily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ni\u017e\u0161ie n\u00e1jdete skupinu tak\u00fdchto informat\u00edvnych \u010dast\u00ed z Biblie, ktor\u00e9 hovoria o ot\u00e1zke sexu pred man\u017eelstvom. R\u00f4zne zoskupenia (Star\u00fd z\u00e1kon, Nov\u00fd z\u00e1kon a bud\u00facnos\u0165) s\u00fa tis\u00edce rokov star\u00e9 a nap\u00edsan\u00e9 tis\u00edce rokov od seba a osved\u010den\u00e9 ka\u017edou gener\u00e1ciou od ich nap\u00edsania. Ale v\u0161etky potvrdzuj\u00fa rovnak\u00fa hodnotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ak\u00fa hodnotu Boh presadzuje?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je to o Bohu, ktor\u00fd chce ovl\u00e1da\u0165 ve\u013emi pr\u00edjemn\u00e9 veci, podobne ako luxusn\u00e9 aut\u00e1, ktor\u00e9\ns\u00fa cenovo dostupn\u00e9 len pre elitn\u00fa triedu \u013eud\u00ed? Alebo\nje to Bo\u017eia sadistick\u00e1 pasca, aby \u013eudia zhre\u0161ili,\na&nbsp;potom Ho museli prosi\u0165 o odpustenie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alebo je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee Boh sa z\u00fafalo sna\u017e\u00ed chr\u00e1ni\u0165 \u017eeny a deti,\nnajm\u00e4 pred sexu\u00e1lnym zneu\u017e\u00edvan\u00edm, zlomen\u00fdm srdcom,\nrozvodom, sexu\u00e1lne prenosn\u00fdmi chorobami,\nnestabiln\u00fdmi rodinami, nechcen\u00fdmi tehotenstvami, opusten\u00edm a potratom? My\u0161lienky, ktor\u00e9 nasleduj\u00fa,\nodr\u00e1\u017eaj\u00fa, \u017ee\nBoh si hlboko cen\u00ed na\u0161u rados\u0165, ochranu, uzdravenie, mier\na stabilitu. Odr\u00e1\u017eaj\u00fa\nBoha, ktor\u00fd sa o n\u00e1s star\u00e1, ako zodpovedn\u00e9ho rodi\u010da, ktor\u00fd obmedzuje svoje\ndie\u0165a hra\u0165 sa na ru\u0161nej dia\u013enici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Starovek\u00e1 \u017eidovsk\u00e1 kult\u00fara \u2013 Star\u00fd z\u00e1kon<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e<em>Ak si mu\u017e vezme \u017eenu, vojde k nej, no potom ju znen\u00e1vid\u00ed,&nbsp;obvin\u00ed ju z nepo\u010destnosti a roz\u0161iruje o nej zl\u00fd ch\u00fdr t\u00fdm, \u017ee vrav\u00ed: \u201aKe\u010f som si ju vzal za \u017eenu a pribl\u00ed\u017eil som sa k nej, zistil som, \u017ee nie je panna,\u2018&nbsp;otec i matka devy vezm\u00fa d\u00f4kaz dc\u00e9rinho panenstva a prines\u00fa ho star\u0161\u00edm mesta do br\u00e1ny.&nbsp;Otec devy povie star\u0161\u00edm: \u201aSvoju dc\u00e9ru som dal tomuto mu\u017eovi za \u017eenu a on ju znen\u00e1videl.&nbsp;Obvi\u0148uje ju z nepo\u010destnosti a hovor\u00ed: \u00bbNena\u0161iel som pri tvojej dc\u00e9re znak panenstva.\u00ab Tu je d\u00f4kaz panenstva mojej dc\u00e9ry.\u2018 Nato rozprestr\u00fa dc\u00e9rine \u0161aty&nbsp;pred star\u0161\u00edmi mesta.&nbsp;Star\u0161\u00ed mesta odved\u00fa toho mu\u017ea a potrestaj\u00fa ho.&nbsp;Ulo\u017eia mu pokutu sto strieborn\u00fdch za to, \u017ee izraelsk\u00fa pannu uviedol do zl\u00e9ho svetla a peniaze daj\u00fa devinmu otcovi. Ona mu zostane \u017eenou a nikdy ju nesmie prepusti\u0165.&nbsp;Keby v\u0161ak ch\u00fdr o mladej \u017eene bol pravdiv\u00fd a nena\u0161iel by sa d\u00f4kaz jej panenstva,&nbsp;vyved\u00fa ju ku vchodu otcovho domu a mu\u017ei mesta ju ukame\u0148uj\u00fa, lebo sa v Izraeli dopustila nehanebnosti t\u00fdm, \u017ee v otcovskom dome smilnila. Tak odstr\u00e1ni\u0161 zlo spomedzi seba. Keby pristihli mu\u017ea pri s\u00falo\u017ei s vydatou \u017eenou, nech zomr\u00fa obaja, mu\u017e, ktor\u00fd s \u0148ou s\u00falo\u017eil, i \u017eena. Tak odstr\u00e1ni\u0161 zlo z Izraela.&nbsp;Keby bola deva, panna, zasn\u00faben\u00e1 s mu\u017eom a stretol by ju v meste in\u00fd mu\u017e a s\u00falo\u017eil by s \u0148ou,&nbsp;obidvoch vyve\u010fte k br\u00e1ne mesta a ukame\u0148ujte; devu preto, \u017ee nevolala v meste o pomoc a mu\u017ea preto, \u017ee zneuctil sn\u00fabenicu svojho bl\u00ed\u017eneho. Tak odstr\u00e1ni\u0161 zlo spomedzi seba.&nbsp;Keby stretol mu\u017e zasn\u00faben\u00fa devu na poli a n\u00e1silne by sa jej zmocnil a s\u00falo\u017eil by s \u0148ou, zomrie len mu\u017e, ktor\u00fd s \u0148ou s\u00falo\u017eil.&nbsp;Deve neurob ni\u010d. Ona sa nedopustila hriechu, pre ktor\u00fd by mala by\u0165 potrestan\u00e1 smr\u0165ou. V tomto pr\u00edpade je to tak, ako ke\u010f niekto prepadne svojho bl\u00ed\u017eneho a zavra\u017ed\u00ed ho.&nbsp;Stretol ju toti\u017e na poli a zasn\u00faben\u00e1 deva aj kri\u010dala, ale nebolo nikoho, kto by jej pomohol.&nbsp;Keby mu\u017e stretol devu, pannu, ktor\u00e1 nebola zasn\u00faben\u00e1, chytil by ju, s\u00falo\u017eil by s \u0148ou a pristihli by ich,&nbsp;mu\u017e, ktor\u00fd s \u0148ou s\u00falo\u017eil, d\u00e1 otcovi devy p\u00e4\u0165desiat strieborn\u00fdch a bude mu \u017eenou, lebo ju zneuctil. Nesmie ju nikdy prepusti\u0165<\/em>.\u201d (Deuteron\u00f3mium 22:13 \u2013 29)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vy\u0161\u0161ie uveden\u00e1 \u010das\u0165 Bo\u017eieho biblick\u00e9ho pokynu poch\u00e1dza\nz ranej \u017eidovskej kult\u00fary okolo roku 1445 pred Kristom. Z viacer\u00fdch uhlov je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee sexu\u00e1lne\npanenstvo bolo v tejto spolo\u010dnosti pred man\u017eelstvom potrebn\u00e9 a o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00e9. A poru\u0161ovatelia by mohli o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165 najv\u00e1\u017enej\u0161ie\ntresty. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e<em>Ke\u010f od\u00edde\u0161 do boja proti svojim nepriate\u013eom a Hospodin, tvoj Boh, ti ich vyd\u00e1 do r\u00fak, odvedie\u0161 si z nich zajatcov.&nbsp;Ke\u010f uzrie\u0161 medzi zajatcami \u017eenu kr\u00e1snej postavy a ob\u013e\u00fabi\u0161 si ju, m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 si ju vzia\u0165 za \u017eenu.&nbsp;Potom ju uvedie\u0161 do svojho domu. Ona si ohol\u00ed hlavu a ostrih\u00e1 si nechty,&nbsp;vyzle\u010die si \u0161aty, v ktor\u00fdch bola zajat\u00e1, a bude b\u00fdva\u0165 v tvojom dome. Cel\u00fd mesiac bude oplak\u00e1va\u0165 svojho otca a svoju matku. Potom smie\u0161 k nej vojs\u0165, stane\u0161 sa jej man\u017eelom a ona bude tvojou \u017eenou.&nbsp;Ak sa ti potom znep\u00e1\u010di, prepust\u00ed\u0161 ju a bude vo\u013en\u00e1. Nesmie\u0161 ju preda\u0165 za peniaze ani hrubo s \u0148ou zaobch\u00e1dza\u0165, lebo si ju pon\u00ed\u017eil<\/em>.\u201d (Deuteron\u00f3mium 21:10 \u2013 14)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Op\u00e4\u0165 plat\u00ed, \u017ee v tejto druhej pas\u00e1\u017ei je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee sex\nsa nem\u00e1 ma\u0165 mimo man\u017eelstva, dokonca ani so zajatou \u017eenou! Existuje\njasn\u00fd postoj, \u017ee sexualita \u017eien by sa mala\nvysoko re\u0161pektova\u0165 a \u017ee sex si vy\u017eaduje ochranu vyhl\u00e1senia o man\u017eelstve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Starovek\u00e1 gr\u00e9cka kult\u00fara (1 po Kr.) \u2013 Nov\u00fd z\u00e1kon<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ako sme u\u017e spomenuli, gr\u00e9cke slovo pre sexu\u00e1lny hriech je \u03c0\u03bf\u03c1\u03bd\u03b5\u03af\u03b1 (porne\u00eda) a\nvyskytuje sa dvadsa\u0165p\u00e4\u0165kr\u00e1t v Novom z\u00e1kone. Slovo porne\u00eda je \u0161irok\u00fd pojem\nodkazuj\u00faci na sexu\u00e1lnu nemor\u00e1lnos\u0165 ak\u00e9hoko\u013evek typu. P\u00edsmo tie\u017e pou\u017e\u00edva slovo\nporne\u00eda v s\u00favislosti so sexu\u00e1lnou aktivitou mimo man\u017eelstva:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Napr\u00edklad v&nbsp;1. liste Korintsk\u00fdm 7:2 sa hovor\u00ed, \u201e<em>Aby sa v\u0161ak zabr\u00e1nilo smilstvu, nech m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd svoju \u017eenu a ka\u017ed\u00e1 nech m\u00e1 svojho mu\u017ea<\/em>.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To nazna\u010duje, \u017ee bez vlastn\u00e9ho\nman\u017eela alebo man\u017eelky by ste sa z\u00fa\u010dastnili nie\u010doho, \u010do bolo hriechom \u2013 sex\nmimo man\u017eelstva. Alebo in\u00fdmi slovami, ak\nchcete ma\u0165 sex, existuje len jeden sp\u00f4sob, ako nespadn\u00fa\u0165 do sexu\u00e1lnej\nnemor\u00e1lnosti: ma\u0165 vlastn\u00e9ho man\u017eela alebo man\u017eelku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201eNe\u017eenat\u00fdm, nevydat\u00fdm a vdov\u00e1m v\u0161ak hovor\u00edm: Pre nich je dobre, ak zostan\u00fa ako ja. Ale ak sa nevedia ovl\u00e1da\u0165, nech vst\u00fapia do man\u017eelstva, lebo je lep\u0161ie \u017ei\u0165 v man\u017eelstve ako horie\u0165 v\u00e1\u0161\u0148ou.\u201c <\/em>(1. list Korintsk\u00fdm 7:8 \u2013 9)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavol jasne vysvet\u013euje, \u017ee pre nevydat\u00e9 a ne\u017eenat\u00fdch je sloboda skvel\u00e1,\nale Boh chce v&nbsp;tomto stave abstinenciu od sexu. Ak sexu\u00e1lna abstinencia\nnie je nie\u010do, s \u010d\u00edm m\u00f4\u017eu \u017ei\u0165, potom by sa mali sna\u017ei\u0165 o sob\u00e1\u0161. Je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee sex\nv kontexte man\u017eelstva nie je hriech, ale mimo man\u017eelstva (slobodn\u00fd alebo vdova)\nje hrie\u0161ny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e<em>Lebo toto je Bo\u017eia v\u00f4\u013ea: va\u0161e posv\u00e4tenie, aby ste sa zdr\u017eiavali smilstva&nbsp;a ka\u017ed\u00fd z v\u00e1s aby vedel \u017ei\u0165 so svojou vlastnou \u017eenou&nbsp;sv\u00e4to a s \u00factou,&nbsp;nie s n\u00e1ru\u017eivou \u017eiadostivos\u0165ou ako pohania, ktor\u00ed nepoznaj\u00fa Boha.&nbsp;V tejto veci nech nikto nevybo\u010duje z medz\u00ed a nech nepodv\u00e1dza svojho brata, preto\u017ee P\u00e1n sa za to v\u0161etko pomst\u00ed, ako sme v\u00e1m to u\u017e prv povedali a dosved\u010dili.&nbsp;Ve\u010f Boh n\u00e1s nepovolal k ne\u010distote, ale k posv\u00e4teniu.<\/em>\u201d (1. list Tesalonick\u00fdm 4:3 \u2013 7\u0148<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hoci sex pred man\u017eelstvom tu nie\nje v\u00fdslovne uveden\u00fd, je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee sexu\u00e1lna kontrola a mor\u00e1lna zodpovednos\u0165 vo\u010di\ndruh\u00fdm je to, po \u010dom Boh t\u00fa\u017ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Starovek\u00e1 r\u00edmska kult\u00fara (1 po Kr.) \u2013\nNov\u00fd z\u00e1kon<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e<em>Tu pri\u0161li farizeji a sk\u00fa\u0161ali ho ot\u00e1zkou, \u010di je mu\u017eovi dovolen\u00e9 prepusti\u0165 man\u017eelku.&nbsp;Odpovedal im: \u201e\u010co v\u00e1m prik\u00e1zal Moj\u017ei\u0161?\u201c&nbsp;Odpovedali: \u201eMoj\u017ei\u0161 dovolil&nbsp;nap\u00edsa\u0165 prep\u00fa\u0161\u0165ac\u00ed list a prepusti\u0165 ju.\u201c&nbsp;Je\u017ei\u0161 im v\u0161ak povedal: \u201eTak\u00e9to ustanovenie v\u00e1m nap\u00edsal pre tvrdos\u0165 v\u00e1\u0161ho srdca.&nbsp;No u\u017e na za\u010diatku&nbsp;ich Boh stvoril ako mu\u017ea a \u017eenu.&nbsp;Preto opust\u00ed \u010dlovek svojho otca i matku a pri\u013ene k svojej \u017eene&nbsp;a bud\u00fa dvaja jedno telo.&nbsp;Tak\u017ee potom u\u017e nie s\u00fa dvaja, ale jedno telo.&nbsp;\u010co teda Boh spojil, \u010dlovek nech nerozlu\u010duje<\/em>.\u201c (Evanjelium pod\u013ea Marka 10:2 \u2013 9)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ide o to, \u017ee Boh m\u00e1 v \u00famysle, aby sa dvaja \u013eudia stali jedn\u00fdm telom prostredn\u00edctvom sexu a potom neboli oddelen\u00ed. Man\u017eelstvo, aj ke\u010f to nezaru\u010duje, je formalita, ktor\u00e1 zabezpe\u010duje dlhodob\u00fa ochranu tejto jednoty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e<em>Vydat\u00e1 \u017eena je z\u00e1konom viazan\u00e1 k svojmu mu\u017eovi, k\u00fdm je \u017eiv\u00fd. Ke\u010f v\u0161ak mu\u017e zomrie, \u017eena je osloboden\u00e1 od z\u00e1kona, ktor\u00fd ju viazal k mu\u017eovi.&nbsp;A tak teda ak sa odd\u00e1 in\u00e9mu mu\u017eovi, k\u00fdm \u017eije jej mu\u017e, bude sa naz\u00fdva\u0165 cudzolo\u017enicou. Ke\u010f v\u0161ak jej mu\u017e zomrie, je slobodn\u00e1 od z\u00e1kona a nie je cudzolo\u017enicou, ak sa vyd\u00e1 za in\u00e9ho.<\/em>\u201d (List R\u00edmskym 7:2 \u2013 3)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak\u017ee sex je chr\u00e1nen\u00fd\nman\u017eelstvom, pokia\u013e je man\u017eel \u017eeny na\u017eive. A ak jej man\u017eel zomrie, a ona m\u00e1 sex\ns niek\u00fdm po jeho smrti, ona hre\u0161\u00ed,\ns&nbsp;v\u00fdnimkou, ak sa vyd\u00e1 za druh\u00e9ho mu\u017ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bud\u00faca kult\u00fara (? po Kr.)<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e<em>To s\u00fa t\u00ed, \u010do sa nepo\u0161kvrnili so \u017eenami, lebo s\u00fa panici. T\u00ed nasleduj\u00fa Bar\u00e1nka, kamko\u013evek ide. T\u00ed boli vyk\u00fapen\u00ed spomedzi \u013eud\u00ed ako prvotina Bohu a Bar\u00e1nkovi<\/em>.\u201c (Zjavenie J\u00e1na 14:4)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V tomto kontexte posledn\u00fdch \u010dasov\nbud\u00facnosti sa predpoklad\u00e1, \u017ee osoba je zneucten\u00e1\nkv\u00f4li nez\u00e1konn\u00e9mu sexu.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">In\u00e9 logick\u00e9 d\u00f4vody, pre\u010do nema\u0165 sex pred man\u017eelstvom<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Riskujete svoje zdravie kv\u00f4li pohlavne prenosn\u00fdm chorob\u00e1m.<\/li><li>Riskuje\u0161 zdravie svojho bud\u00faceho partnera\/det\u00ed.<\/li><li>Riskuje\u0161 bud\u00facu funk\u010dnos\u0165 toho, \u010do je tak vz\u00e1cne (intimita)<\/li><li>Riskuje\u0161 nechcen\u00e9 tehotenstvo. <\/li><li>Riskuje\u0161 mo\u017enos\u0165 usmrti\u0165 die\u0165a potratom. <\/li><li>Buduje\u0161 ned\u00f4veryhodn\u00fd charakter a zvyky t\u00fdm, \u017ee nie zodpovedn\u00fd a&nbsp;nem\u00e1\u0161 sebakontrolu.<\/li><li>Je to hlboko vo vn\u00fatri (du\u0161i) mor\u00e1lne poru\u0161enie druhej osoby na za\u010diatku v\u00e1\u0161ho potenci\u00e1lneho \u017eivota spolu.<\/li><li>Je to poru\u0161enie prvej ve\u013ekej \u0161ance \u017eeny veri\u0165 ti (mu\u017eovi) v z\u00e1kladnom mor\u00e1lnom rozhodnut\u00ed sebadiscipl\u00edny a dobr\u00e9ho \u00fasudku.<\/li><li>Ignoruje potrebu kontroly nad tvojou sexu\u00e1lnou energiou ( dokonca ajv man\u017eelstve).<\/li><li>Nap\u013a\u0148a tvoju sebeck\u00fa t\u00fa\u017ebu po sexu\u00e1lnom pote\u0161en\u00ed a z\u00e1rove\u0148 odmieta uzna\u0165 potenci\u00e1lne extr\u00e9mne \u0161kody pre tvojho partnera.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 urobi\u0165 najlep\u0161ie rozhodnutie pre svoj sexu\u00e1lny \u017eivot a bud\u00face vz\u0165ahy? Ur\u010dite m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161! Sta\u010d\u00ed jednoducho vedie\u0165, \u017ee je to zl\u00e9? Bez \u0161ance! Bude \u00faspech bez boja? V \u017eiadnom pr\u00edpade! Dok\u00e1\u017ee\u0161 to bez potreby pomoci a podpory in\u00fdch? To nie je pravdepodobn\u00e9. Pozvi niekoho do svojej bitky dnes. Pode\u013e sa o svoj boj a urob sol\u00eddny pl\u00e1n pre v\u00ed\u0165azstvo. V \u010fal\u0161ej \u010dasti na\u0161ej s\u00e9rie sa pozrieme na niektor\u00e9 praktick\u00e9 strat\u00e9gie pre tento pl\u00e1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak si si tento \u010dl\u00e1nok pre\u010d\u00edtal a&nbsp;potrebuje\u0161 pom\u00f4c\u0165 s&nbsp;tak\u00fdmito probl\u00e9mami, pros\u00edm, nev\u00e1haj a&nbsp;kontaktuj ma na Facebooku alebo na&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:zshepperson@josiahventure.com\">zshepperson@josiahventure.com<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fotografia: Stephen Leonardi\/Unsplash    <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vedie\u0165, \u017ee je to zl\u00e9, nesta\u010d\u00ed! To bol hlavn\u00fd bod prvej \u010dasti tejto t\u00e9my. Ak ste si to e\u0161te nepre\u010d\u00edtali \u2013 n\u00e1jdete ho tu. Ale z inej perspekt\u00edvy, pochopenie Bo\u017eej m\u00fadrosti o tej n\u00e1dhernej veci, ktor\u00fa navrhol, nazvanej sex, je najlep\u0161\u00edm v\u00fdchodiskov\u00fdm miestom. 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