{"id":6058,"date":"2021-02-22T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-02-22T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=6058"},"modified":"2024-04-19T10:05:10","modified_gmt":"2024-04-19T08:05:10","slug":"ziadny-sex-pred-manzelstvom-ako-je-to-mozne-1-cast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/ziadny-sex-pred-manzelstvom-ako-je-to-mozne-1-cast\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017diadny sex pred man\u017eelstvom? Ako je to mo\u017en\u00e9? \u2013 1. \u010das\u0165"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vau, ak\u00e1 v\u00e1\u017ena ot\u00e1zka pre na\u0161u gener\u00e1ciu. D\u00fafam, \u017ee sa ju p\u00fdtate, preto\u017ee v\u00e1m naozaj z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, \u010do je najlep\u0161ie pre v\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot. To by zah\u0155\u0148alo v\u00e1\u0161ho bud\u00faceho man\u017eela alebo man\u017eelku a deti. A pravdepodobne v\u00e1m nie\u010do vo vn\u00fatri hovor\u00ed, \u017ee na odpovedi naozaj z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak ste ako ja predt\u00fdm, ne\u017e som sa o\u017eenil, tlak va\u0161ej sexuality v\u00e1s n\u00fati z\u00fafalo d\u00fafa\u0165, \u017ee existuje medzera, ktor\u00e1 by v\u00e1m umo\u017enila \u010do najsk\u00f4r naplni\u0165 va\u0161e sexu\u00e1lne t\u00fa\u017eby. Tieto tlaky s\u00fa mimoriadne n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 a m\u00f4\u017eu sp\u00f4sobi\u0165, \u017ee ma\u0165 zdrav\u00fd rozum v&nbsp;oblasti sexuality sa bude zda\u0165 bezn\u00e1dejn\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pravdou je, \u017ee nesta\u010d\u00ed len vedie\u0165, \u010di je sex pred man\u017eelstvom hriechom. Je to zlo\u017eitej\u0161ie. Tak\u017ee d\u00fafam, \u017ee tento \u010dl\u00e1nok nebude pr\u00edli\u0161 zjednodu\u0161ova\u0165, ale pon\u00fakne skuto\u010dn\u00fa pomoc a \u0161ancu bojova\u0165 pre svedomit\u00fdch nasledovn\u00edkov Boha. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Faktor jeden<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00f4vod, pre\u010do hovor\u00edm &#8222;vedie\u0165 nesta\u010d\u00ed&#8220;, je pre dva faktory, ktor\u00e9 maj\u00fa tendenciu \u013eahko prem\u00f4c\u0165 n\u00e1\u0161 ment\u00e1lny mor\u00e1lny k\u00f3dex. Prvou s\u00fa na\u0161e osobn\u00e9 praktiky. Druhou je na\u0161a fyzick\u00e1 povaha. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na\u0161e osobn\u00e9 praktiky alebo n\u00e1vyky m\u00f4\u017eu porazi\u0165 na\u0161e mor\u00e1lne ciele, ak im to dovol\u00edme. S\u00fa to tieto praktiky, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017eu nastavi\u0165 p\u00f4du pre sexu\u00e1lne zlyhanie dlho predt\u00fdm, ne\u017e budete ma\u0165 priate\u013eku alebo priate\u013ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak sa napr\u00edklad pravidelne \u017eiv\u00edte sexu\u00e1lne provokat\u00edvnymi filmami alebo\nknihami, va\u0161a sexu\u00e1lna energia bude\npravdepodobne abnorm\u00e1lne vysok\u00e1. Vn\u00edmam na\u0161u sexu\u00e1lnu energiu ako nie\u010do, \u010do sa\nd\u00e1 mera\u0165, ako teplomer meria hrniec vody nad oh\u0148om. Na\u0161a norm\u00e1lna sexu\u00e1lna\nfunkcia udr\u017e\u00ed norm\u00e1lne a zvl\u00e1dnute\u013en\u00e9 teplo v hrnci. Ale ke\u010f prid\u00e1te sexu\u00e1lne\nnabit\u00e9 praktiky, n\u00e1\u0161 sexu\u00e1lny apet\u00edt rastie do bodu varu a rob\u00ed sexu\u00e1lnu\nkontrolu nemo\u017enou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A samozrejme v na\u0161ej s\u00fa\u010dasnej spolo\u010dnosti existuje ove\u013ea viac prakt\u00edk, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017eu prispie\u0165 k vriacej sexualite. Pok\u00fasim sa urobi\u0165 kr\u00e1tky zoznam. Ale pros\u00edm, neberte tento zoznam ako vypo\u010d\u00edtanie dobr\u00fdch a&nbsp;zl\u00fdch vec\u00ed. Len navrhujem, aby sa tieto pova\u017eovali za mo\u017en\u00fdch prispievate\u013eov k hyper sexualite. R\u00f4zni \u013eudia reaguj\u00fa na r\u00f4zne veci r\u00f4znymi sp\u00f4sobmi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Sexu\u00e1lne chatovanie online&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/li><li>Voyeurizmus&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/li><li>Filmy so sexu\u00e1lnym obsahom&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/li><li>Netflix alebo in\u00e9 telev\u00edzne seri\u00e1ly&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/li><li>Sexu\u00e1lna aktivita (bez pohlavn\u00e9ho styku)<\/li><li>Masturb\u00e1cia<\/li><li>Internetov\u00e1 pornografia<\/li><li>\u010casopisy so sexu\u00e1lnym obsahom<\/li><li>Vide\u00e1 na YouTube alebo in\u00e9 aplik\u00e1cie so sexu\u00e1lnym obsahom (tik tok, snap chat &nbsp;at\u010f.).<\/li><li>Sexu\u00e1lna hudba alebo hudobn\u00e9 vide\u00e1<\/li><li>Spodn\u00e1 bielize\u0148 (\u010dasopisy, reklamy, n\u00e1kup alebo fanatiz\u00e1cia s)<\/li><li>Knihy so sexu\u00e1lnym obsahom<\/li><li>Sexu\u00e1lne fanatizovanie<\/li><li>Sexu\u00e1lny tanec<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mo\u017eno budete chcie\u0165 u\u0161etri\u0165 sex pre man\u017eelstvo, ale va\u0161e ka\u017edodenn\u00e9\npraktiky vytv\u00e1raj\u00fa vriaci sexu\u00e1lny tlak, ktor\u00fd v\u00e1s nakoniec m\u00f4\u017ee prin\u00fati\u0165 robi\u0165\nveci, ktor\u00e9 nechcete. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Faktor dva<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Druh\u00fdm faktorom, ktor\u00fd je potrebn\u00e9 zv\u00e1\u017ei\u0165, je na\u0161a fyzick\u00e1 povaha. Na\u0161e tel\u00e1 s\u00fa vytvoren\u00e9 Bohom tak, aby reagovali na sexu\u00e1lnu stimul\u00e1ciu. Na\u0161a prirodzen\u00e1 t\u00fa\u017eba po sexe je jednou z najsilnej\u0161\u00edch s\u00edl, ktor\u00e9 za\u017e\u00edvame, a jej zdravou a u\u017eito\u010dnou za spr\u00e1vnych okolnost\u00ed. Samozrejme, nie ka\u017ed\u00fd je rovnak\u00fd. Ale v pr\u00edpade, \u017ee va\u0161e t\u00fa\u017eby nie s\u00fa tak siln\u00e9, st\u00e1le mus\u00edte po\u010d\u00edta\u0165 s t\u00fdmi okolo v\u00e1s (priatelia, spolupracovn\u00edci, deti, man\u017eel), ktor\u00fdch pudy s\u00fa silnej\u0161ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak\u017ee mo\u017eno budete chcie\u0165 vyhradi\u0165 sex pre man\u017eelstvo, ale ak sa\ndostanete do situ\u00e1cie, ke\u010f bude va\u0161a prirodzen\u00e1 sexu\u00e1lna t\u00fa\u017eba (alebo niekoho\nin\u00e9ho) silnej\u0161ia, m\u00f4\u017eete by\u0165 prekvapen\u00ed, \u017ee sa ocitnete viac sexu\u00e1lne mimo\nkontroly alebo vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161om probl\u00e9me, ne\u017e ste si predstavovali. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To je komplikovan\u00e9 skuto\u010dnos\u0165ou, \u017ee t\u00e1to prirodzen\u00e1 sexu\u00e1lna energia nie je nie\u010do, \u010do za\u017e\u00edvame \u010dasto pred na\u0161ou\nprvou sexu\u00e1lnou sk\u00fasenos\u0165ou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je to nie\u010do ako intenzita jazdy autom po prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t, \u010do zvy\u010dajne neza\u017eijete a\u017e do ur\u010dit\u00e9ho bodu svojho dospel\u00e9ho \u017eivota.&nbsp;V d\u00f4sledku toho n\u00e1s sila tejto prirodzenej sexu\u00e1lnej sily m\u00f4\u017ee \u00faplne prekvapi\u0165. A \u010do je e\u0161te hor\u0161ie, m\u00f4\u017ee n\u00e1s prem\u00f4c\u0165 sp\u00f4sobom, ktor\u00fd sp\u00f4sobuje katastrof\u00e1lne n\u00e1sledky (t. j. ne\u017eelan\u00e9 sexu\u00e1lne kroky, tehotenstvo, potrat, sexu\u00e1lne prenosn\u00e9 choroby, zn\u00e1silnenie, zneu\u017e\u00edvanie). Ale k\u00fdm si uvedom\u00edme, \u017ee je to sila, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 pr\u00edli\u0161 neskoro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak\u017ee s t\u00fdmito dvomi faktormi, ktor\u00e9 v&nbsp;n\u00e1s pracuj\u00fa (osobn\u00e9 praktiky a fyzick\u00e1 povaha), si r\u00fdchlo uvedom\u00edte, \u017ee biblick\u00e1 logika &#8222;\u017eiadny sex pred man\u017eelstvom&#8220; m\u00e1 obmedzen\u00fa schopnos\u0165 pom\u00f4c\u0165 v\u00e1m. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Slovo zneu\u017e\u00edvan\u00fdm<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Predt\u00fdm, ako zatvor\u00edm t\u00fato \u010das\u0165, by som chcel poveda\u0165 p\u00e1r slov t\u00fdm, ktor\u00ed pre\u017eili sexu\u00e1lnu aktivitu proti svojej v\u00f4li. Nezn\u00e1\u0161am, \u017ee je to s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 n\u00e1\u0161ho rozbit\u00e9ho sveta. A nezn\u00e1\u0161am, \u017ee ste museli za\u017ei\u0165 t\u00fato temnotu. A m\u00f4\u017eete si by\u0165 ist\u00ed, \u017ee Boh v\u00e1s nepova\u017euje za zodpovedn\u00fdch za hriech niekoho in\u00e9ho. A nemus\u00edte dopusti\u0165, aby t\u00e1to krivda definovala va\u0161u sexu\u00e1lnu bud\u00facnos\u0165. Nesledujte t\u00fa negat\u00edvnu progresiu. Odmietnite, aby v\u00e1s to pritiahol k tomu, aby ste boli niek\u00fdm, k\u00fdm ste nikdy nechceli by\u0165. St\u00e1le si m\u00f4\u017eete vybra\u0165 \u010distotu. St\u00e1le si m\u00f4\u017eete vybra\u0165 zodpovedne a cnos\u0165. Nie, nebude to \u013eahk\u00e1 bitka. Ale m\u00f4\u017eete vyhra\u0165!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Hodnotenie<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak\u017ee, \u010do hovor\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161 mera\u010d sexuality? Kri\u010d\u00ed va\u0161e telo po medzere v pravidl\u00e1ch? M\u00e1te probl\u00e9my v oblasti osobn\u00fdch prakt\u00edk? Ver\u00edm, \u017ee existuje cesta k sexu\u00e1lnemu pre\u017eitiu pred man\u017eelstvom. Ale nie je to t\u00fdm, \u017ee budete jednoducho presved\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee to Biblia zakazuje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak si si tento \u010dl\u00e1nok pre\u010d\u00edtal a&nbsp;potrebuje\u0161 pom\u00f4c\u0165 s&nbsp;tak\u00fdmito probl\u00e9mami, pros\u00edm, nev\u00e1haj a&nbsp;kontaktuj ma na Facebooku alebo na&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:zshepperson@josiahventure.com\">zshepperson@josiahventure.com<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fotografia: Ian Schneider\/Unsplash <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vau, ak\u00e1 v\u00e1\u017ena ot\u00e1zka pre na\u0161u gener\u00e1ciu. D\u00fafam, \u017ee sa ju p\u00fdtate, preto\u017ee v\u00e1m naozaj z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, \u010do je najlep\u0161ie pre v\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot. To by zah\u0155\u0148alo v\u00e1\u0161ho bud\u00faceho man\u017eela alebo man\u017eelku a deti. A pravdepodobne v\u00e1m nie\u010do vo vn\u00fatri hovor\u00ed, \u017ee na odpovedi naozaj z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. 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