Nikdy pred t\u00fdm sa mi to nestalo, a navy\u0161e to pre 13-ro\u010dn\u00e9 diev\u010da bola dos\u0165 tr\u00e1pna situ\u00e1cia. Bolo asi desa\u0165 hod\u00edn ve\u010der, v\u0161etci \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edci s\u00fastredenia hudobn\u00e9ho s\u00faboru sa dolu zab\u00e1vali, a ja som sa hore v izbe sna\u017eila za tlmen\u00e9ho zvuku z\u00e1bavy zaspa\u0165. Le\u017eala som v posteli, no spa\u0165 mi ne\u0161lo, lebo<\/p>\n\n\n\n
mi<\/p>\n\n\n\n
bolo<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
smutno za rodinou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Po hodine snahy o zaspanie pre\u0161la \u010fal\u0161ia, po nej pri\u0161li v\u00edkendov\u00e9 spolub\u00fdvaj\u00face zo z\u00e1bavy, po nich pre\u0161la \u010fal\u0161ia \u00fatrpn\u00e1 hodina a ja som len d\u00fafala, \u017ee si nev\u0161imn\u00fa, ako pla\u010dem. Boli to momenty, v ktor\u00fdch som sa c\u00edtila re\u00e1lne opusten\u00e1 a re\u00e1lne bezradn\u00e1. Sna\u017eila som sa vydr\u017ea\u0165 a nezavola\u0165 domov, aby sa o m\u0148a neb\u00e1li. No vedela som, \u017ee na jedno miesto zavola\u0165 m\u00f4\u017eem. Aj ke\u010f som o \u0148om vtedy len ledva vedela, m\u00f4j Boh vedel presne, \u010do sa mi deje; a narozdiel odo m\u0148a sa nec\u00edtil bezradne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pri modlitbe som s\u00edce nec\u00edtila Jeho fyzick\u00fa pr\u00edtomnos\u0165, ale vedela som, \u017ee som sa nerozpr\u00e1vala s plaf\u00f3nom. Vedela som, \u017ee zo zvl\u00e1\u0161tnych pr\u00ed\u010din s\u00edce za\u017e\u00edvam \u00fazkos\u0165, ale m\u00f4jmu srdcu je zvl\u00e1\u0161tne dobre. Nebola som sama. Ak sa dnes c\u00edti\u0161 s\u00e1m, \u010di u\u017e tomu ver\u00ed\u0161 alebo nie, neza\u017e\u00edva\u0161 najhor\u0161iu samotu. Skuto\u010dn\u00fa samotu za\u017eil Ten na kr\u00ed\u017ei, aby si ty naveky nemusel. <\/strong>Bo\u017eia l\u00e1ska k tebe je pr\u00edtomn\u00e1. S\u0165ahuje sa s tebou presne tam, kam ide\u0161 a ost\u00e1va. Nebal\u00ed si kufre; d\u00f4vody na to nem\u00e1, narozdiel od na\u0161ej je toti\u017e dokonal\u00e1, prav\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Spomenula som, \u017ee som v op\u00edsanom momente neza\u017eila Bo\u017eiu fyzick\u00fa pr\u00edtomnos\u0165, ale mo\u017eno svoju v\u00fdpove\u010f zmen\u00edm. Jedna zo spolub\u00fdvaj\u00facich na s\u00fastreden\u00ed pre\u0161la okolo mojej postele a tak, aby ju ostatn\u00e9 diev\u010dat\u00e1 nepo\u010duli, si ku mne sadla na poste\u013e a sp\u00fdtala sa, \u010di som v poriadku. Tu\u0161\u00edm si mi sadla na poste\u013e priamo Bo\u017eia starostlivos\u0165. Ak sa c\u00edti\u0161 s\u00e1m, zastav sa a pozri, \u010di sa n\u00e1hodou Bo\u017eia pr\u00edtomnos\u0165 v tvojom \u017eivote neprejavuje v niekom z tvojho okolia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u00e1m napr\u00edklad ist\u00fa kamar\u00e1tku, volajme ju Ema, ktor\u00e1 m\u00e1 to\u013eko kamar\u00e1tov, \u017ee jej \u00fazky v\u00fdber na narodeninov\u00fa oslavu pozost\u00e1val zo 100 pozvan\u00fdch. Ema je skvel\u00e1 osoba, skvelo sa s \u0148ou rozpr\u00e1va a t\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa \u010dasto c\u00edtia sami, jej mo\u017eno potichu jej po\u010det kamo\u0161ov z\u00e1vidia. Preto ma prekvapilo, ke\u010f som mala t\u00fa \u010des\u0165 a po\u010das prv\u00e9ho lockdownu mi zazvonil telef\u00f3n. Ema. Povedala mi nie\u010do, \u010do som absol\u00fatne ne\u010dakala: c\u00edtila sa sama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ema sa sama rozhodla, \u017ee nechce osta\u0165 sama. Komunikovala svoje potreby a povedala ich aj mnoh\u00fdm \u010fal\u0161\u00edm. Mne by ani v t\u00fdch d\u0148och nenapadlo jej zavola\u0165 alebo sa sp\u00fdta\u0165, ako sa m\u00e1 – nie preto, \u017ee by mi na nej nez\u00e1le\u017ealo, ale preto, lebo som si myslela, \u017ee to niekto u\u017e iste urobil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Navrhujem preto, aby sme vo chv\u00ed\u013each samoty sk\u00fasili neobvi\u0148ova\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed, ale miesto toho sa prizna\u0165, \u017ee potrebujeme rozhovor. K\u00fasok \u010dasu. Na\u0161i bl\u00edzki nie s\u00fa Boh a aj pri najlep\u0161\u00edch \u00famysloch nemusia vedie\u0165, \u017ee potrebujeme pomoc (i ke\u010f, no dobre, e\u0161te je tu Radca.) A dokonca sa ti pri komunikovan\u00ed svojich potrieb m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165, \u017ee vystrie\u0161 ruku k \u010fal\u0161iemu \u010dloveku, ktor\u00fd sa c\u00edti s\u00e1m. A odrazu obaja sami nie ste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00e1pem, \u017ee mo\u017eno \u010d\u00edta\u0161 tento \u010dl\u00e1nok so strachom, \u017ee op\u00e4\u0165 raz nejak\u00e9 rady proti osamelosti nezaber\u00fa. Ka\u017ed\u00fd zrejme samotu poci\u0165uje v in\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch, v inej intenzite a in\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom – a preto m\u00f4\u017eu existova\u0165 aj r\u00f4zne rie\u0161enia pre r\u00f4znych \u013eud\u00ed. P\u00ed\u0161em v\u0161ak o nie\u010dom, \u010do m\u00e1me v\u0161etci spolo\u010dn\u00e9: ka\u017ed\u00fd sa niekedy c\u00edtime osamelo a ka\u017ed\u00e9mu m\u00f4\u017ee tento pocit pripomen\u00fa\u0165 prirodzen\u00fa t\u00fa\u017ebu po pr\u00edtomnosti Toho, kto bol s nami \u00faplne prv\u00fd. No mo\u017eno ani poriadne nevie\u0161, o \u010dom a o Kom hovor\u00edm, preto\u017ee si poc\u00edtil bari\u00e9ru medzi <\/p>\n\n\n\n Bohom<\/p>\n\n\n\n a<\/p>\n\n\n\n tebou: <\/p>\n\n\n\n ka\u017ed\u00e9mu je v\u0161ak pon\u00faknut\u00e9 jej zni\u010denie ako rie\u0161enie osamelosti. Bola presk\u00faman\u00e1 do najmen\u0161\u00edch detailov svojej krutosti, a to pr\u00e1ve Je\u017ei\u0161om. Zaistil, \u017ee pocit samoty nemus\u00ed\u0161 pre\u017e\u00edva\u0165 nav\u017edy. On je ten ne\u017en\u00fd a z\u00e1rove\u0148 pevn\u00fd hlas, \u010do ti pripom\u00edna, \u017ee nie si s\u00e1m, aj ke\u010f si to u\u017e ty a ani druh\u00ed pripom\u00edna\u0165 nevl\u00e1dzu. Je\u017ei\u0161 na kr\u00ed\u017ei za\u017eil najni\u010divej\u0161ie n\u00e1sledky samoty, aby si ich nemusel pozna\u0165 tu, teraz a aj potom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Neutekaj pred Kristom. Nechce\u0161 by\u0165 s\u00e1m, ver mi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ver Mu.<\/p>\n\n\n [point-blog-link title=“Tento \u010dl\u00e1nok je z webu Druh\u00e9 \u0161ance.“ button-text=“Pokra\u010duj v \u010d\u00edtan\u00ed“ url=“https:\/\/www.druhesance.sk\/blog\/samota“]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fotografia: Gift Habeshaw<\/a>\/Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nikdy pred t\u00fdm sa mi to nestalo, a navy\u0161e to pre 13-ro\u010dn\u00e9 diev\u010da bola dos\u0165 tr\u00e1pna situ\u00e1cia. Bolo asi desa\u0165 hod\u00edn ve\u010der, v\u0161etci \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edci s\u00fastredenia hudobn\u00e9ho s\u00faboru sa dolu zab\u00e1vali, a ja som sa hore v izbe sna\u017eila za tlmen\u00e9ho zvuku z\u00e1bavy zaspa\u0165. 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