{"id":2550,"date":"2020-05-18T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-05-18T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=2550"},"modified":"2024-04-19T10:05:10","modified_gmt":"2024-04-19T08:05:10","slug":"nepoviem-ti-co-si-myslim-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/nepoviem-ti-co-si-myslim-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Nepoviem ti, \u010do si mysl\u00edm #2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010ci\u017ee nau\u010di\u0165 sa nevysko\u010di\u0165 hne\u010f so svoj\u00edm n\u00e1zorom si vy\u017eadovalo z mojej strany ve\u013ea discipl\u00edny, k\u00fdm sa z toho stal zvyk. A st\u00e1le sa to u\u010d\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Druh\u00fd sp\u00f4sob ako namiesto toho, \u017ee povieme svoje pozorovanie a niekedy mo\u017eno a\u017e tak, \u017ee sa pootvoren\u00e9 srdce \u010dloveka sk\u00f4r zabuchne, bol jeden n\u00e1stroj, ktor\u00fd som sa nau\u010dila na tr\u00e9ningu o coachingu, a je to pod\u013ea m\u0148a ve\u013emi n\u00e1pomocn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Princ\u00edp je jednoduch\u00fd, aplik\u00e1cia a\u017e tak nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ide o to, \u017ee namiesto v\u00fdroku, ktor\u00fd m\u00f4\u017ee znie\u0165 tvrdo a ods\u00fadzuj\u00faco, vytvor\u00edm s\u00fabor dobre cielen\u00fdch (nemanipulat\u00edvnych a nie \u00e1no \u2013 nie) ot\u00e1zok, ktor\u00e9 by mali vies\u0165 doty\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka k uvedomeniu si pravdy bez toho, aby som to musela ja sama poveda\u0165. A ke\u010f Duch Sv\u00e4t\u00fd p\u00f4sob\u00ed zvn\u00fatra, m\u00e1 to v\u017edy v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00ed a trvalej\u0161\u00ed efekt, ako ke\u010f niekomu zvonku ja nie\u010do ozn\u00e1mim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uvediem pr\u00edklad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00fdrok: <em>Rozpr\u00e1va\u0161 pr\u00edli\u0161 ve\u013ea o sebe.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00fahrn ot\u00e1zok: <em>Ako sa m\u00e1\u0161? S k\u00fdm sa naj\u010dastej\u0161ie rozpr\u00e1va\u0161 o tom, ako sa c\u00edti\u0161? M\u00e1\u0161 \u013eud\u00ed v \u017eivote, s ktor\u00fdmi m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 procesova\u0165 veci, ktor\u00e9 sa ti dej\u00fa? Kto vie o tebe najviac? \u010co si mysl\u00ed\u0161 o spojen\u00ed slov: vylieva\u0165 si srdce pred Hospodinom <\/em>\u2013<em> zvykne\u0161 to robi\u0165? Spom\u00edna\u0161 si na nejak\u00e9 biblick\u00e9 texty, ktor\u00e9 o tom hovoria? A teraz, spom\u00edna\u0161 si na nejak\u00e9, ktor\u00e9 hovoria o po\u010d\u00favan\u00ed? Pozn\u00e1\u0161 nejak\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd je v po\u010d\u00favan\u00ed ostatn\u00fdch v\u00fdborn\u00fd? \u010c\u00edm to je? Mysl\u00ed\u0161 si o sebe, \u017ee vie\u0161 dobre po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 <\/em>\u2013<em> povedal ti to niekedy niekto?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samozrejme, niekedy m\u00f4\u017ee \u00eds\u0165 diskusia in\u00fdm smerom, v z\u00e1vislosti od odpoved\u00ed \u010dloveka, vtedy treba tvori\u0165 nov\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky, ktor\u00fdch ale z\u00e1sadou ost\u00e1va, \u017ee s\u00fa \u00faprimn\u00e9, nemanipulat\u00edvne, ne\u00fato\u010dn\u00e9, kreat\u00edvne, s\u00fa vysloven\u00e9 v duchu, \u017ee si <em>za dan\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, <\/em>nie proti nemu, s \u00faprimnou zvedavos\u0165ou, s\u00fa jasne smerovan\u00e9 a maj\u00fa z\u00e1mer.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nie je to jednoduch\u00fd skill (zru\u010dnos\u0165). Raz som sa to sna\u017eila nau\u010di\u0165 diev\u010dat\u00e1 na mojej skupinke a po dvojhodinovom tr\u00e9ningu t\u00fdchto ot\u00e1zok to tri \u0161tvrtiny z nich vzdali, \u017ee ich to nebav\u00ed, \u017ee sa im to nep\u00e1\u010di a \u017ee bud\u00fa \u010falej kl\u00e1s\u0165 ot\u00e1zky typu: a nehovor\u00ed\u0161 ty n\u00e1hodou pr\u00edli\u0161 ve\u013ea o sebe?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta tak. Ale ozaj si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee dobr\u00ed ved\u00faci sa vedia p\u00fdta\u0165 dobr\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samozrejme, vy\u017eaduje si to tr\u00e9ning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak po\u010fme na to. Tvojou \u00falohou je vytvori\u0165 s\u00fabor 10 ot\u00e1zok, ktor\u00e9 by pomohli \u010dloveku, ktor\u00e9ho sa ich p\u00fdta\u0161 pochopi\u0165 tieto tri v\u00fdroky (pozorovania):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Tvoje k\u00e1zne s\u00fa dlh\u00e9 a nudn\u00e9. (ved\u00facemu ml\u00e1de\u017ee)<\/li><li>\u010casto zveli\u010duje\u0161. (15-ro\u010dn\u00e9 diev\u010da\/chlapec v tvojej skupinke)<\/li><li>Tvoj sarkastick\u00fd humor zra\u0148uje \u013eud\u00ed na ml\u00e1de\u017ei. (ml\u00e1de\u017en\u00edk)<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u010ci\u017ee nau\u010di\u0165 sa nevysko\u010di\u0165 hne\u010f so svoj\u00edm n\u00e1zorom si vy\u017eadovalo z mojej strany ve\u013ea discipl\u00edny, k\u00fdm sa z toho stal zvyk. A st\u00e1le sa to u\u010d\u00edm. Druh\u00fd sp\u00f4sob ako namiesto toho, \u017ee povieme svoje pozorovanie a niekedy mo\u017eno a\u017e tak, \u017ee sa pootvoren\u00e9 srdce \u010dloveka sk\u00f4r zabuchne, bol jeden n\u00e1stroj, ktor\u00fd som sa nau\u010dila na&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":2559,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[3,12],"tags":[54],"class_list":["post-2550","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspirovat","category-zamyslenia","tag-ucenictvo"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":3,"label":"In\u0161pirova\u0165"},{"value":12,"label":"Zamyslenia"}],"post_tag":[{"value":54,"label":"u\u010den\u00edctvo"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/07.17.2019-Kecy-2-termin-16-of-22-1-1024x595.jpg",1024,595,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maru\u0161ka Skonc","author_link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/author\/maruskaskonc\/"},"comment_info":"","category_info":[{"term_id":3,"name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","slug":"inspirovat","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":3,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":383,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":3,"category_count":383,"category_description":"","cat_name":"In\u0161pirova\u0165","category_nicename":"inspirovat","category_parent":0},{"term_id":12,"name":"Zamyslenia","slug":"zamyslenia","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":12,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":3,"count":87,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":12,"category_count":87,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Zamyslenia","category_nicename":"zamyslenia","category_parent":3}],"tag_info":[{"term_id":54,"name":"u\u010den\u00edctvo","slug":"ucenictvo","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":54,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":86,"filter":"raw"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2550","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/24"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2550"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2550\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2559"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2550"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2550"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2550"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}