{"id":17399,"date":"2020-04-20T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-20T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=2190"},"modified":"2024-04-18T22:49:38","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T20:49:38","slug":"viest-niekoho-kto-to-nechce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/viest-niekoho-kto-to-nechce\/","title":{"rendered":"Vies\u0165 niekoho, kto to nechce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Viem, \u017ee som vo svojej<em> kari\u00e9re u\u010den\u00edkovate\u013ea<\/em> mala ve\u013ek\u00e9 \u0161\u0165astie na \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed boli zlat\u00ed\u010dka. Vysvetl\u00edm. Zlat\u00ed\u010dka znamen\u00e1, \u017ee sa sami p\u00fdtaj\u00fa, kedy bude \u010fal\u0161ia skupinka a nevedia sa jej do\u010dka\u0165. Dorazia na \u0148u o 5 min\u00fat sk\u00f4r, s Bibliou a z\u00e1pisn\u00edkom a nechc\u00fa sa na \u00favod hra\u0165 hru, rad\u0161ej by chceli ma\u0165 dlh\u0161ie vyu\u010dovanie. Neboja sa p\u00fdta\u0165, daj\u00fa priestor na zdie\u013eanie aj ostatn\u00fdm, rast\u00fa v\u00e1m pod rukami a ich l\u00e1ska ku Kristovi je zrejm\u00e1.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Verte alebo nie, naozaj som tak\u00fa skupinku mala a nie jednu. Ale potom som cez Lenku (nazvime ju Lenka, lebo sa Lenka nevol\u00e1, lebo Lenku som v skupinke naozaj aj mala a nie jednu, ale hne\u010f dve) absol\u00fatne vytriezvela. Lenka na skupinku pri\u0161la ob\u010das a v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu t\u00e9my pozerala na hodinky na stene alebo na svoj mobil. Po\u010das zdie\u013eania v\u017edy nazna\u010dila, \u017ee sa nenau\u010dila ni\u010d nov\u00e9, ale to nevad\u00ed, lebo ch\u00e1pe, \u017ee ostatn\u00e9 diev\u010dat\u00e1 s\u00fa e\u0161te slab\u0161ie vo viere ako ona. Naozaj. Naozaj to tak povedala.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lenka ma najprv rozosmutnievala. Potom frustrovala. A nakoniec vyslovene hnevala. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 skupinka, na ktor\u00fa nepri\u0161la, sa mi zdala viac v pohode a \u017ee bol vzduch \u010distej\u0161\u00ed. Ani mi to nevadilo, ke\u010f nemohla pr\u00eds\u0165. Bolo to tak jednoduch\u0161ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po nejakom \u010dase som ju po skupinke zavolala z ob\u00fdva\u010dky do kancel\u00e1rie a op\u00fdtala sa jej, \u010di vlastne e\u0161te chce na skupinky chodi\u0165. Povedala, \u017ee jej to ve\u013ea ned\u00e1va a \u017ee u\u017e vie tie veci. A \u017ee je skupinka m\u00e1lo duchovn\u00e1. A \u017ee asi teda u\u017e chodi\u0165 nebude.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve\u010der som to povedala svojmu man\u017eelovi, trochu nahnevane a potom som to uzavrela tak, \u017ee Lenka je teda dos\u0165 nev\u010fa\u010dn\u00e1. A potom som sa ju, v r\u00e1mci nejakej zvl\u00e1\u0161tnej sebaochrany srdca, sna\u017eila \u010d\u00edm menej dr\u017ea\u0165 v mysli. A potom odi\u0161la na v\u00fd\u0161ku do in\u00e9ho mesta a niekedy, ke\u010f sa v meste stretneme, tak sa pozdrav\u00edme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No a teraz, \u010do v\u0161etko som urobila zle:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Za Lenku som sa nemodlila. Viac som sa na \u0148u hnevala. Neprihov\u00e1rala som sa za \u0148u ka\u017edodenne.<\/li><li>Nikdy som sa nesna\u017eila pochopi\u0165, \u010do je za jej spr\u00e1van\u00edm. Teda, prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eala som nad t\u00fdm, ale nikdy som sa nep\u00fdtala priamo jej, \u010do je za t\u00fdm.<\/li><li>Nenapomenula som ju (medzi \u0161tyrmi o\u010dami), ke\u010f pozerala zhora na ostatn\u00e9 diev\u010dat\u00e1. Len som si myslela, \u017ee to nie je ok.<\/li><li>Nechala som svoju zranen\u00fa p\u00fdchu napospas nepriate\u013eovi. Nechce tu by\u0165? \u017de to nerob\u00edm dos\u0165 dobre? No tak nech tu nie je.<\/li><li>Lenku som porovn\u00e1vala so zlat\u00ed\u010dkami. S \u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed boli v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed, radi sa u\u010dili a r\u00e1stli. Nemohla v takom porovnan\u00ed obst\u00e1\u0165, nebrala som ju, \u017ee ona je, k\u00fdm je, a treba s t\u00fdm robi\u0165.<\/li><li>Nikdy som s Lenkou netr\u00e1vila \u010das osamote, jeden na jedn\u00e9ho. V\u017edy bola vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ej skupine, v ktorej som ja rozde\u013eovala pozornos\u0165 a jej sa tam nep\u00e1\u010dilo.&nbsp;<\/li><li>Nemala som Lenku tak rada, ako Kristus. Brala som ju ako kr\u00ed\u017e, ktor\u00fd mi bol nadelen\u00fd, nie ako z\u00e1zrak vesm\u00edru. Lebo tak ju vid\u00ed jej Stvorite\u013e.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00f4j zoznam m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 pokojne doplni\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nebu\u010f ako ja. Zabojuj za svoju Lenku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Challenge: vedel by si ka\u017ed\u00fa z mojich siedmich ch\u00fdb podlo\u017ei\u0165 P\u00edsmom?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Fotografia: Unsplash\/Marita Kavelashvili <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Viem, \u017ee som vo svojej kari\u00e9re u\u010den\u00edkovate\u013ea mala ve\u013ek\u00e9 \u0161\u0165astie na \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed boli zlat\u00ed\u010dka. Vysvetl\u00edm. Zlat\u00ed\u010dka znamen\u00e1, \u017ee sa sami p\u00fdtaj\u00fa, kedy bude \u010fal\u0161ia skupinka a nevedia sa jej do\u010dka\u0165. 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