V \u010dl\u00e1nku z minul\u00e9ho t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a\nsme \u0161pecifikovali p\u00e1r z\u00e1kladn\u00fdch inform\u00e1ci\u00ed o extrovertoch, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017eu\nplati\u0165 ako pre teba, tak aj pre niekoho, koho vedie\u0161 v ml\u00e1de\u017ei, na\nskupinke, \u010di mentoruje\u0161. Venovali sme sa v \u0148om tomu, ako sa extroverti\nspr\u00e1vaj\u00fa v skupine a t\u00fdmto \u010dl\u00e1nkom sa upriamime na slu\u017ebu extrovertom\nindividu\u00e1lne. Je skvel\u00e9, \u017ee si sa rozhodol stara\u0165 o nejak\u00fa t\u00fa extrovertn\u00fa\nove\u010dku. Asi aj ty m\u00e1\u0161 r\u00e1d dobrodru\u017estvo, ke\u010f si sa do toho odhodlal. Pon\u00fakame\nti teda ak\u00fdsi \u201estarterpack\u201c, ktor\u00fd ti pom\u00f4\u017ee na tejto ceste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Po\u010das uplynul\u00e9ho t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a ma zaujal\nma v\u00fdrok Pe\u0165a Podlesn\u00e9ho, ktor\u00fd povedal: \u201eExtroverti prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00fa t\u00fdm, \u017ee\nrozpr\u00e1vaj\u00fa.\u201c. <\/em><\/strong>To je teda z\u00e1kladn\u00e1 inform\u00e1cia, ktor\u00fa potrebuje\u0161 vedie\u0165\ne\u0161te pred t\u00fdm, ako sa rozhodne\u0161 sl\u00fa\u017ei\u0165 svojej extrovertnej ove\u010dke. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u010co e\u0161te bude\u0161 potrebova\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Po\u010das \u010dasu str\u00e1ven\u00e9ho s tvojou extrovertnou ove\u010dkou sa teda priprav na ve\u013ea po\u010d\u00favania. Tvoj extrovert toti\u017eto spracov\u00e1va veci tak, \u017ee rozpr\u00e1va. Ve\u013eakr\u00e1t a\u017e ke\u010f veci vyslovuje, za\u010d\u00edna sa c\u00edti\u0165 \u013eah\u0161ie. Nepom\u00e1ha mu to v\u0161ak svojej situ\u00e1cii rozumie\u0165, a preto pom\u00e1haj\u00fa dobr\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Odpor\u00fa\u010dam ti teda sled viet nepreru\u0161ova\u0165 a sk\u00f4r si v \u0148om v\u0161\u00edma\u0165 veci, ktor\u00e9 sa opakuj\u00fa a najm\u00e4 pocity, skr\u00fdvaj\u00face sa za situ\u00e1ciami, ktor\u00e9 dan\u00fd \u010dlovek opisuje. Ke\u010f m\u00e1 tendenciu sa k nie\u010domu vraca\u0165 alebo zd\u00f4raz\u0148ova\u0165 moment, \u010di osobu v pr\u00edbehu, znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee je to nie\u010do, na \u010do je vhodn\u00e9 sa op\u00fdta\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00fdzva! Deadline! Prekon\u00e1vanie vlastn\u00fdch limitov! Zadanie \u00falohy na pokraji zvl\u00e1dnutia! \u2013 toto v\u0161etko s\u00fa prvky, ktor\u00e9 mnoho \u013eud\u00ed stresuje a introvertov to m\u00f4\u017ee a\u017e paralyzova\u0165. Pre extrovertov je to v\u0161ak nie\u010do, \u010do ich pos\u00fava vpred. Pokia\u013e nemaj\u00fa extroverti dostato\u010dn\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy, ktor\u00e9 musia prekon\u00e1va\u0165, postupne za\u010dn\u00fa \u201ezakrpatieva\u0165\u201c. Inak povedan\u00e9 \u2013 aby pracovali\/r\u00e1stli na 100%, potrebuj\u00fa v\u00fdzvy, kotr\u00e9 ich presahuj\u00fa (aspo\u0148 na 150%). Ak by si im dal len primeran\u00fa v\u00fdzvu (rast o 100%), tak bud\u00fa robi\u0165 len polovicu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Av\u0161ak, m\u00f4\u017ee sa sta\u0165, \u017ee pri tom bud\u00fa to\u013eko rozpr\u00e1va\u0165, \u017ee ich okolie ani nebude ma\u0165 dojem, \u017ee id\u00fa len na polovi\u010dn\u00fd v\u00fdkon. Oni to v\u0161ak bud\u00fa vedie\u0165, lebo nebud\u00fa ma\u0165 vn\u00fatorn\u00fd pocit spokojnosti. Ten extroverti maj\u00fa vtedy, ke\u010f je \u00faloha pred nimi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1. Vtedy sa za\u010dn\u00fa s\u00fastredi\u0165 a bud\u00fa dokonca menej rozpr\u00e1va\u0165, aby ju stihli splni\u0165 v\u010das. <\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00fdzva pre teba ako pastiera je teda d\u00e1va\u0165 tvojej ove\u010dke dostato\u010dne n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy, ktor\u00fdmi sa bud\u00fa pos\u00fava\u0165 vpred. M\u00f4\u017eu sa napr\u00edklad t\u00fdka\u0165 chodenia na\u010das, osobnej sebadiscipl\u00edny, pravideln\u00fdch st\u00ed\u0161en\u00ed, \u010d\u00edtania kn\u00edh, evanjeliz\u00e1cie a pod. Pam\u00e4t\u00e1\u0161 si na pr\u00edbeh, ako P\u00e1n Je\u017ei\u0161 zavolal Petra, aby za n\u00edm kr\u00e1\u010dal po vode (Mt 14:22 \u2013 33)? \u013dudsk\u00fdm \u00fasil\u00edm sa to zd\u00e1 nemo\u017en\u00e9, ale Je\u017ei\u0161 bol dokonal\u00fd Pastier. Poznal Petra tak, \u017ee vedel, \u017ee to je pre\u0148ho primeran\u00e1 v\u00fdzva, aby sa posunul nad svoje limity a veril Mu viac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve\u013ea extrovertov \u017eije vo vn\u00fatri nie\u010do \u00faplne in\u00e9 ne\u017e navonok. \u013dudia ich poznaj\u00fa ako t\u00fdch v\u017edy usmiatych a dobre naladen\u00fdch, av\u0161ak aj extroverti s\u00fa niekedy smutn\u00ed alebo maj\u00fa de\u0148, kedy by najrad\u0161ej len sedeli s kni\u017ekou a s nik\u00fdm sa nerozpr\u00e1vali. Nie je to o tom, \u017ee by na okolie chceli nie\u010do hra\u0165 alebo ma\u0165 ak\u00fasi masku. Jednoducho, aj ke\u010f maj\u00fa \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie obdobie, vedia r\u00fdchlo potla\u010di\u0165 vlastn\u00e9 pre\u017e\u00edvanie a naladi\u0165 sa na to, \u017ee s\u00fa v skupine \u013eud\u00ed. Radi sa rozpr\u00e1vaj\u00fa a smej\u00fa v skupine \u013eud\u00ed, a tak to robia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Potom sa v\u0161ak m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165, \u017ee to v nich nahromad\u00ed a pri ot\u00e1zke: \u201eAko sa skuto\u010dne m\u00e1va\u0161 tieto dni?\u201c sa rovno rozpla\u010d\u00fa. A za\u010dn\u00fa rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 \u2013 \u010do im pom\u00e1ha prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165, ako sme u\u017e vy\u0161\u0161ie spom\u00ednali. Mo\u017eno pri tom, ako \u010d\u00edta\u0161 tieto riadky, zdaj\u00fa sa ti extroverti trochu bl\u00e1zniv\u00ed… a vlastne aj s\u00fa, ale to bl\u00e1znovstvo je presne to, \u010do na nich m\u00e1me v\u0161etci tak radi! Akur\u00e1t sa v nich vyskytuje v dobrom aj v \u0165a\u017e\u0161om obdob\u00ed. D\u00e1 sa s nimi v\u0161ak nau\u010di\u0165 \u017ei\u0165 a pr\u00e1ve to, \u017ee o veciach rozpr\u00e1vaj\u00fa ove\u013ea viac ako introverti, ti m\u00f4\u017ee pom\u00f4c\u0165 v porozumen\u00ed ich svetu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Aj pri tejto t\u00e9me je nutn\u00e9 poveda\u0165, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek je samozrejme in\u00fd, a preto sk\u00fas prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 \u2013 nach\u00e1dza\u0161 v t\u00fdchto charakteristik\u00e1ch niekoho z \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00fdm sl\u00fa\u017ei\u0161? Jednozna\u010dne \u00e1no vo v\u0161etk\u00fdch? Alebo naopak len v jednej? Spozn\u00e1vaj ju\/ho a te\u0161 sa, \u017ee m\u00e1\u0161 pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 jej\/mu sl\u00fa\u017ei\u0165. Extroverti toti\u017e p\u00f4sobia, \u017ee maj\u00fa aspo\u0148 15 najlep\u0161\u00edch kamo\u0161ov, av\u0161ak len p\u00e1r \u013eud\u00ed ich pozn\u00e1 skuto\u010dne, \u201ezvn\u00fatra\u201c. Len h\u0155stka je tak v\u0161\u00edmav\u00e1, \u017ee im never\u00ed ten \u00fasmev a sp\u00fdtaj\u00fa sa ich opakovane: \u201eAko sa m\u00e1\u0161 naozaj? Nehraj to na m\u0148a…\u201c. Uvedomila som si, \u017ee o extrovertoch id\u00fa ch\u00fdry, \u017ee st\u00e1le s niek\u00fdm s\u00fa a nikdy nemaj\u00fa \u010das. Nie je to pravda. \u00c1no, s\u00fa ve\u013ea s \u013eu\u010fmi, av\u0161ak aj im sa st\u00e1va, \u017ee s\u00fa sami doma a nikto sa im neozve, \u201elebo ur\u010dite nemaj\u00fa \u010das\u201c. Rad\u0161ej si teda nedom\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj a zorganizuj si s nimi stretnutie, v\u00fdlet \u010di prech\u00e1dzku. S\u00fastreden\u00fa pozornos\u0165 a to, \u017ee si si na\u0161iel \u010das pre to, aby si im individu\u00e1lne sl\u00fa\u017eil, ve\u013emi ocenia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P. S. na z\u00e1ver: po\u010das rozpr\u00e1vania s nimi sa priprav na jemn\u00fa d\u00e1vku zveli\u010dovania, hlasn\u00fd smiech alebo mo\u017eno aj pla\u010d. Navy\u0161e, ke\u010f je extrovertovi s tebou pr\u00edjemne, ur\u010dite si bude chcie\u0165 urobi\u0165 selfie ako pamiatku na va\u0161e stretnutie! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" V \u010dl\u00e1nku z minul\u00e9ho t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a sme \u0161pecifikovali p\u00e1r z\u00e1kladn\u00fdch inform\u00e1ci\u00ed o extrovertoch, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017eu plati\u0165 ako pre teba, tak aj pre niekoho, koho vedie\u0161 v ml\u00e1de\u017ei, na skupinke, \u010di mentoruje\u0161. Venovali sme sa v \u0148om tomu, ako sa extroverti spr\u00e1vaj\u00fa v skupine a t\u00fdmto \u010dl\u00e1nkom sa upriamime na slu\u017ebu extrovertom individu\u00e1lne. 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\u00dasta<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Srdce<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Bu\u010f v\u0161\u00edmav\u00fd<\/h4>\n\n\n\n