{"id":11757,"date":"2023-01-31T09:54:28","date_gmt":"2023-01-31T08:54:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/?p=11757"},"modified":"2025-02-19T09:52:01","modified_gmt":"2025-02-19T08:52:01","slug":"zacinat-rozhovory-sa-mozes-naucit-ako-na-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/zacinat-rozhovory-sa-mozes-naucit-ako-na-to\/","title":{"rendered":"Za\u010d\u00edna\u0165 rozhovory sa m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 nau\u010di\u0165. Ako na to?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Minule m\u00f4j syn len tak mimochodom spomenul, \u017ee sa mu zd\u00e1, \u017ee nie je dobr\u00fd v nadv\u00e4zovan\u00ed konverz\u00e1cie &#8211; najm\u00e4 s nov\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi. Pri rozhovore s \u013eu\u010fmi sa c\u00edti tr\u00e1pne a nedostato\u010dne. Povedal som mu, \u017ee ke\u010f m\u00e1 \u010dlovek probl\u00e9m nadviaza\u0165 rozhovor, nie je to ni\u010d nezvy\u010dajn\u00e9. Vn\u00edmam to ako zru\u010dnos\u0165, ktor\u00e1 sa u\u010d\u00ed, nie ako nie\u010do prirodzene dan\u00e9. Povedal som mu, \u017ee sa o tom niekedy porozpr\u00e1vame a podel\u00edm sa s t\u00fdm, \u010do som sa o tom za tie roky nau\u010dil.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Potom som si pomyslel &#8211; \u010do tak nap\u00edsa\u0165 nie\u010do pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch, najm\u00e4 pre ved\u00facich ml\u00e1de\u017ee, ktor\u00ed zrejme viac ako v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina potrebuj\u00fa vies\u0165 rozhovory s mlad\u00fdmi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dve mo\u017enosti<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pam\u00e4t\u00e1m si, \u017ee ke\u010f som pracoval pre jednu kres\u0165ansk\u00fa \u0161tudentsk\u00fa organiz\u00e1ciu v Texase, m\u00f4j \u0161\u00e9f mi dal \u00falohu &#8211; \u00eds\u0165 na verejn\u00fa stredn\u00fa \u0161kolu a stretn\u00fa\u0165 sa so \u0161tudentmi. Spom\u00ednam si, \u017ee som tam na strednej \u0161kole s 5000 \u0161tudentmi poznal jedn\u00e9ho \u0161tudenta. Ke\u010f som prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t vst\u00fapil do jed\u00e1lne, bol som riadne vydesen\u00fd. Bola tam z\u00e1plava \u0161tudentov (mo\u017eno 400 \u0161tudentov na obede) a \u017eiadna \u0161anca n\u00e1js\u0165 toho jedn\u00e9ho, ktor\u00e9ho som u\u017e poznal. Videl som to tak, \u017ee m\u00e1m len dve mo\u017enosti. Vr\u00e1ti\u0165 sa domov, alebo si sadn\u00fa\u0165 k stolu s cudz\u00edmi \u013eu\u010fmi a za\u010da\u0165 konverz\u00e1ciu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ver\u00edm, \u017ee Boh mi dal odvahu vybra\u0165 si druh\u00fa mo\u017enos\u0165. So spoten\u00fdmi rukami a b\u00fa\u0161iacim srdcom som si odtiahol stoli\u010dku a sadol si k stolu so \u0161estn\u00e1s\u0165ro\u010dn\u00fdmi. Bol to drsn\u00fd sp\u00f4sob, ako za\u010da\u0165 svoje \u0161kolenie v nadv\u00e4zovan\u00ed dobr\u00e9ho rozhovoru. Ale fungovalo to! Musel som pr\u00eds\u0165 na to, ako konverz\u00e1ciu nadviaza\u0165 &#8211; a to r\u00fdchlo!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ako za\u010da\u0165<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uvedomil som si, \u017ee m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 jednoducho pozorova\u0165 konkr\u00e9tne veci, ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1\u0161 pred o\u010dami, a pou\u017ei\u0165 tieto pozorovania, aby si \u013eahko za\u010dal rozhovor. Pravda, \u010dasto to nie je hlbok\u00e1 konverz\u00e1cia, ale ak pozorne po\u010d\u00fava\u0161, povrchn\u00e1 konverz\u00e1cia m\u00f4\u017ee r\u00fdchlo vies\u0165 k hlb\u0161\u00edm rozhovorom.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tu je zoznam vonkaj\u0161\u00edch pom\u00f4cok, s ktor\u00fdmi m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 \u013eahko za\u010da\u0165<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>fyzick\u00e9 znaky (vlasy, pehy, op\u00e1lenie, sp\u00e1lenie na slnku, potenie, chlad, o\u010di, zuby {stroj\u010dek}, nechty),<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0161perky a doplnky,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>makeup,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>pr\u00edzvuk,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>obuv,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>jazvy (ak\u00fd pr\u00edbeh sa skr\u00fdva za ka\u017edou z nich, porovnajte ich so svojimi a s \u010fal\u0161\u00edmi naokolo),<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>kond\u00edcia (svalnat\u00e1, \u0161t\u00edhla),<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>tetovanie a piercing (ak\u00fd je ich v\u00fdznam a pr\u00edbeh),<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>obr\u00e1zky alebo slogany na tri\u010dk\u00e1ch,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>oble\u010denie (\u0161t\u00fdly, zna\u010dky, log\u00e1, farby),<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>v\u00f4\u0148a (parfum, jedlo, dym),<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>n\u00e1lada (smutn\u00e1, nad\u0161en\u00e1, nerv\u00f3zna, pla\u010d\u00faca, depres\u00edvna, tich\u00e1, nahnevan\u00e1, unaven\u00e1).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tu je postup<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pozoruj charakteristiky \u010dloveka (\u013eud\u00ed) alebo nie\u010doho, \u010do m\u00e1 (maj\u00fa) na sebe.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sp\u00fdtaj sa na nie\u010do, alebo komentuj nie\u010do, \u010do vid\u00ed\u0161.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pozorne po\u010d\u00favaj v\u0161etky detaily.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Inform\u00e1cie, ktor\u00e9 si po\u010dul, pou\u017ei ako z\u00e1klad \u010fal\u0161\u00edch ot\u00e1zok, ALEBO povedz nie\u010do o sebe, \u010do s\u00favis\u00ed s inform\u00e1ciami, ktor\u00e9 si po\u010dul.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ako m\u00f4\u017ee prebieha\u0165 rozhovor?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Pr\u00edklad ako za\u010da\u0165 len tri\u010dkom<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>(Ja) Ahoj, ja som Zac.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Ahoj, ja som Marek.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Super tri\u010dko. P\u00e1\u010di sa ti t\u00e1 kapela? (potla\u010d Guns and Roses)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Ani nie. K\u00fapila mi ho mama.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Aha, mama ti kupuje v\u0161etko oble\u010denie?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Nie! Bol to viano\u010dn\u00fd dar\u010dek.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Jaj, jasn\u00e9, chcel som poveda\u0165 &#8211; si u\u017e trochu star\u00fd na to, aby ti oble\u010denie kupovala mama.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Ale mne vyhovuje, ke\u010f mi oble\u010denie k\u00fapi, preto\u017ee nem\u00e1m peniaze.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Pozn\u00e1m ten pocit. Tak\u017ee nem\u00e1\u0161 pr\u00e1cu, kde by si nie\u010do zarobil?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) \u00c1no, pracujem v McDonalde, ale nezarob\u00edm a\u017e tak ve\u013ea.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Aha, super, ako si sa&nbsp; k tej pr\u00e1ci dostal?&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) M\u00f4j otec vlastn\u00ed McDonalds u n\u00e1s v meste.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) \u010co, v\u00e1\u017ene!? Milujem McDonalds. Najrad\u0161ej m\u00e1m McRoyal. D\u00e1vam si ho \u00faplne v\u017edycky. Po pr\u00e1ci tam u\u017e asi neje\u0161, v\u0161ak?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Presne tak. Je mi zle, u\u017e len ke\u010f to c\u00edtim.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Tak tomu ver\u00edm. Ako sa tvoj otec dostal k podnikaniu v McDonalde?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Jeho brat vlastn\u00ed McDonalds v Lond\u00fdne. Tak sa rozhodol, \u017ee to sk\u00fasi.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Videl si film o tom, ako v 50. rokoch vznikol McDonalds?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) \u00c1no, bol to \u0161ialen\u00fd pr\u00edbeh.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Si z\u00e1stanca jedla z McDonaldu alebo si mysl\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee nie je zdrav\u00e9?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) &#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Pr\u00edklad ako za\u010da\u0165 len n\u00e1ladou<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>(Ja) Ahoj, ja som Zac.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudentka) Ja som Kika.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Hej, vyzer\u00e1\u0161 akoby ti nebolo ve\u013emi dobre. Si v poriadku?&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudentka) Mama ma prin\u00fatila pr\u00eds\u0165 sem (do t\u00e1bora).&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Och, to ma mrz\u00ed. Chcela by si by\u0165 rad\u0161ej niekde inde?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudentka) \u00c1no, doma na prech\u00e1dzke so psom.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Ty m\u00e1\u0161 psa? Ja m\u00e1m tie\u017e psa. A ak\u00e9ho?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudentka) Je to nemeck\u00e9 plemeno.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Never\u00edm! Je to weimarsk\u00fd stva\u010d?&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudentka) Ako vie\u0161?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Aj ja ho m\u00e1m!!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudentka) \u010cosi! M\u00e1\u0161 fotku?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Jasn\u00e9. Ako sa vol\u00e1 ten tvoj?&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudentka) &#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Pr\u00edklad ako za\u010da\u0165 len op\u00e1len\u00edm<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>(Ja) Ahoj, ja som Zac.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Ja som Ri\u0161o<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) \u010cau, wow, ty si riadne op\u00e1len\u00fd.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Hej, pr\u00e1ve som sa vr\u00e1til z Chorv\u00e1tska.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) \u00c1no? To je \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 miesto na dovolenku!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Vlastne to nebola dovolenka. \u017dije tam m\u00f4j otec.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Aha, ale ty \u017eije\u0161 na Slovensku?&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) No, moji rodi\u010dia s\u00fa rozveden\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Och, to ma mrz\u00ed. U\u017e je to dlho, \u010do sa rozviedli?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Vlastne to bolo len pred 4 mesiacmi.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) To mi je ve\u013emi \u013e\u00fato. Ako to zvl\u00e1da\u0161?&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) E\u0161te sa st\u00e1le dos\u0165 hnev\u00e1m. Hlavne na otca.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Naozaj? On bol ten hlavn\u00fd probl\u00e9m?&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) \u00c1no, podv\u00e1dzal moju mamu.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Hej. Aj ja som vo vz\u0165ahu s man\u017eelkou urobil nejak\u00e9 chyby. D\u00f4vera je v man\u017eelstve v\u0161etk\u00fdm.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(\u0160tudent) Len by som si prial, aby sa viac sna\u017eili nejak to vyrie\u0161i\u0165.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>(Ja) Som r\u00e1d, \u017ee si tento v\u00edkend pri\u0161iel. Budeme sa ma\u0165 dobre. Po\u010f, poz\u00fdvam \u0165a na zmrzlinu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak \u0165a tento \u010dl\u00e1nok zaujal, odpor\u00fa\u010dame ti aj \u010fal\u0161ie zo s\u00e9rie o po\u010d\u00favan\u00ed od Darinky Malej. Prv\u00fd z nich n\u00e1jde\u0161 tu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-fe48e5de wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/2022\/02\/pocuvam-1-a-predsa-nepocujem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Po\u010d\u00favam 1: \u2026a predsa nepo\u010dujem<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Minule m\u00f4j syn len tak mimochodom spomenul, \u017ee sa mu zd\u00e1, \u017ee nie je dobr\u00fd v nadv\u00e4zovan\u00ed konverz\u00e1cie &#8211; najm\u00e4 s nov\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi. Pri rozhovore s \u013eu\u010fmi sa c\u00edti tr\u00e1pne a nedostato\u010dne. Povedal som mu, \u017ee ke\u010f m\u00e1 \u010dlovek probl\u00e9m nadviaza\u0165 rozhovor, nie je to ni\u010d nezvy\u010dajn\u00e9. Vn\u00edmam to ako zru\u010dnos\u0165, ktor\u00e1 sa u\u010d\u00ed, nie&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":11758,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_seopress_robots_follow":"","_seopress_robots_imageindex":"","_seopress_robots_snippet":"","_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_robots_breadcrumbs":"","_seopress_robots_freeze_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_custom_modified_date":"","_seopress_robots_canonical":"","_seopress_social_fb_title":"","_seopress_social_fb_desc":"","_seopress_social_fb_img":"","_seopress_social_fb_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_fb_img_height":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_title":"","_seopress_social_twitter_desc":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img":"","_seopress_social_twitter_img_attachment_id":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_width":0,"_seopress_social_twitter_img_height":0,"_seopress_redirections_value":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled":"","_seopress_redirections_enabled_regex":"","_seopress_redirections_logged_status":"","_seopress_redirections_param":"","_seopress_redirections_type":0,"_seopress_analysis_target_kw":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[335,334],"tags":[190,78],"class_list":["post-11757","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ako-na-to","category-trenovat","tag-pocuvanie","tag-rozhovor"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":335,"label":"Ako na to"},{"value":334,"label":"Tr\u00e9nova\u0165"}],"post_tag":[{"value":190,"label":"po\u010d\u00favanie"},{"value":78,"label":"rozhovor"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/DSC00895-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Zac Shepperson","author_link":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/author\/zac-shepperson\/"},"comment_info":"","category_info":[{"term_id":335,"name":"Ako na to","slug":"ako-na-to","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":335,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":334,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":335,"category_count":69,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Ako na to","category_nicename":"ako-na-to","category_parent":334},{"term_id":334,"name":"Tr\u00e9nova\u0165","slug":"trenovat","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":334,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":140,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":334,"category_count":140,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Tr\u00e9nova\u0165","category_nicename":"trenovat","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":[{"term_id":190,"name":"po\u010d\u00favanie","slug":"pocuvanie","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":190,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":7,"filter":"raw"},{"term_id":78,"name":"rozhovor","slug":"rozhovor","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":78,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":50,"filter":"raw"}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11757","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11757"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11757\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11758"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11757"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11757"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pointonline.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}