Ak pod pojmom ml\u00e1de\u017e rozumieme miesto pln\u00e9 mlad\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa ochotn\u00ed rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa, smia\u0165 sa \u010di nie\u010do si zahra\u0165, m\u00e1m pre v\u00e1s dobr\u00fa spr\u00e1vu. U\u017e fakt, \u017ee \u013eudia vyzna\u010duj\u00faci sa povahov\u00fdmi vlastnos\u0165ami extroverta m\u00f4\u017eu pr\u00eds\u0165 na ml\u00e1de\u017e, rob\u00ed zo samotnej ml\u00e1de\u017ee priate\u013esk\u00e9 miesto. My, ako ved\u00faci dorastu \u010di ml\u00e1de\u017ee, sa u\u017e v podstate nemus\u00edme ani sna\u017ei\u0165 robi\u0165 toto miesto priate\u013eskej\u0161\u00edm. Je to jednoducho miesto, kde \u010dlovek nie je s\u00e1m, kde s\u00fa jeho priatelia… tak\u017ee, ke\u010f som extrovert, som r\u00e1d v spolo\u010dnosti mojich priate\u013eov, a to znamen\u00e1, \u017ee ml\u00e1de\u017e je v mojom t\u00fd\u017edennom harmonograme \u2013 ak\u00e9 jednoduch\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u0148a moji priatelia taktie\u017e zara\u010fuj\u00fa medzi extrovertov. Av\u0161ak, typol\u00f3gia osobnosti ka\u017ed\u00e9ho z n\u00e1s je namixovan\u00e1 v nejakom pomere, tak\u017ee aj ja m\u00e1vam dni, kedy nechcem v meste n\u00e1hodne nikoho stretn\u00fa\u0165, s nik\u00fdm sa rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 a kedy sa mi fakt nechce robi\u0165 ak\u010dn\u00fd ice-breaker. V kone\u010dnom d\u00f4sledku v\u0161ak v 90% pr\u00edpadov rada spozn\u00e1vam nov\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, rada sa p\u00fdtam ot\u00e1zky, celkom si u\u017e\u00edvam, ke\u010f m\u00f4\u017eem poveda\u0165 p\u00e1r viet nahlas pred v\u0161etk\u00fdmi, rada hr\u00e1m hry, ktor\u00e9 e\u0161te nepozn\u00e1m a e\u0161te rad\u0161ej vyhr\u00e1vam v t\u00fdch, ktor\u00e9 u\u017e pozn\u00e1m. Odhadujem, \u017ee takto to teda m\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina extrovertov. A preto som sa zam\u00fd\u0161\u013eala nad tipmi, \u010do sp\u00f4sobilo, \u017ee som ako neveriace diev\u010da chcela pr\u00eds\u0165 na kres\u0165ansk\u00fa ml\u00e1de\u017e a chcela som tam chodi\u0165 zase a zase, a\u017e som napokon uverila. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ako urobi\u0165 z na\u0161ej ml\u00e1de\u017ee priate\u013esk\u00e9 miesto pre superak\u010dn\u00fdch a v\u017edy vesel\u00fdch extrovertov?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 sa s nimi priv\u00edta\u0165, ke\u010f pr\u00eddu na ml\u00e1de\u017e. Sta\u010d\u00ed sa ich sp\u00fdta\u0165 1 ot\u00e1zku na \u00favod rozhovoru a oni potom u\u017e preber\u00fa iniciat\u00edvu a p\u00fdtaj\u00fa sa \u010fal\u0161ie ot\u00e1zky. Nemaj strach, nebud\u00fa \u0165a nudi\u0165 pridlho. Po smalltalku s tebou sa toti\u017e presmeruj\u00fa na niekoho in\u00e9ho, s k\u00fdm nadvia\u017eu rozhovor. Ich podvedomou z\u00e1\u013eubou je zbiera\u0165 nevidite\u013en\u00e9 body za to, s ko\u013ek\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi sa na ml\u00e1de\u017ei stihli porozpr\u00e1va\u0165. Na to, aby sa v\u0161ak t\u00e1to ich tajn\u00e1 hra za\u010dala, sa potrebuj\u00fa c\u00edti\u0165 uvo\u013enene a prijato v danom prostred\u00ed. Preto je u\u017e pozdrav pri dver\u00e1ch ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Na to, aby sa extroverti c\u00edtili by\u0165 vo svojej ko\u017ei, potrebuj\u00fa priestor, kedy sa m\u00f4\u017eu prejavi\u0165. Ice-breaker na za\u010diatok alebo aktivita zabezpe\u010dia to, \u017ee sa extroverti m\u00f4\u017eu uvo\u013eni\u0165, mo\u017eno nie\u010do aj poveda\u0165 na mikrof\u00f3n \u010di nie\u010do vyhra\u0165. T\u00edto \u013eudia maj\u00fa radi interakciu s ostatn\u00fdmi, a preto n\u00e1hodn\u00e9 rozde\u013eovanie do t\u00edmov, kde skon\u010dia v skupine s niek\u00fdm, koho nepoznaj\u00fa, je pre nich adrenal\u00ednovou z\u00e1bavkou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u010ci u\u017e ide o ukazova\u010dky na p\u00f3diu alebo mo\u017enos\u0165 poveda\u0165 spr\u00e1vnu odpove\u010f na mikrof\u00f3n, extroverti maj\u00fa radi pozornos\u0165 ostatn\u00fdch. Nie v tom zmysle, \u017eeby potrebovali potlesk, ale s\u00fa to jednoducho typy os\u00f4b, ktor\u00e9 radi prispej\u00fa k spolo\u010dnej dobrej n\u00e1lade a atmosf\u00e9re. Je ide\u00e1lne z nich robi\u0165 hovorcov \u010di ved\u00facich skup\u00edn alebo posla\u0165 ich za dvere, aj ke\u010f nevedia, \u010do bude n\u00e1sledne ich \u00falohou. Zvl\u00e1dnu tie\u017e mal\u00fa mieru str\u00e1pnenia, lebo sa neber\u00fa pr\u00edli\u0161 v\u00e1\u017ene a naozaj maj\u00fa radi, ke\u010f sa ostatn\u00ed \u013eudia zasmej\u00fa a c\u00edtia pr\u00edjemne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Extroverti nemaj\u00fa radi stereotyp. Oplat\u00ed sa teda niekedy prekvapi\u0165 aktivitou vonku, v\u00fdletom \u010di nejakou v\u00fdzvou na ml\u00e1de\u017ei. Radi prekon\u00e1vaj\u00fa sami seba a s\u00fa\u0165a\u017eia s ostatn\u00fdmi, no s\u00fa najrad\u0161ej s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou nejak\u00e9ho t\u00edmu. Vym\u00fd\u0161\u013eanie t\u00edmov\u00e9ho mena na t\u00e1bore \u010di vytv\u00e1ranie vlajky v nich buduje pocit, \u017ee niekam patria a m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 tak\u00ed, ak\u00ed s\u00fa \u2013 ak\u00fdmi ich Boh stvoril.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00e1to rovnica teda plat\u00ed, pokia\u013e na ml\u00e1de\u017ei v\u0161etko funguje. Mo\u017eno sa aj v\u00e1\u0161 t\u00edm ved\u00facich sklad\u00e1 z viacer\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed maj\u00fa r\u00f4zne predstavy o tom, \u010do by sa malo robi\u0165 a ako by program na ml\u00e1de\u017ei mal vyzera\u0165. Mo\u017eno d\u00e1vate aktivite na \u00favod len 5 min\u00fat a namiesto toho trv\u00e1te na 45-min\u00fatovej biblickej t\u00e9me. Ak v\u0161ak m\u00e1te k tej t\u00e9me nejak\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky, na ktor\u00e9 sa nikto nehl\u00e1si odpoveda\u0165, niekde je probl\u00e9m. Extroverti nie s\u00fa len t\u00ed, ktor\u00ed radi behaj\u00fa a bl\u00e1znia sa. Ve\u013emi radi sa prejavia sediac na stoli\u010dke, \u201elen\u201c slovne… Preto je tak\u00e9 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 vytvori\u0165 im atmosf\u00e9ru prijatia, ve\u013emi radi sa potom bud\u00fa spolupodie\u013ea\u0165 na diskusii a tom, aby bola va\u0161a ml\u00e1de\u017e priate\u013esk\u00fdm miestom. V neposlednom rade s\u00fa pr\u00e1ve extroverti t\u00ed, ktor\u00fdm sa nikdy nechce \u00eds\u0165 domov, a preto radi pom\u00f4\u017eu aj s upratan\u00edm miestnosti po skon\u010den\u00ed ml\u00e1de\u017ee \ud83d\ude42 Neboj sa ich spozn\u00e1va\u0165, u\u017e len pozdravom a smalltalkom sa st\u00e1va\u0161 ich kamo\u0161om.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bonus na z\u00e1ver \u2013 to, \u017ee ty s\u00e1m si extrovert, je skvel\u00e9! Mo\u017eno ti tento \u010dl\u00e1nok pomohol porozumie\u0165 sam\u00e9mu sebe alebo prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 o potreb\u00e1ch ostatn\u00fdch extrovertov vo va\u0161ej ml\u00e1de\u017ei. Chcem ti v\u0161ak poveda\u0165: neschov\u00e1vaj sa! Mo\u017eno ti je tr\u00e1pne by\u0165 znovu a znovu dobrovo\u013en\u00edkom, ke\u010f sa nikto nehl\u00e1si a u\u017e sa nechce\u0161 modli\u0165 nahlas jedin\u00fd, av\u0161ak si to ty! Ke\u010f vid\u00ed\u0161 medzeru, ktor\u00fa treba zaplni\u0165 a nikomu to e\u0161te nedo\u0161lo, je na \u010dase sa postavi\u0165 a zaplni\u0165 ju. To nevad\u00ed, \u017ee zase bud\u00fa v\u0161etky o\u010di na tebe. Ostatn\u00ed maj\u00fa mo\u017eno in\u00e9 obdarovania, ktor\u00e9 zase ty nezast\u00fapi\u0161 (napr. po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 bez sk\u00e1kania do re\u010di a pod. :)) Taktie\u017e, ke\u010f pr\u00edde niekto nov\u00fd na ml\u00e1de\u017e, je skvel\u00e9, \u017ee si si to v\u0161imol a ide\u0161 sa s n\u00edm zozn\u00e1mi\u0165. Neprest\u00e1vaj robi\u0165 veci, do ktor\u00fdch \u0165a Boh vol\u00e1 len preto, \u017ee nechce\u0161, aby to bolo \u201est\u00e1le o tebe\u201c. Je skvel\u00e9, \u017ee si extrovertom, Boh \u0165a tak\u00e9ho stvoril a chce si \u0165a v tom pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165. Bu\u010f teda odv\u00e1\u017eny, vn\u00edmav\u00fd na hlas Ducha Sv\u00e4t\u00e9ho a jeho vedenie. Nemus\u00ed\u0161 silou mocou h\u013eada\u0165 diery, ktor\u00e9 treba zapl\u00e1ta\u0165, len sa spo\u013eahni na Bo\u017eie vedenie. Najm\u00e4 v\u0161ak m\u00fadro spravuj a pou\u017e\u00edvaj \u201etalent extrovertizmu\u201c, ktor\u00fd ti P\u00e1n dal (odkaz na pr\u00edbeh o talentoch v Evanjeliu pod\u013ea Mat\u00fa\u0161a 25:14 \u2013 31).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fotografia: KECY Ko\u0161ice<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ak pod pojmom ml\u00e1de\u017e rozumieme miesto pln\u00e9 mlad\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa ochotn\u00ed rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa, smia\u0165 sa \u010di nie\u010do si zahra\u0165, m\u00e1m pre v\u00e1s dobr\u00fa spr\u00e1vu. U\u017e fakt, \u017ee \u013eudia vyzna\u010duj\u00faci sa povahov\u00fdmi vlastnos\u0165ami extroverta m\u00f4\u017eu pr\u00eds\u0165 na ml\u00e1de\u017e, rob\u00ed zo samotnej ml\u00e1de\u017ee priate\u013esk\u00e9 miesto. My, ako ved\u00faci dorastu \u010di ml\u00e1de\u017ee, sa u\u017e v podstate nemus\u00edme ani…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":35,"featured_media":4544,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[3,12],"tags":[60,92],"class_list":["post-4536","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirovat","category-zamyslenia","tag-mladez","tag-veduci"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":3,"label":"In\u0161pirova\u0165"},{"value":12,"label":"Zamyslenia"}],"post_tag":[{"value":60,"label":"ml\u00e1de\u017e"},{"value":92,"label":"ved\u00faci"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/kecy-1024x571.jpg",1024,571,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Petra \u0160ulkov\u00e1","author_link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/author\/petrasulkova\/"},"comment_info":"","category_info":[{"term_id":3,"name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","slug":"inspirovat","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":3,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":383,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":3,"category_count":383,"category_description":"","cat_name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","category_nicename":"inspirovat","category_parent":0},{"term_id":12,"name":"Zamyslenia","slug":"zamyslenia","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":12,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":3,"count":87,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":12,"category_count":87,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Zamyslenia","category_nicename":"zamyslenia","category_parent":3}],"tag_info":[{"term_id":60,"name":"ml\u00e1de\u017e","slug":"mladez","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":60,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":180,"filter":"raw"},{"term_id":92,"name":"ved\u00faci","slug":"veduci","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":92,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":10,"filter":"raw"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4536","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/35"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4536"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4536\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4536"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4536"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4536"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}