{"id":5471,"date":"2020-12-14T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-14T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=5471"},"modified":"2024-04-19T10:05:10","modified_gmt":"2024-04-19T08:05:10","slug":"ucenictvo-ako-zivotny-styl-4-ako-mat-spravnu-perspektivu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/ucenictvo-ako-zivotny-styl-4-ako-mat-spravnu-perspektivu\/","title":{"rendered":"U\u010den\u00edctvo ako \u017eivotn\u00fd \u0161t\u00fdl #4 \u2013 Ako ma\u0165 spr\u00e1vnu perspekt\u00edvu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cA pokoj Kristov nech rozhoduje vo va\u0161ich srdciach, ve\u010f pre\u0148 ste boli povolan\u00ed v jednom tele. A bu\u010fte v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed!\u201d (v. 15)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V <a href=\"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/2020\/11\/ucenictvo-ako-zivotny-styl-3-ako-byt-pozitivny-a-zaroven-uprimny\/\">minulom diele<\/a> sme hovorili o tom, ako by\u0165 \u00faprimn\u00fd a z\u00e1rove\u0148 pozit\u00edvny. Kon\u010dili sme pr\u00e1ve touto Pavlovou radou veriacim do Kolos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu\u010fte v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavel identifikuje v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 ako sp\u00f4sob, ako necha\u0165 p\u00f4sobi\u0165 Ducha Sv\u00e4t\u00e9ho na na\u0161e srdcia a sta\u0165 sa tvorcami a \u0161\u00edrite\u013emi pokoja. T\u00e1to v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 nie je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 len pre n\u00e1s, ale aj pre \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa n\u00e1m zveren\u00ed a o ktor\u00fdch sa star\u00e1me, preto\u017ee v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 je n\u00e1kazliv\u00e1. V tejto \u010dasti si vysvetl\u00edme, \u010do v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 znamen\u00e1 a ak\u00e9 m\u00e1 pozit\u00edvne d\u00f4sledky na to, aby sme mali spr\u00e1vnu perspekt\u00edvu na \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Probl\u00e9m nespr\u00e1vnej perspekt\u00edvy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Najsk\u00f4r sa v\u0161ak treba op\u00fdta\u0165, pre\u010do m\u00e1me probl\u00e9m s v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165ou. Pre\u010do sme nev\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed? Pre\u010do sa s\u0165a\u017eujeme? Jedn\u00fdm z hlavn\u00fdch d\u00f4vodov je to, \u017ee m\u00e1me zl\u00fa perspekt\u00edvu na veci. <strong>Negat\u00edvne veci v na\u0161om \u017eivote prece\u0148ujeme a pozit\u00edvne podce\u0148ujeme<\/strong>. M\u00e1me latku spokojnosti postaven\u00fa tak vysoko, \u017ee ak\u00e1ko\u013evek odch\u00fdlka od na\u0161ich n\u00e1rokov na spokojn\u00fd \u017eivot n\u00e1s priv\u00e1dza do nespokojnosti a nev\u010fa\u010dnosti. St\u00e1le sme nespokojn\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>M\u00e1m toho ve\u013ea! M\u00e1m ve\u013ea \u0161koly! Ve\u013ea pr\u00e1ce!&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>M\u00e1m probl\u00e9m s rodi\u010dmi! S priate\u013eom\/priate\u013ekou! S man\u017eelom\/man\u017eelkou! S ml\u00e1de\u017eou\/so zborom!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>M\u00e1m m\u00e1lo pe\u0148az\u00ed!&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Slovensko je mafi\u00e1nsky \u0161t\u00e1t!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010co o\u010dak\u00e1vame? Raj na zemi? Sk\u00fas sa op\u00fdta\u0165, \u010do v\u0161etko by sa muselo sta\u0165, aby si bol naozaj spokojn\u00fd. Ma\u0165 dva roky pr\u00e1zdnin? Robi\u0165 iba to, \u010do chcem? A \u010do vlastne chcem? Iba pozera\u0165 Netflix alebo Instagram? Ke\u010f sa nad t\u00fdm zamysl\u00ed\u0161 ozajstne, tak zist\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee probl\u00e9m je inde ako v na\u0161ich o\u010dak\u00e1vaniach. Probl\u00e9m je v na\u0161om srdci. Nie sme v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed. Nie sme \u0161\u00edrite\u013emi dobra. Nevieme oceni\u0165 prav\u00fa hodnotu vec\u00ed, vz\u0165ahov, \u013eud\u00ed, pr\u00edrody, Boha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Daj dostato\u010dn\u00fd priestor k uznaniu dobra vo svojom \u017eivote<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jedna z mnoh\u00fdch psychologick\u00fdch defin\u00edci\u00ed v\u010fa\u010dnosti hovor\u00ed, \u017ee je to: \u201eocenenie za to, \u010do jednotlivec dostane, \u010di u\u017e hmotn\u00e9 alebo nehmotn\u00e9. V\u010faka v\u010fa\u010dnosti \u013eudia uzn\u00e1vaj\u00fa dobro vo svojom \u017eivote&#8230; V\u00fdsledkom je, \u017ee v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 pom\u00e1ha \u013eu\u010fom spoji\u0165 sa s nie\u010d\u00edm v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm ako oni sami ako jednotlivci \u2013 \u010di u\u017e s in\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi, pr\u00edrodou alebo s vy\u0161\u0161ou mocou. \u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Psychol\u00f3gia uzn\u00e1va pozit\u00edvne d\u00f4sledky v\u010fa\u010dnosti na na\u0161u du\u0161u. A \u010do je v\u00fdsledkom? Z\u00edska\u0165 spr\u00e1vnu perspekt\u00edvu, ktor\u00e1 znamen\u00e1 spoji\u0165 sa s nie\u010d\u00edm v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm ako je moje ego. <strong>V\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 n\u00e1m pom\u00e1ha uvedomi\u0165 si spojenie s in\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi, pr\u00edrodou alebo Bohom.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kanadsk\u00fd katol\u00edcky teol\u00f3g Ron Rolheiser v knihe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Sacred-Fire-Vision-Christian-Maturity-ebook\/dp\/B00F8FA5ES\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=T9YL3UMLM2PL&amp;dchild=1&amp;keywords=sacred+fire+by+ronald+rolheiser&amp;qid=1605009216&amp;s=digital-text&amp;sprefix=sacred+fire%2Cdigital-text%2C239&amp;sr=1-1\">Sacred Fire<\/a> p\u00ed\u0161e o troch \u0161t\u00e1di\u00e1ch u\u010den\u00edctva v \u017eivote kres\u0165ana, ktor\u00fd zodpoved\u00e1 trom f\u00e1zam pozemsk\u00e9ho \u017eivota. V prvej f\u00e1ze, ktor\u00fa naz\u00fdva z\u00e1kladn\u00fdm u\u010den\u00edctvom, \u010del\u00edme \u00falohe n\u00e1js\u0165 si domov. T\u00e1to f\u00e1za zodpoved\u00e1 \u017eivotu mlad\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd op\u00fa\u0161ta svoj domov a h\u013ead\u00e1 si vlastn\u00e9 miesto v \u017eivote, vyber\u00e1 si svoju kari\u00e9ru, zbor, priate\u013eov, kolegov. H\u013ead\u00e1 svoje miesto vo svete. V druhej f\u00e1ze sa dostane do bodu, kedy sa za\u010dne viac zameriava\u0165 na druh\u00fdch ako na seba. Za\u010dne poci\u0165ova\u0165 potrebu pom\u00e1ha\u0165 druh\u00fdm. Vychov\u00e1va deti, vyu\u010duje v zbore, odovzd\u00e1va sk\u00fasenosti. T\u00fato f\u00e1zu naz\u00fdva zrel\u00fdm u\u010den\u00edctvom. V tretej f\u00e1ze, kone\u010dnej, si uvedomuje svoju smrte\u013enos\u0165 a pripravuje sa na odchod z tejto zeme.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Viem, \u017ee sa asi zatia\u013e nach\u00e1dza\u0161 v prvej f\u00e1ze \u017eivota, kedy si h\u013ead\u00e1\u0161 svoje miesto vo svete a je prirodzen\u00e9, \u017ee m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee ty rozhoduje\u0161 o svojom \u017eivote a o tom, kam sa bude\u0161 v \u017eivote ubera\u0165. Z vlastnej sk\u00fasenosti v\u0161ak viem, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm sk\u00f4r si uvedom\u00edme, \u017ee potrebujeme \u017ei\u0165 pre druh\u00fdch a vn\u00edma\u0165 \u017eivot ako dobr\u00fd dar, t\u00fdm lep\u0161ie pre n\u00e1s. Pre\u010do? Lebo sa v\u010faka tomu u\u010d\u00edme vyjadrova\u0165 v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 a uzn\u00e1va\u0165 dobro v na\u0161om \u017eivote.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">By\u0165 v\u010fa\u010dn\u00fd = skuto\u010dne milova\u0165&nbsp;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rolheiser p\u00ed\u0161e, \u017ee v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 je jedna z najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161\u00edch vlastnost\u00ed v druhej f\u00e1ze zrel\u00e9ho u\u010den\u00edctva. Inak povedan\u00e9 \u2013 miera zrelosti je priamo \u00famern\u00e1 miere v\u010fa\u010dnosti, ktor\u00fa vyjadrujeme. Bez toho, aby sme boli v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed, nem\u00f4\u017eeme by\u0165 zrel\u00fdmi u\u010den\u00edkmi, preto\u017ee bez v\u010fa\u010dnosti sa nedok\u00e1\u017eeme te\u0161i\u0165 z darov \u017eivota, vz\u0165ahov, pr\u00edrody, Bo\u017eej vernosti a milosti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A \u010do viac, bez v\u010fa\u010dnosti nevieme ozaj milova\u0165. Pod\u013ea Rolheisera plat\u00ed, \u017ee najviac miluj\u00faci \u010dlovek, ak\u00e9ho pozn\u00e1\u0161, je ve\u013emi pravdepodobne aj najv\u010fa\u010dnej\u0161ia bytos\u0165. Preto\u017ee ozajstn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska v\u017edy pramen\u00ed z v\u010fa\u010dnosti. Naopak, \u201cv\u0161etko, \u010do naz\u00fdvame l\u00e1skou, \u010do v\u0161ak nepramen\u00ed z v\u010fa\u010dnosti, tak bude nakoniec iba manipulat\u00edvne a sebastredn\u00e9.\u201d Znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee pokia\u013e nesl\u00fa\u017eime druh\u00fdm v\u010fa\u010dne, potom je na\u0161a l\u00e1ska falo\u0161n\u00e1 a sebestredn\u00e1. Sl\u00fa\u017eime z povinnosti a o\u010dak\u00e1vame za t\u00fato slu\u017ebu odmenu. Ako star\u0161\u00ed brat v podobenstve o m\u00e1rnotratnom synovi.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ver\u00edm tomu, \u017ee jednou z na\u0161ich hlavn\u00fdch \u00faloh na zemi je vyjadrova\u0165 v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 a chv\u00e1lu n\u00e1\u0161mu Stvorite\u013eovi za dar \u017eivota. Z vlastnej sk\u00fasenosti asi viete, \u017ee to, ako m\u00f4\u017eete najviac pote\u0161i\u0165 darcu, je to, \u017ee sa \u00faprimne radujete z daru, ktor\u00fd ste dostali. <strong>Skuto\u010dn\u00fd a l\u00e1skypln\u00fd darca neo\u010dak\u00e1va odmenu za svoj dar, ale te\u0161\u00ed sa, ke\u010f v\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017ee urobi\u0165 ozajstn\u00fa a nefal\u0161ovan\u00fa rados\u0165.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u00e1\u010di sa mi, \u017ee v sloven\u010dine darca na slovo \u010fakujem reaguje slovom: \u201cV\u010eA\u010cNE.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ja s\u00e1m som v poslednej dobe neskuto\u010dne v\u010fa\u010dn\u00fd za na\u0161ich rodinn\u00fdch priate\u013eov. Je to rodinka, s ktorou sme sa zozn\u00e1mili v\u010faka na\u0161im de\u0165om, ktor\u00e9 spolu chodia do \u0161koly. Nau\u010dili n\u00e1s chodi\u0165 viac do pr\u00edrody a tr\u00e1vi\u0165 v nej pr\u00edjemn\u00fd \u010das. Chodievame minim\u00e1lne raz do t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a do lesa. Som v\u010fa\u010dn\u00fd za to, \u017ee v Bratislave m\u00e1me Mal\u00e9 Karpaty. Viem, nie s\u00fa to Tatry, ale samotn\u00e1 pr\u00edtomnos\u0165 v lese je pre m\u0148a jedn\u00fdm zo sp\u00f4sobov, ak\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017eem vyjadrova\u0165 chv\u00e1lu Bohu za kr\u00e1su jeho stvorite\u013esk\u00e9ho diela.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u017e dop\u00ed\u0161em tento \u010dl\u00e1nok, p\u00f4jdeme ve\u010der zase spolu von na prech\u00e1dzku. Nesmiem im zabudn\u00fa\u0165 po\u010fakova\u0165 a vyjadri\u0165 v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165, \u017ee s\u00fa na\u0161i priatelia a m\u00f4\u017eeme spolu tr\u00e1vi\u0165 \u010das. Preto\u017ee aj v\u010faka nim sa u\u010d\u00edm ma\u0165 spr\u00e1vnu perspekt\u00edvu a vn\u00edma\u0165 \u017eivot a \u013eud\u00ed v \u0148om ako dar. Ako Bo\u017e\u00ed dar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na z\u00e1ver p\u00e1r tipov a ot\u00e1zok k rozv\u00edjaniu v\u010fa\u010dnosti vo vlastnom \u017eivote a v u\u010den\u00edctve:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Pre\u010d\u00edtaj si Kol 3:16 a 17. Dobre si pozri, kde sa tam spom\u00edna v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 a \u010fakovanie.&nbsp;<\/li><li>Op\u00fdtaj sa s\u00e1m seba, nako\u013eko praktizuje\u0161 tieto formy v\u010fa\u010dnosti spom\u00ednan\u00e9 v t\u00fdchto ver\u0161och vo svojom \u017eivote a nako\u013eko povzbudzuje\u0161 k v\u010fa\u010dnosti \u013eud\u00ed, na ktor\u00fdch vpl\u00fdva\u0161.<\/li><li>Ako vie\u0161 povzbudi\u0165 svojich u\u010den\u00edkov k v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ej v\u010fa\u010dnosti?<\/li><li>Nako\u013eko sa venujete na svojich stretnutiach \u010fakovn\u00fdm modlitb\u00e1m?<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fotografia: Priscilla Du Preez\/Unsplash <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cA pokoj Kristov nech rozhoduje vo va\u0161ich srdciach, ve\u010f pre\u0148 ste boli povolan\u00ed v jednom tele. A bu\u010fte v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed!\u201d (v. 15) V minulom diele sme hovorili o tom, ako by\u0165 \u00faprimn\u00fd a z\u00e1rove\u0148 pozit\u00edvny. Kon\u010dili sme pr\u00e1ve touto Pavlovou radou veriacim do Kolos.&nbsp; Bu\u010fte v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed! 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