{"id":4429,"date":"2020-09-21T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-21T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=4429"},"modified":"2024-04-18T23:32:01","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T21:32:01","slug":"ako-sa-starat-o-svoju-introvertnu-ovecku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/ako-sa-starat-o-svoju-introvertnu-ovecku\/","title":{"rendered":"Ako sa stara\u0165 o svoju introvertn\u00fa ove\u010dku"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ak si ty s\u00e1m introvert, pravdepodobne tieto riadky ani nemus\u00ed\u0161 \u010d\u00edta\u0165. Ak v\u0161ak nie si, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 je pre teba n\u00e1pomocn\u00e9 porozumie\u0165 sebe opozitnej strane spektra. Leto sa skon\u010dilo a ty mo\u017eno za\u010d\u00edna\u0161 nov\u00fa skupinku alebo po letnom t\u00e1bore pribudli na tvoju ml\u00e1de\u017e \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa introverti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neviem ako pre v\u00e1s, ale pre m\u0148a nie je jednoduch\u00e9 sa stara\u0165 o \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa \u00faplne in\u00ed ako ja. Ale to neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee m\u00e1m hodi\u0165 flintu do \u017eita alebo do r\u00fak in\u00e9mu \u010dloveku. Dokonca to m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 pr\u00ednosom pre obe strany a mo\u017enos\u0165ou sa pos\u00fava\u0165 v procese posv\u00e4covania. Tak\u017ee vyhr\u0148me si ruk\u00e1vy, otvorme srdce a po\u010fme spolu prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Ber do \u00favahy fakt, \u017ee tvoja introvertn\u00e1 ove\u010dka \u010d\u00edta situ\u00e1cie inak ako ty, c\u00edti sa v nich inak ako ty, preto je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 p\u00fdta\u0165 sa m\u00fadre ot\u00e1zky o ich porozumen\u00ed vec\u00ed a \u010d\u00edtan\u00ed reality.<\/li>
  2. Sna\u017e sa rezervova\u0165 si s t\u00fdmto \u010dlovekom to\u013eko \u010dasu jeden na jedn\u00e9ho, ko\u013eko je to len mo\u017en\u00e9. K\u00fdm extroverti radi tr\u00e1via \u010das vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edch skupin\u00e1ch, ktor\u00e9 maj\u00fa svoju \u0161pecifick\u00fa atmosf\u00e9ru a \u010daro, introvertn\u00e1 ove\u010dka sa v nich nec\u00edti rovnako slobodne a pr\u00edjemne. <\/li>
  3. Neboj sa dlh\u0161\u00edch p\u00e1uz, ticha v rozhovore. Ber to ako pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 pestova\u0165 trpezlivos\u0165, na\u010d\u00fava\u0165 a p\u00fdta\u0165 sa dopl\u0148uj\u00face ot\u00e1zky.<\/li>
  4. Cho\u010f do h\u013abky. Rozhovory o po\u010das\u00ed s\u00fa \u00fanavn\u00e9 a pre introvertov zbyto\u010dn\u00e9.<\/li>
  5. Ak tvoje pozvania na osobn\u00e9 stretnutie tvoja introvertn\u00e1 ove\u010dka odmietne, neber to osobne, nenechaj sa odradi\u0165 a sk\u00fa\u0161aj to znovu.<\/li>
  6. Aj ke\u010f sa ove\u013ea rad\u0161ej stret\u00e1va\u0161 osobne alebo telefonuje\u0161, mo\u017eno si bude\u0161 musie\u0165 zvykn\u00fa\u0165 aj na p\u00edsomn\u00fa formu komunik\u00e1cie. T\u00e1 je toti\u017e preferovan\u00e1.<\/li>
  7. Pam\u00e4taj si d\u00e1ta z posledn\u00e9ho rozhovoru (men\u00e1 priate\u013eov, d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 udalosti, dilemy, preferencie), bude to vysoko ocenen\u00e9. Ni\u010d nie je hor\u0161ie, ako sa introverta op\u00fdta\u0165 tret\u00edkr\u00e1t t\u00fa ist\u00fa ot\u00e1zku a na \u0161tvrt\u00fdkr\u00e1t si to st\u00e1le nepam\u00e4ta\u0165.<\/li>
  8. A tak\u00e1 \u00faplne z\u00e1kladn\u00e1 vec: nevyvol\u00e1vaj tak\u00e9ho \u010dloveka do diskusie pred ve\u013ekou skupinou \u013eud\u00ed, nen\u00fa\u0165 ich modli\u0165 sa nahlas a nijako inak na nich nezasvie\u0165 reflektor. Ani nevie\u0161, ko\u013eko \u017eivotnej energie im odober\u00e1 strach, \u017ee sa toto stane.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Viem, \u017ee si mo\u017eno mysl\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee to nie je f\u00e9r. Pre\u010do sa m\u00e1m prisp\u00f4sobova\u0165 ja? Pre\u010do nie on\/ona? Mo\u017eno by si bol prekvapen\u00fd, ko\u013ekokr\u00e1t za de\u0148 sa mus\u00ed v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ine prisp\u00f4sobi\u0165 tak\u00fd introvert (v \u0161kole, pr\u00e1ci, spolo\u010dnosti). Tento \u010dl\u00e1nok je p\u00edsan\u00fd pre teba ako pre pastiera. S v\u00fdzvou, \u017ee m\u00e1me milova\u0165 svojich priate\u013eov tak, ako miloval Kristus. A\u017e na smr\u0165. \u010co m\u00f4\u017ee v tvojom pr\u00edpade 30 min\u00fat p\u00edsania namiesto 2-min\u00fatov\u00e9ho telefon\u00e1tu. A zrazu to neznie a\u017e tak hrozne, v\u0161ak? \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    V\u00fdzva: Ktor\u00fd zo siedmich bodov vy\u0161\u0161ie je pre teba najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie aplikova\u0165? Sk\u00fasi\u0161 to?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Ak si ty s\u00e1m introvert, pravdepodobne tieto riadky ani nemus\u00ed\u0161 \u010d\u00edta\u0165. Ak v\u0161ak nie si, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 je pre teba n\u00e1pomocn\u00e9 porozumie\u0165 sebe opozitnej strane spektra. Leto sa skon\u010dilo a ty mo\u017eno za\u010d\u00edna\u0161 nov\u00fa skupinku alebo po letnom t\u00e1bore pribudli na tvoju ml\u00e1de\u017e \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa introverti.  Neviem ako pre v\u00e1s, ale pre m\u0148a 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