{"id":4368,"date":"2020-09-14T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=4368"},"modified":"2024-04-18T23:32:01","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T21:32:01","slug":"ako-urobit-z-mladeze-priatelske-miesto-pre-introvertov","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/ako-urobit-z-mladeze-priatelske-miesto-pre-introvertov\/","title":{"rendered":"Ako urobi\u0165 z ml\u00e1de\u017ee priate\u013esk\u00e9 miesto pre introvertov?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toto je moja ob\u013e\u00faben\u00e1 t\u00e9ma. Mo\u017eno si ma ju u\u017e po\u010dul spom\u00edna\u0165. A mo\u017eno \u0165a aj prekvapilo, pre\u010do je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 o nie\u010dom takom rozpr\u00e1va\u0165. \u017dia\u013e, faktom je, \u017ee cirkev je v mnohom dizajnovan\u00e1 pre extrovertov \u2013 programy a zhroma\u017edenia sa robia vo ve\u013ek\u00fdch \u010d\u00edslach. Ml\u00e1de\u017en\u00edcka slu\u017eba pln\u00e1 (aj pr\u00e1vom a spr\u00e1vne) na spolo\u010dn\u00fdch z\u00e1\u017eitkoch, chv\u00e1lach, hr\u00e1ch, verejn\u00fdch diskusi\u00e1ch. Od \u013eud\u00ed sa \u010dasto \u010dak\u00e1 ve\u013emi osobn\u00fd a verejn\u00fd prejav dos\u0165 r\u00fdchlo. Modli\u0165 sa nahlas, zapoji\u0165 sa do rozhovorov, zozn\u00e1mi\u0165 sa s ve\u013ek\u00fdm mno\u017estvom \u013eud\u00ed za kr\u00e1tky \u010das. Raj pre extrovertov, ale t\u00ed si \u010dasto ani len nevedia predstavi\u0165, ak\u00e9 n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 je to pre introverta pre\u017ei\u0165 tak\u00fa nede\u013eu, najm\u00e4 t\u00fdch 83 smalltalkov po kostole. Alebo tak\u00fa ml\u00e1de\u017e s ukazovacou pesni\u010dkou a vyvolan\u00edm, aby sa doty\u010dn\u00fd introvert na z\u00e1ver pomodlil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Moje osobn\u00e9 presved\u010denie je, \u017ee mnoh\u00ed introverti aj napriek \u00faprimn\u00e9mu z\u00e1ujmu o Boha do cirkvi prestali chodi\u0165 kv\u00f4li tomu, \u017ee to na nich bolo jednoducho too much (prive\u013ea). Raz mi ocko jedn\u00e9ho m\u00f4jho kamar\u00e1ta rozpr\u00e1val o v\u00fdskume, ktor\u00fd dokazoval, \u017ee introverti maj\u00fa dok\u00e1zate\u013ene viac receptorov, a tak ka\u017ed\u00fd vnem pre\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa silnej\u0161ie, bolestivej\u0161ie, intenz\u00edvnej\u0161ie a s\u00fa z nich aj ove\u013ea sk\u00f4r unaven\u00ed a overwhelmed (prep\u00e1len\u00ed) ako napr\u00edklad extroverti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A \u010do teraz? Mali by sme teraz zmeni\u0165 na\u0161e ml\u00e1de\u017ee na stretnutia knihomo\u013eov, kde budeme ved\u013ea seba v tichu sedie\u0165, \u010d\u00edta\u0165 si a pi\u0165 \u010daj? Asi to nie je rie\u0161enie. Ale st\u00e1le prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eam nad t\u00fdm, ako urobi\u0165 z cirkvi a ml\u00e1de\u017ee aspo\u0148 trochu viac priate\u013esk\u00e9 miesto pre introvertov. Tu s\u00fa pre za\u010diatok moje tri odpor\u00fa\u010dania:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Poznaj svojich \u013eud\u00ed. Naozaj ich poznaj. Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 ma\u0165 vedomos\u0165 aj o tom, kto je introvert a kto t\u0155pne strachom cel\u00fd program, \u017ee ho k nie\u010domu verejne vyzve\u0161.<\/li><li>Nen\u00fa\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed sa do v\u0161etk\u00e9ho zap\u00e1ja\u0165. Bu\u010f m\u00fadry\/a. S\u00fa t\u00edned\u017eeri, ktor\u00ed sa len chc\u00fa vyvliec\u0165 zo v\u0161etk\u00e9ho a v\u0161etko ich nud\u00ed. Ale s\u00fa aj tak\u00ed, ktor\u00ed mo\u017enos\u0165 nezapoji\u0165 sa do aktivity, nejs\u0165 na n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fa t\u00faru a nemodli\u0165 sa nahlas, naozaj pochopia ako milos\u0165.<\/li><li>Nevy\u010d\u00edtaj introvertom, \u017ee chc\u00fa sk\u00f4r po ml\u00e1de\u017ei od\u00eds\u0165 domov. Nemus\u00ed to znamena\u0165, \u017ee im na spolo\u010denstve nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. Mo\u017eno len rad\u0161ej chceli pr\u00eds\u0165 domov a \u0161tyri hodiny si s in\u00fdm introvertom, ktor\u00fd ved\u013ea nich na ml\u00e1de\u017ei sedel, p\u00edsa\u0165 cez messenger. A kto povedal, \u017ee smiatie a zab\u00e1vanie sa po ml\u00e1de\u017ei v kruhu cirkev je a p\u00edsanie si jeden na jedn\u00e9ho nie je?<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toto je mo\u017eno p\u00e1r tipov \u010do nerobi\u0165. Nabud\u00face si povieme, \u010do mo\u017eno robi\u0165 alebo sk\u00fasi\u0165 inak. Dovtedy sk\u00fas poprem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 nad nasledovn\u00fdm:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ty s\u00e1m si sk\u00f4r introvert alebo extrovert? Rozumie\u0161 tvojmu protip\u00f3lu?<\/li><li>Vedel by si poveda\u0165, ko\u013ek\u00fdch introvertov v spolo\u010denstve m\u00e1te? Vie\u0161 ich men\u00e1?<\/li><li>Ako sa medzi vami c\u00edtia?<\/li><li>Mysl\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee u\u017e odi\u0161iel z ml\u00e1de\u017ee niekto, kto mal pocit, \u017ee je do nie\u010doho n\u00faten\u00fd?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fotografia: Toa Heftiba\/Unsplash <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toto je moja ob\u013e\u00faben\u00e1 t\u00e9ma. Mo\u017eno si ma ju u\u017e po\u010dul spom\u00edna\u0165. 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